would be interested in finding out if there are any husbands that have found out their wife is cheating or sexting or flirting on email etc... How did you find out? Did you approach her? Did you do anything to find out more?
I found out my wife was cheating after I joined the military and was away for almost a year of training. Apparently it was some guy she knew from school who was a really good friend, but that is all I know other than he felt bad about it and threatened to tell me if she did not, which she did. All this information came from my wife, so I am not sure how accurate it is. So I have tried to find out more, but apparently this a$$hole died in a car accident in 2005.
I was pretty heart broken about the whole thing and the wife did a lot to make it up to me. So I guess in the grand scheme of things, it all worked out in the end.