How does a white guy meet black women?

shnidss wrote:

black woman who loves white men and ONLY white men right here. we exist i promise lol

Tiffiany wrote:

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Well I am brown and I find that white men will not give black women the time of day. I would most certainly consider a white guy if I was not with the person I am with now. I think black women come off as defensive because it is a self-esteem thing. They probably have felt, like I, so negated by black men that they the chances of making "it" happen with a white guy is nearly impossible. There is a also the suspicion that your intentions are not admirable but rather negative; especially in light of American/European culture which suggests that the attractive women in todays world = thin, white, fragile with delicate european facial features. You might be correct about the racism of some black people. I myself find some of my brown friends think inside of a narrower box then some of my white friends. It is a defense mechanism first and foremost and all women that care about themselves generally have that. We do not want to be hurt because it would not just be a relationship "hurt" but they could also be futher ostracized by probably their black family members, I know I would. I am not saying you wouldn't be feeling the same from your family but in black culture, family is extremely important to not suprise with something like a failed interrelationship because THEY WILL NEVER GET OVER IT. I have personally lived my life with the notion that asian women like asian and white guys, white women like white and black guys and white guys like asian and white women. Black guys like black women and white women. Black women I felt have always been stuck with black guys because the other people never really prefer black women over the alternatives. Especially when mainstream media and black rappers deplict us as disgusting salacious objects to exploit and disgard. So you can see why I would be a bit hesitant to go for a white guy who I may feel might be influenced by the tarnished "image" that mostly black men, some others, in mainstream have painted and white men have seen. It's like the hip-hop culture has messed black women over sooo much that we get suspicious when people find an interest in us. Is the interest genuine from the person to the women or is the interest peerly the same as the sick rapper who wants nothing more than to exploit, degrade more, and finally disgard. I hope this helps you understand the difficulties that I or other black women face in the presents of interest from a white man.

Tele wrote:

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I prefer chat on yahoo messenger...

ImUp wrote:

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What's your email ill look you up

jim wrote:

I'm in Detroit I'm 45 and single I'm a white Guy and I love black women any on interested.want to swap pics.

Televole wrote:

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Yahoo chat id: televole_94

pola wrote:

ilike

ImUp wrote:

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Just added you

jim wrote:

I'm in Detroit I'm 45 and single I'm a white Guy and I love black women any on interested.want to swap pics.

Televole wrote:

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How r u?