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Anne Anderson

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I always liked Indian men but never had a chance to date any. So, one of my roommates is friends with an Indian guy, she met though a culture exchange program. We went bowling once and I met him, he is the cutest thing ever. I really like him. He comes over sometimes to cook Indian food for my roommate. He is really friendly towards me and cracks jokes all the time, but never seems to respond when I flirt.

When ever I walk around in college,I see Indian guys only with other Indian girls or guys.:(

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Anne Anderson wrote:
I always liked Indian men but never had a chance to date any. So, one of my roommates is friends with an Indian guy, she met though a culture exchange program. We went bowling once and I met him, he is the cutest thing ever. I really like him. He comes over sometimes to cook Indian food for my roommate. He is really friendly towards me and cracks jokes all the time, but never seems to respond when I flirt.
When ever I walk around in college,I see Indian guys only with other Indian girls or guys.:(
Do Indian guys who like to date white girls
THeir culture stronlgy opposes them dating outside thier culture/religion. SO, an Indian guy might like yuo, but he will be less lieky to date you than some other guy.

This does not mean it won;t happen, but the chances are smaller.

ALso, he might date you, but he might go back and marry someone from his own culture .. possibly even a woman that has been "arranged" for him "back Home" ...
Franko

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What religion are you talking about?? If he's a muslim he will marry her just to convert her to Islam and again marry 3 more wives and reproduce muslim pigs. Indian christians are very less and often poor. You might have a good chance of dating a Hindu because Hindus are successful, classy and more tolerant towards western culture.
IN my city we ahve a very large Indian populaotin ... more than 20% which is about 400,000 people ... I can tell yuo from observation that the number of Indians who date interracial is much less than the Chinese or blacks. I once dated a INdian woman and she told me about this also. WHen we were in public some of the INdian men used to tell her bad things about her (in her language) because she was with me. SHe avoided gogin to public palces near ehr home ... we always went to some other part of town where she was not known, because otherwise the local INdan men would give her trouble..
Franko

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Oct 17, 2008
 
BTW .. she was HINDU
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What religion are you talking about?? If he's a muslim he will marry her just to convert her to Islam and again marry 3 more wives and reproduce muslim pigs. Indian christians are very less and often poor. You might have a good chance of dating a Hindu because Hindus are successful, classy and more tolerant towards western culture.
i am very curious to know what makes indian christian to be poor, are you just saying it out of priejudce, or they really are poor
Anne Anderson

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Why does this have to turn into a post of profanity... about white girls and religion.

I just wanted to know if there is any girl out there who dated Indian guys,so I know how to approach them.Is it a taboo for Indians to date out of their race.
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Oct 17, 2008
 
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Usually indian christians are low class Dalits who got converted to Chistianity when they were offered money from the churches. In indian society Hindus are richest then comes muslims and finally christians.
isn't Sikhism also a major religion in INdia?
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Anne Anderson wrote:
I always liked Indian men but never had a chance to date any. So, one of my roommates is friends with an Indian guy, she met though a culture exchange program.......
guys.:(
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Hi Anne, Glad to know that you are interested in Indian men... Unfortunately I am married and in Middle East....lol.

Yes Indian guys would certainly like you. Why not? The past 15 years have been heady for the Indians in terms of their exposure to International business and hence social intercourse. Indian men generally perceive westerners (whites)females as more sexually easy. I personally feel this is do with pornograhy than actual cultural understanding. Franko is right, there may be a pressure in families to stick to traditions. Hence a relationship may be easy but marriage may be difficult. Do not go by prejudices as a country of 1 billion people can and may produce somebody very special for you, all tailormade for you, if you like.( he he h e...). There is a lot to say, do feel free to ask...
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Oct 17, 2008
 
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<quoted text>THeir culture stronlgy opposes them dating outside thier culture/religion..... possibly even a woman that has been "arranged" for him "back Home" ...
Hi Franko, I know you are a prolific and consistent poster on topix.

Somehow I get the feel that you are warning Anne of some disaster. Maybe I am touchy. But yes I know what you are saying is consistent with the mindset Indian males have outside their country. Generally I have felt that we Indians are more complex than the westerners. But arranged marriages are not a bad deal as is made out in several discussions. It is just that it is a different value system and one which strongly undermines individual freedom which the wesetern population so much values and fights for.

I assume here that both you and Anne are whites and western origins.
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i am very curious to know what makes indian christian to be poor, are you just saying it out of priejudce, or they really are poor
It is the other way around. Lots of poor people get converted to Christianity. It is true that lot of economically and socially weaker people do convert for the benifits of economics and also social recogniton. This has very little to do with faith or belief. And a new entrant is the resevation system in jobs and colleges. There is a whole lobby in the government which is working for some reservations to, dalit christians. Dalit means downtrodden.
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Oct 18, 2008
 
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<quoted text>isn't Sikhism also a major religion in INdia?
It is a great religion. A very proactive and industrious lot. The people of punjab where Sikhism is mostly followed are the largest agricultual producers of our country and also they have a huge small scale industrial base. Hero cycles which sells the largest number of bycycles in the world has its base in punjab. They have tied up with Honda of japan and have been proudcing motorcycles for the past 25 years which is one of the top selling brands of India.

To this day I have never see a Sardar (A sikh is generally called that in India) beg. A great achievement for the people.
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Hi Franko, I know you are a prolific and consistent poster on topix.
Somehow I get the feel that you are warning Anne of some disaster. Maybe I am touchy. But yes I know what you are saying is consistent with the mindset Indian males have outside their country. Generally I have felt that we Indians are more complex than the westerners. But arranged marriages are not a bad deal as is made out in several discussions. It is just that it is a different value system and one which strongly undermines individual freedom which the wesetern population so much values and fights for.
I assume here that both you and Anne are whites and western origins.
I believe Anne is white, from ehr foirst post.

It sounds to me like she is young ... around 20. And maybe a bit naive or inexperienced in relationships ..,

YEs, she might meet a very nice Indian man who will treat her well, but unfortunatly I have heard of "worst case" storeis so I thought she should be aware of the possibilities.
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Guys lets clear all doubts :-
1. Yes. Indians do like fair ( not white ) girls.
2. Indian Christians are not poor, to say so. Christians are 4~5% of India Population.
3. Hindus are generally decent, learned and socially loving people.
4. Indians by virtue of their culture share lot of commons with West & Christian values.
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Oct 18, 2008
 
there are several indian men that i know who have white wives or girl friends. and of course, we find white girls very attractive, just as we find indian girls to be very attractive! it is more the personality, not always just the tits!

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Oct 18, 2008
 
Spoken like a true ignorant a*hole that you are.
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Usually indian christians are low class Dalits who got converted to Chistianity when they were offered money from the churches. In indian society Hindus are richest then comes muslims and finally christians.
Anne Anderson

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Yes. Franco, I'm 19, don't call me naive, I come from a conservative southern family, I know how many of the good boys who go to church here lie and deceive, to get what they want from a girl. But listening to JaJa, I think assholes exist every place. Please have the decency to talk to a lady.

I fell in love with Disney's Alladin when I was a kid and Naveen Andrews looks so, Hot.

Please don't make this a post on religion. Thanks Franco and virtualkingdom,you guys give me hope.

IndianMan38, I see a lot more Indians in college than I did when I went to school. Most of the Indians I meet are 7/11 stores guys.
Anne Anderson

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you mean fraternity binge drinkers, who hit on other girls even though they have a girlfriend. I've been left hanging by guys before. I just with I met a decent guy.

stick to my kind !!!! While you want to be with an Indian girl. Grow up , Its not the 18th century where you travel on your dream boat and plunder women.
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not every one is a college binge drinker stick to someone older who already has a job n wanting a career than some stupid college boy. College girls are better off going for someone older with all that than lookin for a dam smelly indian
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A lot of americans don't look white, they look like mullatos. Have you seen Friends? Jennifer Aniston looks like a mullato with her brown skin. I personally like the olive skin Latinos, Mediterranean, Indian and middle-eastern girls.
I am pretty sure Jennifer Aniston's tan is HOlleywood made adn nto truly her natural skin colour.

YEs, many "white Americans" have some black or Latino mix in them. Many of the mediteranean countries in EUrope have mixtures of Middle-east which is why many of them have darker shades of skin, dark hair and dark eyes.

In fact, genetic testing has shown that there is genetic influence between Europe all the way to northern India going back 50,000 years as people have migrated back and forth over that time.
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Anne Anderson wrote:
Yes. Franco, I'm 19, don't call me naive, I come from a conservative southern family, I know how many of the good boys who go to church here lie and deceive, to get what they want from a girl. But listening to JaJa, I think assholes exist every place. Please have the decency to talk to a lady.
I fell in love with Disney's Alladin when I was a kid and Naveen Andrews looks so, Hot.
Please don't make this a post on religion. Thanks Franco and virtualkingdom,you guys give me hope.
IndianMan38, I see a lot more Indians in college than I did when I went to school. Most of the Indians I meet are 7/11 stores guys.
sorry if you felt offended my my comment .. I could only base my assesssment on your first post and a wild guess. Thanks for clarifying that for us.

I woudl rather not include religion into the issue but the fact is that culture and religion have very much to do with inter-racial relationships.

As you can see form teh psots peoel ahve made, you will find some Indian men very findamentaist, very influenced by what family and others of thier race think.

You will, however, find others that are more independant and less influenced by others.

It is my suggestion that if you date an Indian man, it would be very good to find out early how they realy feel about interraical marraige. If there is strong negatiivity towards it by others he is connected to, and if he seems to worried about what they think, then the relationship might have more than it's share of struggles.

Keep in mind that the Indian culture ties the offspring to the parents and grandparents more tightly than most western cultures. I knew an Indian woman many years ago who practically led her life by what her elders wanted from her. THey had made it clear that she was not to marry anyone who was not only Indian, but also from their religion.... I would have loved to have a relationship with her (she looked like one of the Bolleywood stars), but this fact hindered her ability to let herself get close to me, even though there was very strong chemistry between us.

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