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gauri shaikh wrote:

now you turn what/how is a typical hindu wedding is like????? except that saath phera please......

A typical Hindu wedding in India...well its hard to generalize because the customs vary a lot from north to the south, and east to west of India.

In the north, its a lot of dance/music stuff, baraat, mehendi,..it's like a festival. There are some poojas and stuff.
It typically spans over 1 week. The groom rides a horse in the baraat, and his family/friends dance around with loud music.

Other than 7 fere, there is standard "kanya daan" where the girls father hands over the bride to the groom seeking assurance that he will treat her well/protect her. Then the bidai thing is quite dramatic and emotional for the bride and her family.
The wedding ceremony is often attended by 500-800 people. People spend a lot, sometimes a lifetime's saving on it. And I am talking about typical middle class. The food has to be good. It's always veggie. It's a matter of prestige for the hosting side.

In the south I believe they have similar customs. I think there is no dance music stuff. But rest of the things are similar, with some variations.

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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may i know where jinnah stated that holy book is way to old, i have gone links and links even i have quotations on quotations books of jinnah i can not find this statement.

well he said "forget about religion, its way too old". I will provide you the link.

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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thanks for caring globe.........
all are safe and sound with the grace of ALLAH, no that is not my university.

good to know. Even as we talk, another bomb goes off in Pissawar and kills 105. And now the terrorists are even targeting women and children.
It is very unfortunate that innocent civilians have to suffer for the mistakes of their past govts/army/isi.

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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baby what are you shame on? i think you are talikng about the 1 page comments.

she is ashamed that you are dancing on this forum and clapping your hands in front of us - "kafir" na-moharams. ;-)

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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A typical Hindu wedding in India...well its hard to generalize because the customs vary a lot from north to the south, and east to west of India.
In the north, its a lot of dance/music stuff, baraat, mehendi,..it's like a festival. There are some poojas and stuff.
It typically spans over 1 week. The groom rides a horse in the baraat, and his family/friends dance around with loud music.
Other than 7 fere, there is standard "kanya daan" where the girls father hands over the bride to the groom seeking assurance that he will treat her well/protect her. Then the bidai thing is quite dramatic and emotional for the bride and her family.
The wedding ceremony is often attended by 500-800 people. People spend a lot, sometimes a lifetime's saving on it. And I am talking about typical middle class. The food has to be good. It's always veggie. It's a matter of prestige for the hosting side.
In the south I believe they have similar customs. I think there is no dance music stuff. But rest of the things are similar, with some variations.

i respect religious aspect, i attended a hindu wedding,what i saw there bride's mom died while shopping for the marraige,they did not postpon/delay the dates of wedding they continued, the bride had tears on tears , i asked her aunt she answerred me and i was complettely shocked,
is there any tradition in hinduism/hindufamilys which says such?

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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well he said "forget about religion, its way too old". I will provide you the link.

i am dame sure jinnah would have never meant for ISLAM, the conclusion would be some thing else,

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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she is ashamed that you are dancing on this forum and clapping your hands in front of us - "kafir" na-moharams. ;-)

jasmine meant for 1 page comments or she would have replied me yet, i guess she is not a user of topix, she didn't know about next page.
why i am said these words i don't know your dictionary but in my dictionary these are the vulgure abuses, i am said because i have wirrten i am a uni girl, i am but i have seprate education, or my posts meant something wrong, frequent i read, reply hurrily and don't relook the posts, i don't want these words for me again.

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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jasmine meant for 1 page comments or she would have replied me yet, i guess she is not a user of topix, she didn't know about next page.
why i am said these words i don't know your dictionary but in my

that was meant to be joke. Take it easy, no offence meant.

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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i respect religious aspect, i attended a hindu wedding,what i saw there bride's mom died while shopping for the marraige,they did not postpon/delay the dates of wedding they continued, the bride had tears on tears , i asked her aunt she answerred me and i was complettely shocked,
is there any tradition in hinduism/hindufamilys which says such?

there is no teaching in any religion. People are going crazy themselves by watching movies and succumbing to societal/peer pressure.
In the case you mentioned, they probably had spent too much and gone too far with the preparations, so didn't postpone it.

Speaking about Hindu tradition, the religion does not teach any such thing. People do what is convenient, and more prevalent in their society. In some communities they just postpone the wedding if anybody in the immediate families die.

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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that was meant to be joke. Take it easy, no offence meant.

what the hell is.......... i was already agrassive, read your post and went out of control, i am always decent and cool down, but when i boil u i don't know what i am saying or whom i am talking to,any way bcz of your joke i broke my favourite coffee cup in anger, thanks.

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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In the case you mentioned, they probably had spent too much and gone too far with the preparations, so didn't postpone it.
Speaking about Hindu tradition, the religion does not teach any such thing. People do what is convenient, and more prevalent in their society. In some communities they just postpone the wedding if anybody in the immediate families die.

preprations they are the billioners/too rich, that should not effect them, i guess they did not love their mom, i don't know them persnolly the bride's father is my father's business partner, the bride was just just 19 years old or i would have asked questions on questions.

gauri shaikh

gauri shaikh wrote:

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what the hell is.......... i was already agrassive, read your post and went out of control, i am always decent and cool down, but when i boil u i don't know what i am saying or whom i am talking to,any way bcz of your joke i broke my favourite coffee cup in anger, thanks.

correction
when i boil up or get agrassive

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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correction
when i boil up or get agrassive

that's why you should drink milk and not eat spicy food and not go out of your room for 1 month.:-)

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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when i boil u i don't know what i am saying or whom i am talking to,any way bcz of your joke i broke my favourite coffee cup in anger, thanks.

ok, let me compensate for your damage when you visit India....maybe with a new cup?

btw, keeping away from coffee can be good for controlling your anger. ;)

USMAN

Pakistan Army IS Strong Army

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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that's why you should drink milk and not eat spicy food and not go out of your room for 1 month.:-)

aaha i don't want to break any thing of my room therefore i should stay out of my room na.
what you do drink milk, that is why prescribing me?

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gauri shaikh wrote:

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aaha i don't want to break any thing of my room therefore i should stay out of my room na.
what you do drink milk, that is why prescribing me?

breaking household stuff is better than breaking people's bones -right?

ahem...milk, no. Thought that's what pak girls are supposed to drink for 1 month before marriage. Maybe i misread your earlier post.

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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ok, let me compensate for your damage when you visit India....maybe with a new cup?
btw, keeping away from coffee can be good for controlling your anger. ;)

how miser you are?
inshaallah i will be visiting india but the cup i wil have to buy.
btw, don't you think the political study always take one's to sleep and coffee is best choice to refresh yourself.

gauri shaikh

GlobeSon wrote:

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breaking household stuff is better than breaking people's bones -right?
ahem...milk, no. Thought that's what pak girls are supposed to drink for 1 month before marriage. Maybe i misread your earlier post.

no beacuse my gifts, my room furniture and other stuff are too precious to me than people's boon's and that coffee cup was my birthday gift, and i just one week took tea in that cup. that is why i should have lived out of my room.
i am too young(has turned into 20) i can't get marry in this age, i just read my post it was my elder sis engagement. not mine.

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