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“We are all entitled to a say!”

Since: Jan 11

UK

#3 Mar 4, 2011
marc99 wrote:
Hi!
When ever me and my girl make love, I can never get her to orgasm. I feel like she is always faking it. It is really quit upsetting.
I guess it is a stupid question to ask this, but where exactly are her "pleasure points" How to touch/lick/kiss her to get her to orgasm and squirt.
What are good techniques in "eating out" a girl.
Thank you so much**
The biggest mistake most guy's make is going straight for the clit. DONT! Start with her boob's, kiss and suck them, kiss down her body slowly and look for her reaction each time that will tell you when you're getting the bit's she likes. When you get to the lower bit's don't go straight for her vagina! Kiss her thigh's first, when you do start licking lick AROUND her vagina not actually on it, after a while start too lick the hole and lips, keep doing this for a while before moving up to her clitoris, once you start licking that slide a finger or too inside and the same time, with your tongue keep licking her clitoris and with your fingers move them inside her as if your pointing too her clitoris from the inside making sure you can feel the roof of her vagina, this should drive her wild and if you do it long enough it should bring her too orgasm, if this don't work I give up ;-)

“We are all entitled to a say!”

Since: Jan 11

UK

#4 Mar 4, 2011
marc99 wrote:
Hi!
When ever me and my girl make love, I can never get her to orgasm. I feel like she is always faking it. It is really quit upsetting.
I guess it is a stupid question to ask this, but where exactly are her "pleasure points" How to touch/lick/kiss her to get her to orgasm and squirt.
What are good techniques in "eating out" a girl.
Thank you so much**
Oh, forgot too say. I'm so glad your actually wanting to please her and not just in it for yourself!
yolanda

Singapore

#5 Mar 4, 2011
marc99 wrote:
Hi!
When ever me and my girl make love, I can never get her to orgasm. I feel like she is always faking it. It is really quit upsetting.
I guess it is a stupid question to ask this, but where exactly are her "pleasure points" How to touch/lick/kiss her to get her to orgasm and squirt.
What are good techniques in "eating out" a girl.
Thank you so much**
you can try some g-spot tickler .it may be helpful for her to get the orgasm.
http://www.sweety16.com
Anonymous

United States

#6 Mar 4, 2011
Stacy gave great advice. Very good begining technique but DONT use fingers at the start of clitoral stimulation. Everything you do should be a " new" sensation for her. Slowly lick the clit while changing directions. Up down side to side twirling around. Build speed slowly. Watc her reactions. When she is getting closer, then insert fingers and curl your finger upwards. Feel for a " spongy" feeling spot. Thats the g spot. Use the motions Stacy mentioned before and that will get her across.

“Recovering My Lost Week-End”

Since: Jun 09

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#7 Mar 4, 2011
staceyGstring wrote:
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The biggest mistake most guy's make is going straight for the clit. DONT! Start with her boob's, kiss and suck them, kiss down her body slowly and look for her reaction each time that will tell you when you're getting the bit's she likes. When you get to the lower bit's don't go straight for her vagina! Kiss her thigh's first, when you do start licking lick AROUND her vagina not actually on it, after a while start too lick the hole and lips, keep doing this for a while before moving up to her clitoris, once you start licking that slide a finger or too inside and the same time, with your tongue keep licking her clitoris and with your fingers move them inside her as if your pointing too her clitoris from the inside making sure you can feel the roof of her vagina, this should drive her wild and if you do it long enough it should bring her too orgasm, if this don't work I give up ;-)
Fantastic advice and explanation Stacey. You obviously care enough about being pleased to look into the matter, and also to focus on what is feeling good to you. Men should not get off (maybe a pun) easy, and just pleasure themselves. A good man wants his girl to enjoy, and to have a great cum. I hope guys read, and take your advice. Jerry

Since: Jan 11

Daytona Beach, FL

#8 Mar 4, 2011
well she is right to a point but i have to say i have never had to use my finger only my tongue but dont go right at the kitty shall i put it like she said take your time getting there lick suck and gently nible and bite on the nipples and do same on beelly sides belly botton thighs all around now once u get there there s many ways to do it but it depends onthe girl me i change it up alot but have to say never had a girl not finnish multiple times wile down there i like to not just lick the clit i take it put it between my teeth genlty holding it and at the same time flick tit with my tongue front ways and side way and at same time lightly suck on it moving it in and out of my mouth for me it works everytime but u will develop your own ways if u put enough into trying wat made me good at it is the fact my girl always comes first then if i get mine cool if not i know i pleased her think like that and u can never go wrong
NanNookie

Carrollton, GA

#9 Mar 5, 2011
follow kbking's advice.It's not a machine and what drives Stacy up the wall might make your girl giggle or cry.Just ask to be directed and taught.It didn't take you that long to scream out some well meant instructions when you were scraped raw during your first Monica Lewinski did it?

Since: Jan 10

United States

#10 Mar 5, 2011
I love to eat pussy but my girl is so ticklish at and around the hole that I never get there. I get close and almost get kneed in the face. She stops me before I get to the fun spot. She has never really cared to be eaten or do foreplay. I don't care about being sucked and she likes to suck. How do we get more on path for pleasure together.
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dreambe

Shreveport, LA

#11 Mar 5, 2011
outdoornude wrote:
I love to eat pussy but my girl is so ticklish at and around the hole that I never get there. I get close and almost get kneed in the face. She stops me before I get to the fun spot. She has never really cared to be eaten or do foreplay. I don't care about being sucked and she likes to suck. How do we get more on path for pleasure together.
I can only speak for myself not all women, but i am only ticklish when he "goes for it" too soon.
ie take jbking's advice. here's where most guys go wrong (probably girls too) after you ask what to do, LISTEN and do it. And don't let your ego get in the way, sex is just sex, it's not a critique of your worth as a person.
mariela

Bushkill, PA

#12 Mar 5, 2011
ease your way down and sing the alphabet song. A-b-c-d-e-f-g...
By the time you get to O, she should have one.

“We are all entitled to a say!”

Since: Jan 11

UK

#13 Mar 5, 2011
mariela wrote:
ease your way down and sing the alphabet song. A-b-c-d-e-f-g...
By the time you get to O, she should have one.
funny, I'll get my bf too try this method tonight lol

Since: Jan 11

Orlando, FL

#14 Mar 7, 2011
well she is right to a point but i have to say i have never had to use my finger only my tongue but dont go right at the kitty shall i put it like she said take your time getting there lick suck and gently nible and bite on the nipples and do same on beelly sides belly botton thighs all around now once u get there there s many ways to do it but it depends onthe girl me i change it up alot but have to say never had a girl not finnish multiple times wile down there i like to not just lick the clit i take it put it between my teeth genlty holding it and at the same time flick tit with my tongue front ways and side way and at same time lightly suck on it moving it in and out of my mouth for me it works everytime but u will develop your own ways if u put enough into trying wat made me good at it is the fact my girl always comes first then if i get mine cool if not i know i pleased her think like that and u can never go wrong
Ellie16

Kansas City, MO

#16 Mar 7, 2011
staceyGstring wrote:
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funny, I'll get my bf too try this method tonight lol
Another good method is have your BF littly s*ck your cl*t and hum while doing it. It works for me LOL.

“We are all entitled to a say!”

Since: Jan 11

UK

#17 Mar 7, 2011
Ellie16 wrote:
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Another good method is have your BF littly s*ck your cl*t and hum while doing it. It works for me LOL.
I can see why that would work! I'll be trying that for sure!
Trailertrash

Saginaw, MI

#18 Mar 7, 2011
kbking wrote:
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While making out, I would ask her as I start to lick her sensitive parts. She will tell you by saying: "There, that's it, stay right there, oh, oh,oooooooh."
Understad???
I agree kbking. Women know we're not mind readers, and (most, many, all) will be happy to guide you to the most sensitive parts, but I have found that to most (well, most of the ones I've been with anyway) tell me it feels good all over, but they WILL tell you when you get to the "g" spot(s). And (it, they)(does, do) seem to move around.....go figure. And sometimes you'll wear your tongue and her patience out trying to locate the d.....d thing.,
chris

United States

#21 Jan 29, 2013
Kentucky
Drummer girl

Arma, KS

#22 Feb 18, 2013
Ok so if my boyfriend has never ate anyone out before and I've only had one guy down there for a couple seconds how do I tell him how I like it or how to do it?

Since: Apr 12

Location hidden

#23 Feb 18, 2013
Great advice!! Thanks! I mean I think I do a good job eating my girlfriend because she always has like a mini seisure when I hit the clitoris, but there's always room for improvement.
Bibi

Hialeah, FL

#24 Feb 25, 2013
She allways complains about anal but wants me to go "down" what should I do
Robert

Winston Salem, NC

#25 Feb 26, 2013
Lick the alphabet!

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