White Guys: Would you date a black girl? Elaborate

i am a blq girk from south africa and seriously attracted to white guys, wen and other races, i have dated indians, whites, egyptions, coloureds, blacks and mixed races, but i feel attracked to whites either way, is ther any one out ther for me???

MissAlabama2010 wrote:

<quoted text>Thats adorable. Love to hear stories like that.....Awesome.

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lisa wrote:

I am a black femalewho is married to a white man and yes we live in virginia in williamsburg and believe me there is a lot of racism around here. I am 27 and he is 29 and we been together since I.was 14. Now we got 5 beautiful birracial children who.are spoiled as ever lol but we.love them to death and I love my white boy and.he love me more. I'm only attracted to white men that have a lil thug in him like my hubby. Everyone be blessed!!!

awwww. see this is what i like to hear - people that overcome racism from people around em and embrace love <3
you and your husband sound like a shining example of an inter-racial couple!

I didn't used to be attracted to black women at all. But the last few years, I find that I am so much more attracted to them than white girls. I've had a good number of very attractrwhite girls interested in me during that time, but I just didn't feel the same.
I'm not sure exactly what it is. I just find black women a lot more sexier, they definitely have better bodies. I find it a lot easier to talk to them. My problem is that I live in a town of about 40,000 and there is like maybe 3% here. I haven't been in a relationship in a few years, and attraction is one of the main reasons there.

Ironguy wrote:

I didn't used to be attracted to black women at all. But the last few years, I find that I am so much more attracted to them than white girls. I've had a good number of very attractrwhite girls interested in me during that time, but I just didn't feel the same.
I'm not sure exactly what it is. I just find black women a lot more sexier, they definitely have better bodies. I find it a lot easier to talk to them. My problem is that I live in a town of about 40,000 and there is like maybe 3% here. I haven't been in a relationship in a few years, and attraction is one of the main reasons there.

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Onessa wrote:

it's just been puzzling me recently, just want to hear everyone's opinion!

I'm a 25 year old white male who lives in east Texas, I was born and raised in the suburbs of Dallas, Texas. I personally believe that everyone has their own preferences when it comes to finding a woman attractive. Speaking on behalf of myself, skin color is probably one of the last things I would consider, if I even consider it at all. I have dated white, Hispanic, puerto rican, and two black girls in my life. Yes, the majority have been white but that's not to say that is my " preferable" race of choice. Onessa, you are right. Personality plays a huge role in determining what makes a woman attractive. Of course looks are important as I believe without physical attraction no intimate relationship can work. IMO, to hell with society and what they think. As mushy as it sounds, follow your heart. At the end of the day when your ready to cuddle up with your girl, you better be doing it because it makes YOU happy, what's not important is what your "friends" think. If your friends act like asses bc of the race of your gf/bf then they are not true friends and they are not needed in your life to begin with

Whiteguyintexas wrote:

<quoted text>I'm a 25 year old white male who lives in east Texas, I was born and raised in the suburbs of Dallas, Texas. I personally believe that everyone has their own preferences when it comes to finding a woman attractive. Speaking on behalf of myself, skin color is probably one of the last things I would consider, if I even consider it at all. I have dated white, Hispanic, puerto rican, and two black girls in my life. Yes, the majority have been white but that's not to say that is my " preferable" race of choice. Onessa, you are right. Personality plays a huge role in determining what makes a woman attractive. Of course looks are important as I believe without physical attraction no intimate relationship can work. IMO, to hell with society and what they think. As mushy as it sounds, follow your heart. At the end of the day when your ready to cuddle up with your girl, you better be doing it because it makes YOU happy, what's not important is what your "friends" think. If your friends act like asses bc of the race of your gf/bf then they are not true friends and they are not needed in your life to begin with

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& iF tHis gEneratiOn iZ aBout aNytHing. itZ aBout Change.

xxchellabellaxx wrote:

<quoted text>i aGree witH u FuLLy iF rAce mAtters wEn u dAte sOme1 thN u R jUst aS iGnirAnt aS thEy wEre 100 yEars aGo.
& iF tHis gEneratiOn iZ aBout aNytHing. itZ aBout Change.

*iGnorant (my B.:P)

Whiteguyintexas wrote:

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I'm a 25 year old white male who lives in east Texas, I was born and raised in the suburbs of Dallas, Texas. I personally believe that everyone has their own preferences when it comes to finding a woman attractive. Speaking on behalf of myself, skin color is probably one of the last things I would consider, if I even consider it at all. I have dated white, Hispanic, puerto rican, and two black girls in my life. Yes, the majority have been white but that's not to say that is my " preferable" race of choice. Onessa, you are right. Personality plays a huge role in determining what makes a woman attractive. Of course looks are important as I believe without physical attraction no intimate relationship can work. IMO, to hell with society and what they think. As mushy as it sounds, follow your heart. At the end of the day when your ready to cuddle up with your girl, you better be doing it because it makes YOU happy, what's not important is what your "friends" think. If your friends act like asses bc of the race of your gf/bf then they are not true friends and they are not needed in your life to begin with

i dont think it could have been said any better!

Ironguy wrote:

I didn't used to be attracted to black women at all. But the last few years, I find that I am so much more attracted to them than white girls. I've had a good number of very attractrwhite girls interested in me during that time, but I just didn't feel the same.
I'm not sure exactly what it is. I just find black women a lot more sexier, they definitely have better bodies. I find it a lot easier to talk to them. My problem is that I live in a town of about 40,000 and there is like maybe 3% here. I haven't been in a relationship in a few years, and attraction is one of the main reasons there.

i was the same - i think it was roughly 3 and a half years ago that i started to become more attracted to black women - mostly due to my school changing our classes (we used to have 2 halves of the year with different timetables, they started to mix them) and i met some very nice black girls.

aaah sucks about the 3%:/ although saying that, thats still 1,200 black women in your town!

xxchellabellaxx wrote:

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i aGree witH u FuLLy iF rAce mAtters wEn u dAte sOme1 thN u R jUst aS iGnirAnt aS thEy wEre 100 yEars aGo.
& iF tHis gEneratiOn iZ aBout aNytHing. itZ aBout Change.

agreed. people shouldn't decide whether or not to date someone purely on race. i have a friend who says he would never date a black girl - which is stupid (meanwhile his best friend liked one of the girls i did in school). and yeah, 100 years ago people were a LOT more ignorant than they are now. if a white man was with a black women or a black man was with a white women.... well all hell would break loose and somebody would probably end up dead, if not both of them.(in some states and countries)
unfortunately we still have people that have inherited their parents or grandparents prejudices, but that was bound to happen :P

and what you said about this generation - Thank god were a part of it! i went to an INCREDIBLY mixed school, and i loved it. its the same with my college, and i know its going to be the same with my university. i can honestly say i love looking around the campus and seeing a great mix of people of different race and backgrounds - for example theres a girl in one of my classes whos family is from Zimbabwe, theres someone from Poland, someone from india, someone from pakistan, someone from iran, someone from holland, and thats just 1 class.

^forgot to mention my end point

Mixed couples are now more common then ever in this generation - and i think that we should all be proud to be a part of that generation :)

lambey wrote:

^forgot to mention my end point
Mixed couples are now more common then ever in this generation - and i think that we should all be proud to be a part of that generation :)

It is a disgrace!

Well the 3% is the total black population. So that includes old people, guys, kids...etc. Not sure what the actual amount of single black women ages 18-35 are.
I wasn't sure if generally speaking...black usually go for white guys. I am 30, 6'5" about 220, lean muscular build, but have a light beard, and long hair. I do keep myself well kept though. Wasn't sure if long hair is a turn-off, usually keep it back in a pony tail though. Yeah, I'm sure why...there's just something about a nice looking black woman that I find so much more sexy than the majority of white girls...and I could definitely see myself dating one even a lot of my friends I know would be against it. I don't really care about that though.

lambey wrote:

^forgot to mention my end point

Mixed couples are now more common then ever in this generation - and i think that we should all be proud to be a part of that generation :)

& Of CoUrse haha wE sHould bE VeRy pRouD oF tHe pRogress tHt's bEen mAde

Ironguy wrote:

6'5"

lucky sod ¬_¬

I've never understood those claims that black females are "too masculine". How are those building up that theory? If we keep eyes and mind open we easily find that it's black females who really have sense of beauty to clothe and make up themselves really "feminine".

Then there's also that "angry bf" myth. I'm eager to find that nonsense generator and reveal it to social media.

lambey wrote:

<quoted text>lucky sod ¬_¬

haHaa y Lambey, hOw tAll r u..? lol

about 5'7 ish i think

what about you?