Anal vs Vaginal

phildo wrote:

<quoted text>I've heard of this condition before and was curious about your final diagnosis..psychological or physical..I understand that it is a more physical condition..but I get it could be psycological.

It was physical but somehow the NHS think it's mainly psychological and treat it that way first.

Thats mad. I had about 12 hours of counciling to no effect whats ever and even detrimental to my relationship (she even suggested breaking up). It was wasted time and money.

I got over the condition with a series of expanding dildos basically. I worry it could return so I keep active lol - a good excuse for slutty behaviour.

seriously though I wouldn't wish it on anyone or partnership, thanks for asking. jen x

Personally as a female, I love being dominated and my ex was REALLY into it because he was super dominate. Plus, it's a whole new sensation and feels good in an entirely different way, even an orgasm during anal feels different. Though I can only cum once from it, after one orgasm it gets extremely uncomfortable, not sure why. Maybe cuz the initial thrill is gone? I also LOVE dirty talk during anal. My newest boyfriend isn't very good at that stuff, he's too submissive but it's a nice change of pace. He's never tried anal so I agreed to do it with him eventually when we have more than just the time for a quicky on our hands. Always remember, lots of lube and give her time. It can be a whole new feeling for the girl, not sure about the guy. I'll let you know what he says after he fucks my ass :3

Dont wonna try anal

SinfulKitty wrote:

Personally as a female, I love being dominated and my ex was REALLY into it because he was super dominate. Plus, it's a whole new sensation and feels good in an entirely different way, even an orgasm during anal feels different. Though I can only cum once from it, after one orgasm it gets extremely uncomfortable, not sure why. Maybe cuz the initial thrill is gone? I also LOVE dirty talk during anal. My newest boyfriend isn't very good at that stuff, he's too submissive but it's a nice change of pace. He's never tried anal so I agreed to do it with him eventually when we have more than just the time for a quicky on our hands. Always remember, lots of lube and give her time. It can be a whole new feeling for the girl, not sure about the guy. I'll let you know what he says after he fucks my ass :3

I never get the in between with women on anal sex. The are either into it or hate it. For what ever reason there is never a grey area. I love women like you.

hey, YOLO

Folks, try getting ready slowly. Use lots of lube, pushing it inside the anus, and put something inside to help it relax, like a finger or a butt plug. Start slow and have at it. Some women love it. Some men love it. The feministy airhead Syrus who posted above may wish to note that not all anal sex involves a man dominating a woman. Witness: any pairing composed of at least one of a gender can enjoy anal sex: going solo with a dildo, woman pegging man, etc. In my experience, most women don't like anal. I've met a few that liked anal a whole lot more than vaginal penetration. Personally, I prefer the mess, smell and taste of pink to brown. Poop is gross. Whatever.

When I'm with a woman, I prefer vaginal.

However, some advice to women, if you've had a bad experiance, don't let it stop you. The guy you where with probably didn't know what he was doing. Try to find a bi man, who's topped before, and if you still don't like it then its just not for you.