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Sep 9, 2007
 
70% of black women are single more than ANY other race of women....Why do you think this is?

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Because alot are already single mothers of children by multiple daddys? And hey if they are that easy why marry them?

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70% of black women are single.

78% of black women are overweight( 50% are obese).

Why is this never mentioned when this question is asked? All the explanations are taking shots at black men and pointing to them as the problem. If black men are truly the problem then how come 70% percent of them aren't single? Also there are a lot of other races that exist on this earth. If there are no available black men, then why don't they date and marry men from other races? Is it that black women are so loyal/stubborn/stupid that they continue to hold out for a black men. Why?? According to a lot of black women, we're the scum of the earth. We're either locked up, gay, or only like white women( None of this is actually true,black women are no better than the Klan)? Why would you hold out for us? Maybe it's that men of other races aren't interested either( Again 78% of black women are overweight 50% are obese).

Most Black women are single cause there's a shortage of quality BLACK WOMEN.

Black women are the most self rightoues, hypocritical creatures on the planet. Nothing is their fault. They can't find or keep a man, and everyone in the whole wide world but black women are to blame, the media, hollywood, and black men.

To all the angry black women out there, if you can't find or keep a man, Maybe YOU'RE the problem.

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Sep 22, 2007
 
Tito78 wrote:
70% of black women are single.
78% of black women are overweight( 50% are obese).
Why is this never mentioned when this question is asked? All the explanations are taking shots at black men and pointing to them as the problem. If black men are truly the problem then how come 70% percent of them aren't single? Also there are a lot of other races that exist on this earth. If there are no available black men, then why don't they date and marry men from other races? Is it that black women are so loyal/stubborn/stupid that they continue to hold out for a black men. Why?? According to a lot of black women, we're the scum of the earth. We're either locked up, gay, or only like white women( None of this is actually true,black women are no better than the Klan)? Why would you hold out for us? Maybe it's that men of other races aren't interested either( Again 78% of black women are overweight 50% are obese).
Most Black women are single cause there's a shortage of quality BLACK WOMEN.
Black women are the most self rightoues, hypocritical creatures on the planet. Nothing is their fault. They can't find or keep a man, and everyone in the whole wide world but black women are to blame, the media, hollywood, and black men.
To all the angry black women out there, if you can't find or keep a man, Maybe YOU'RE the problem.
Man...you just pissed off a lot of black ladies...
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Sep 30, 2007
 
I agree 100% with Tito78. You talk with blk women all day about what's wrong with a lot of blk men-but the moment you start examining the attitudes & the probs. of blk women the music stops. They rarely place the responsibility of the faults of ANY black woman on the shoulders of that woman. & IF you can get one to do so, they place the origin of the bad behavior on some black man in that woman's life somewhere. PLUS, why do they think having a NASTY attitude is a sign of strenght. How twisted! Its a sign that you broke down somewhere mentally. Its a difference between not puttin up with a cheating man & just being nasty to everybody around you. NO not ALL blk women are like this, but many. Blk men & blk wmem (overall) need to wk on a lot. But I fear blk wmn never will-because they won't admit they have ANYTHING to wk ON. But they'll point out YOUR flaws 4 you tho LOL.
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Oct 8, 2007
 
Tito78 wrote:
70% of black women are single.
78% of black women are overweight( 50% are obese).
Why is this never mentioned when this question is asked? All the explanations are taking shots at black men and pointing to them as the problem. If black men are truly the problem then how come 70% percent of them aren't single? Also there are a lot of other races that exist on this earth. If there are no available black men, then why don't they date and marry men from other races? Is it that black women are so loyal/stubborn/stupid that they continue to hold out for a black men. Why?? According to a lot of black women, we're the scum of the earth. We're either locked up, gay, or only like white women( None of this is actually true,black women are no better than the Klan)? Why would you hold out for us? Maybe it's that men of other races aren't interested either( Again 78% of black women are overweight 50% are obese).
Most Black women are single cause there's a shortage of quality BLACK WOMEN.
Black women are the most self rightoues, hypocritical creatures on the planet. Nothing is their fault. They can't find or keep a man, and everyone in the whole wide world but black women are to blame, the media, hollywood, and black men.
To all the angry black women out there, if you can't find or keep a man, Maybe YOU'RE the problem.
Actually I agree with alot of what's been said here. But I can't tell you how many times a black man will complain about a black woman's weight and will get with a white/hispanic overweight woman. I hate to see black men or women taking shots at each other. It doesn't do anything.
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Oct 17, 2007
 
I love the black woman as she is same as me and my family culture. If you men say nobody want the black woman, well i do. I am dark and you womean are lovely for me, Badeep, so send me the black women and i take them and love them all!!!
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Oct 19, 2007
 
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So? If the shoe fits their fat-ass foot, let 'em wear it. Many black men like slim white women. They don't cave in the sofa every time they sit on it.
The more for me to do my loving. Save it all for me! The bigger the cushin for the pushin. She won't need to be on a couch I will not let her out of the bed. Slim white women dont want dark meat they are like little boys (nothing to hold on to).

“Badeep is deep”

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Oct 19, 2007
 
Have you ever been with black woman, they do great. I see them come to my shop everyday. I think of them when if make the donut. You dont miss not having what you have.

“Badeep is deep”

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Oct 19, 2007
 
You win!
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Nov 1, 2007
 
Ahmed Morris Sucks wrote:
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So? If the shoe fits their fat-ass foot, let 'em wear it. Many black men like slim white women. They don't cave in the sofa every time they sit on it.
a black guy told me i was too skinny and i'm a black female..i'm confused.So i gained 10 pounds when i was 14 years old to be 120 pounds, and i really disliked it. now at 18 years old i'm 5'4 and 116 pounds but i would like to be 110. i've just learned to ignore black guys and do what i feel is best. if i'm too skinny then oh well, because black guys are so confused and don't know what they want and trying to please them you will only hurt yourself.
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Nov 1, 2007
 
Judging by your picture, you could take off a few pounds yourself Ahmed. To all the black women in here: stay strong. If you are overweight and don't want to be-lose it. If you love yourself, find someone who loves you and forget about black men. I'm an educated, beautiful black woman who used to think black men were kings. However, after all the abuse they heap on us, I think they are better off with white women. I say let's be the best we can be, but let's not go down with the ship. Patel, tell your asian, latino and white brothers to get ready-here we come. Skinny, fat, pretty, ugly and all. Ahmed, I wonder what your mother would say. She is a black woman is she not?
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Black (ALL) women are scum. In this era, it is the man's fault for every wrong on Earth. I believe that a day is coming where for once all of the ills of the earth will point back to the true culprit, THE MOTHER. All of the abused sons, lonely men, neglected fathers, its all the woman's fault. These creature go through life with little to no true stress. They do not have to worry about measuring up. I am a black man in the my 30's, to this very day NOT ONE black woman has EVER approached me with anything other than hate and disrespect. I have no attraction to black women. They register as nothing in me. If black women want white men, they can have them. Women in general have dug a hole for themselves and men are paying the price. At some point the rubber band is gonna pop and the myth of the "empowered female" is going to die a horrible death. And never again will women ever be respected in the same way. They all are going to pay for all of the wrong they have done. All of the hurt they have put on men. The mother is going to pay for all of the boys and men who have been denied the right to cry by a snickering woman overhead. Watching and waiting for any and every chance she can get to put a man down. You all will see, all in good time. Black women in particular have done a job and have killed black men. I sit here alone tonight not because I chose too but because of women who do not have in in themselves to not judge a man before they know his name. All they do is judge, indeed they are the scum of the earth. Hate against all women is rising. As it would for any abuser.
Emmanuel

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WOW!!! So much hate. Thanks, I can use it to prove so many things about what men say and what they think at the next ladies meeting. Guys, is this an answer or the promlem.

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I was at a Best Buy store on Friday evening purchasing a new cell phone. A (wannabe pimp) black man and two (rather overweight and loud) black women - each with a child about the same age in strollers - were behind me in line. This was in a solidly middle-class area, and it's a normally quiet store, so I was completely unprepared for what happened next.

Thanks to BB's computer crashing, the transaction was taking much longer than usual. I (well, the whole store, really) was able to hear the group arguing amongst themselves and got a fascinating insight to their personal lives. Apparently 'pops' was *both* of their baby's daddy, and they were friends who were arguing about who got more child support, who ruined who's credit, and who he was going to get a cell phone for. They were both swearing at the top of their lungs and threatening to 'whoop the shit out of' their children for daring to try and escape their strollers. Apparently they got fed up that my 'white ass was taking so long' and walked out to eat at the Burger King next door.

My wife caught part of this exchange (she had been next door but came over before I was finished) and we talked about it in the car on the way home. We both wondered why these two women would subject themselves to getting pregnant by the same man who obviously had no intention of marrying (or staying true to) either one of them. Since we doubted either of them had decently paying jobs, perhaps they had the babies for financial stability (i.e., support, welfare, etc.)?

More than anything else, I felt sorry for the kids. They're obviously verbally abused - possibly physically - and they're going to grow up just as screwed up as their mothers because of it.

“Badeep is deep”

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Nov 5, 2007
 
Dollie wrote:
Judging by your picture, you could take off a few pounds yourself Ahmed. To all the black women in here: stay strong. If you are overweight and don't want to be-lose it. If you love yourself, find someone who loves you and forget about black men. I'm an educated, beautiful black woman who used to think black men were kings. However, after all the abuse they heap on us, I think they are better off with white women. I say let's be the best we can be, but let's not go down with the ship. Patel, tell your asian, latino and white brothers to get ready-here we come. Skinny, fat, pretty, ugly and all. Ahmed, I wonder what your mother would say. She is a black woman is she not?
I am awaiting with my asian, latino, and indian brothers to smother your pretty brown skin with excotic oils. I am at the Art District in Santa Ana, CA waiting.

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TRUTH wrote:
Black (ALL) women are scum. In this era, it is the man's fault for every wrong on Earth. I believe that a day is coming where for once all of the ills of the earth will point back to the true culprit, THE MOTHER. All of the abused sons, lonely men, neglected fathers, its all the woman's fault. These creature go through life with little to no true stress. They do not have to worry about measuring up. I am a black man in the my 30's, to this very day NOT ONE black woman has EVER approached me with anything other than hate and disrespect. I have no attraction to black women. They register as nothing in me. If black women want white men, they can have them. Women in general have dug a hole for themselves and men are paying the price. At some point the rubber band is gonna pop and the myth of the "empowered female" is going to die a horrible death. And never again will women ever be respected in the same way. They all are going to pay for all of the wrong they have done. All of the hurt they have put on men. The mother is going to pay for all of the boys and men who have been denied the right to cry by a snickering woman overhead. Watching and waiting for any and every chance she can get to put a man down. You all will see, all in good time. Black women in particular have done a job and have killed black men. I sit here alone tonight not because I chose too but because of women who do not have in in themselves to not judge a man before they know his name. All they do is judge, indeed they are the scum of the earth. Hate against all women is rising. As it would for any abuser.
Do you even like women? Or you prefer the man? Or the animal? You don't know what you miss.
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Dec 28, 2007
 
Black men are a bunch of fools. Every other person from other countries come over here and do better then you. You want to be like the so called pimps and thugs you see on tv. You don't own anything. All u want is talk crap with your chest out and everybody is in you own country laughing at u. You are a bunch of dead beat clowns. And the ones who r educated u start thinking u r too good 4 a black woman. The man is suppose to be the head. If u act like a bunch of savages what the hell do u expect from your women. Ladies wake up. There are many other men from other race and culture who find us worthy. They r not so easy to approach because they don't want to deal with these losers either. Don't have any babies by them unless they are ready to marry. F**k them. For the brothers who are good men there are just too little of u to notice and I'm sorry 2 offend u. This goes out 4 them weak stupid pigs.
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The problem is not white vs. black women..the problem is American women. Did you know 2/3 to 3/4 of all American divorces are filed by women. The divorse rate between 2 Americans is 50-60% and in Cali it is as high as 75%. Compare that to a divorce rate between an American/foriegner at 10-20%. Also studies show women are more satisfied w/ the outcomes of divorce (financialy/custody) than men are.
If you are an American man think about marrying a foreigner...and you are better off w/ someone who was born and raised in another country (except for western countries). Women from other countries (Mexico, COlumbia, Poland etc.) will respect you as a man and they will NOT use sex as a weapon like American women do. Look it up on the net and you will be confinced to marry a foreigner.
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Dec 29, 2007
 
Exactly What I'm saying. Its not all men who have this problem. Its the american men. Not black or white pink or browm its all about ones culture and how they were raised.
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