How do I get my husband to have sex with another man?

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Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#1 Aug 29, 2011
My husband and I have a very adventurous sex life and we have tried everything including him watching me have sex with other women. My most erotic fantasy is to watch him have sex with another man - but he has refused to do this for me. How do I get him to do for me what I have done for him? Any other ladies here been in a similar situation, and how did you get the deed done?

Geoff

UK

#2 Aug 29, 2011
You need to break his taboos gently Nat. Maybe start with something like getting him to go down on you after another man has done you? I love eating out after a woman's taken a full load. I am very adventurous!
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#3 Aug 29, 2011
Geoff wrote:
You need to break his taboos gently Nat. Maybe start with something like getting him to go down on you after another man has done you? I love eating out after a woman's taken a full load. I am very adventurous!
Geoff, thanks, but the issue is for him to be with the other guy. I need tips on getting him to change his mind and get the ball rolling.
smoothboi

Santa Clara, CA

#4 Aug 29, 2011
shring gay porn with him will help... then let him see how hot it gets you... he will start seeing how sexy it is..
Yumm

Tewantin, Australia

#5 Aug 29, 2011
Naughty Natalie wrote:
My husband and I have a very adventurous sex life and we have tried everything including him watching me have sex with other women. My most erotic fantasy is to watch him have sex with another man - but he has refused to do this for me. How do I get him to do for me what I have done for him? Any other ladies here been in a similar situation, and how did you get the deed done?
He is a husband for a reason... And that is because he likes girls... Sooo
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#6 Aug 29, 2011
smoothboi wrote:
shring gay porn with him will help... then let him see how hot it gets you... he will start seeing how sexy it is..
Thanks smoothboi, he knows that male on male porn gets me insanely hot and he sometimes puts it on to get me horny. Not sure if it gets him off, as he never watches it but will try to get him to watch it with me.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#7 Aug 29, 2011
Yumm wrote:
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He is a husband for a reason... And that is because he likes girls... Sooo
Yumm, thanks but the same could be said about women too but that doesn't stop men from trying to get girls to sleep with each other.
Rod

Bowie, MD

#8 Aug 29, 2011
Naughty Natalie wrote:
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Yumm, thanks but the same could be said about women too but that doesn't stop men from trying to get girls to sleep with each other.
I would do that for u Natalie. Anything u could think of that u wanted to see !
I don't see what the problem is at all !!! LOL
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legitballa

Elgin, IL

#9 Aug 29, 2011
I would never do that shit. Probably would divorce my wife if she was trying to get me into that LOL
Lyndsay

Gainesville, FL

#10 Aug 29, 2011
Try shemale porn on him. Or gay porn that features beautiful young sweet-looking boys with long hair, smooth skin, and feminine characteristics.

He may find "girly" boys more appealing to watch.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#11 Aug 29, 2011
Rod wrote:
<quoted text>I would do that for u Natalie. Anything u could think of that u wanted to see !
I don't see what the problem is at all !!! LOL
Thanks Rod, however any tips for my hubby would be appreciated.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#12 Aug 29, 2011
legitballa wrote:
I would never do that shit. Probably would divorce my wife if she was trying to get me into that LOL
Oh legitballa, don't be so closed minded. Forget about boundaries, and just try things out. It won't kill you. You might enjoy it.

:-)
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#13 Aug 29, 2011
Lyndsay wrote:
Try shemale porn on him. Or gay porn that features beautiful young sweet-looking boys with long hair, smooth skin, and feminine characteristics.
He may find "girly" boys more appealing to watch.
Lyndsay, thanks so much for the advice. However, i like men to be masculine (as is my hubby) and I would like him to be with another masculine man. Need him to be attracted to that.
Lyndsay

Gainesville, FL

#14 Aug 29, 2011
I offered it as a TRANSITION to make gay sex more appealing. You gotta start where you're at! He's not attracted to masculinity (that's why he married a woman!), and there's no way to MAKE him find men asexually appealing. I was just suggesting an in-between option to help him get used to the idea.
legitballa

Elgin, IL

#15 Aug 29, 2011
Im not being closed minded thats just something i know i wouldnt enjoy or ever come around to doing. Ive been offered to do gay porn and the same guy tried to give me head. I havent talked to that kid since. Pushing boundaries is cool and everything but i think you are going to far with this one...I would tell you off. Just an honest opinion.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#16 Aug 29, 2011
Lyndsay wrote:
I offered it as a TRANSITION to make gay sex more appealing. You gotta start where you're at! He's not attracted to masculinity (that's why he married a woman!), and there's no way to MAKE him find men asexually appealing. I was just suggesting an in-between option to help him get used to the idea.
Thanks Lyndsay, I can see that. However, I am not attracted to women at all and yet I sleep with them for my husband as he enjoys it. Trying to get that from him now.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#17 Aug 29, 2011
legitballa wrote:
Im not being closed minded thats just something i know i wouldnt enjoy or ever come around to doing. Ive been offered to do gay porn and the same guy tried to give me head. I havent talked to that kid since. Pushing boundaries is cool and everything but i think you are going to far with this one...I would tell you off. Just an honest opinion.
Legitballa, thanks for coming back and for being honest. However, we live in a culture where women are asked to be with other women and no one bats an eyelid or says she may be a lesbian as its considered ok for women to experiment. But when it comes to women enjoying a man with with another man then its "going too far"? Why the double standard?

Also, how did you get asked to do gay porn? Were you in a gym at the time?
Rod

Bowie, MD

#18 Aug 29, 2011
Naughty Natalie wrote:
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Thanks Rod, however any tips for my hubby would be appreciated.
So we can help you, what "acts" would u like to see him do ??
jake

Sydney, Australia

#19 Aug 29, 2011
Recent research in Australia shows quite a lot of women get hot and wet watching their guy with another guy, but the guys don't know that. Some women won't admit it either which doesn't help. Try getting him involved in a mmf threesome, he's bound to get close up and personal with the other male member at some point. Might even get a mouthful. Point out f ucking a guy in the ass isn't so different from doing it with you, except he will have a nice big c ck to play with while he does it - unless it is busy in you at the time of course. Alternatively tell him it also turns you on to get a big strap on dildo and use it on him - sort of get him in training for the real thing. I'm not greatly attracted to men myself but a teen boy is nice now and then. Run that by him - it might appeal.
Naughty Natalie

Leicester, UK

#20 Aug 29, 2011
Rod wrote:
<quoted text>So we can help you, what "acts" would u like to see him do ??
I couldn't possibly say - it's a bit x-rated.:-)

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