Yari Perez? know her?

I used to see her an really would like to talk to her....I know she is from San Jose and has 2 little girls...if u have any info on how I could find her

concerned soldier wrote:

I used to see her an really would like to talk to her....I know she is from San Jose and has 2 little girls...if u have any info on how I could find her

Is she Mexican? Are her two little kids name
Hailey and Madison. Well she got dumped by this one military guy Then a month later married some military guy. She has another kid. Changed her name to yari selbo. Try finding her on fb... Were you guys used to date?

Btw. I used to be friends with her. She's not worth
It. She meet this military guy and was engaged then they didn't work out so she meet this other military guy name Robbie. They weren't even serious and she claimed to be married to him which they weren't at all. She gotten a tattOo of his last name on her back. Then she meet some other military guy who has the same name as the last guy. Well it didn't work out
Now she's with this other military guy. They are married. Just had a baby with him. They are stationed in Virginia. Heard this from her family. Hope this helps.

thanks for the info. its been a while and iwas just woried about her and yes you have the right one. i loved that girl but i had a feeling she was just with me because of the military but she was a really nice woman and i loved those 2 little girls.

I guess she has that effect on ppl. From what she told me before... She has gotten married a month after a guy that was in the military dumped her. She knew he was engaged but she kept trying. Oh well. She's jumps from men to men. Well if you think she was after your benefits then I hope you weren't trying to get back with her. She prob play you like a deck of cards. When the dude that dumped her she claimed to be pregnant. I'm not sure if she was or not. I think age said so she can keep him around. I'm glad we aren't friends. She was a sweet girl but goodness...

Are you the one that was engaged to her? One one that she brOke off and left to be with another soldier? If you are she brought up that she agreed because you or him was good to her and can take good care of her kids. It wasn't love to begin with. It sad. I'm sorry if you are him. Bright side. Its not you getting played.

she didnt play me...trust me and i think she really cared..who knows maybe you are right..i hope she is ok and that madi n haley are doin fine..i miss them and that feeling i had when i was with her though...a family of my own ws kinda nice and now it just seems cold and i think thats why i miss her...she is such a beautiful girl...ahhh and no we were never engaged

Why won't you find her and contact her. Talking as friends won't hurt. Her husband name is Carl... Maybe that can help you get somewhere. Are you in Cali?

its complicated i guess and no im not in cali....

Don't hurt to try. Anyone can be friends. Helps give you a sense of closure I guess. There shouldn't be a reason why she shut you out
Of you haven't done anything to piss her off.

i did piss her off lol...i left her hangin and i guess now i just wantt her to know i really cared and always will

A tad late don't ya think. There's always someone there. When did you guys date?

idk if i miss her or just the feeling of having a family or someone who cared and yes it might b a little late which is why im not tryin too hard
"always somone there"? what? and its been a lil while but not too long dont wanna give out too much info...that would give up my identity

Lol. Your identity. Silly. It won't matter. I don't talk to her. Lol. I meant. There's always someone Out there for ya. I think you just missing her because of that family feeling. I notice she uses her girls in a way and at times have them call her bf dads. Like make the guys feel like they will have a happy family and whatever blah blah blah... I know most military men wants to be married and have a family. It's easier to target military men for her, due to that I guess. I was just asking. Cause from when I know her she was dating different military men like every two month. If your not any of the four men with the time period of last year till now. If you guys happen to date around then. I'm pretty sure you was cheated on. It was weird cause the ones she date she says I love you and stuff. I think she use that just cause. I don't think it's real. She say it all the time to all of them. She don't know them for that long. Like less than 3 months and would plan or talk about marriage with the past men. I just find her trying hard to get married.

i might have been in that time frame....and idk if she would have cheated on me...ok and i do miss that feeling and madi did mumble out dada a few times and it just melted my heart....now im in a bad situation i guess and im just trying to remember what being happy was about....are u a female lol...

Well if you have. She might of cheated on you or made you into a side dude. She likes to use guilt trips on dudes in a subliminal way. Have her kids call her bf daddy and stuff. Yes I'm a female lol. There will be another girl out there. Plus a girl where you can start a family on your own not start out with a family. When something goes bad with her in a relationship. She give them guilt trips. Saying my kids been calling you daddy. So on or I'm pregnant. Dude she's 23 and her oldest is 7 explains alot. Not to be judging. Then go off and date just "military" every guy last no kore than two months. Plus each of them
She gives out the "I love you" and talks about marriage? That does not sound normal. To me it don't. Come on she was messing with an engaged man she told me his fiancé was pregnant... Crap forgot her name.

for haley being so old...it wasnt her fault but she has made the best out of it and had done a great job with the girls....they are wonderful and she never had them call me daddy....haley wanted to and she honestly loved me...when things were bad and yari was mad haley would call me and stuff just to talk and tell me she missed me but when momma caught her it was over lol...i will always miss those 2 and as for yari i think she will always have her part to because shes the olny woman that has made me feel like that.....you think you could dear?

you seem like a very bright girl...you need a good guy?

Yes it wasn't her fault. But her decisions are t the greatest. If she's willing to fly from Cali to WA to mess with a guy and leave her kids back home. To me that is wrong. As a women your kids come first. It's sad cause those girls are exposed to many different men. I wouldn't aloud that if it was me. Just saying. Lol. I'm sorry but I have to pass up on your offer. There will be other women out there that will treat you great and love on you. Maybe you can start a family on your own.

Just least consider. When a women all of a sudden jumps into "love you" and wanna talk about marriage before the third month Is over plus most of their exes are military plus being married before... You just gotta be careful with that. Women now a days can't be trusted.