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Kate

India

#1 Nov 14, 2009
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.

As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.

Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
henry

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#2 Nov 14, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
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Surreal

United States

#3 Nov 14, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
Hey hate wanna see my peni and u can tell me if u like my big fella
Gillian

India

#5 Nov 15, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
I would say yes and no!

I think I'm probably a little older than you, my dad, uncles and their generation were circumcised, so I had seen a penis head on older men. I had never seen one on a guy my age until one of my brothers friends showed us his penis and rolled his foreskin right back. I was a bit surprised as I didn't know it would roll back and the head was sort of slimy and much more colourful than my dad and uncles. The look didn't shock me though as I had seen penises without the skin.

I can see how a girl who has never seen an uncovered penis may get quite a shock!
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#6 Nov 17, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
Im from the US and married now at age 20 & never saw an uncrcumcised penis even tho Ive seen several over my life.
I was very little when I saw my first one. My room was upstairs and my window looked down into the house in back of us. The 2 family house had 2 young sisters and 2 boy friends in the lower floor. I spotted that the girs sunbathed topless and the which at about age 6 seemed odd. I also used to see the one boyfriend standing at the back door completely naked a lot. I was kinda fascinated seeing his thingy hanging down. I was about 6 or maybe 5 then and that went on untill I was like 13 when he left her.
My mom had also seen him but she didnt say anything to me.
seymour

New Zealand

#7 Nov 17, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
Most guys don't need to pull back in order to bare the knob. A full erection will do the job.
Kate wrote:
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous.
You are the first woman to say black on white something I've guessed for years: when the foreskin covers the knob, it makes the penis look like aggressive, less sexual. A soft penis with a covered head is merely indecent. A bare knob is obscene unless you like the owner a lot.
Kate wrote:
Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Remember when Charlie Brown said "I love humanity, it's people I can't stand."? Well millions of American ladies think "I love guys and their penises, but I can't stand the sight of that wrinkled skin on the end."
my comment

Vienna, Austria

#8 Nov 18, 2009
Kate wrote:
I suppose this is most relevant to ladies not from the USA. What was it like when you first saw a penis "ready for action" in other words with the foreskin pulled down.
As a girl I had seen a few penises, they all had skin the full length and looked fairly innocuous. Then in my teans, for the first time I saw an erect boy pull his foreskin down. It really shocked me and grossed me out. I thought it was very ugly.
Was it the same for any of you? I have to say my views have changed since and I am now rather fond of the little fellas!
When about 11 I could watch boys playing. But their studs were small and had not the threatening look a grown up's tool has.

When I first saw the huge shining dark helmet of an adultīs penis alittle later, I was scared almost to death. I thought of mom or other females, who are bound to receive those monsters in their vagina (and as I knew allready) also in their mouth.

I can understand th shock a young girl has, when seeing the real thing. No porn pics or even videos are such an ugly view as boner with its oily silky head and the veiny shaft close to you.

I admit I almost threw up the first time. Now no problem of course!
Julie

Seattle, WA

#9 Nov 18, 2009
I was young but I saw my brother wanking.
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Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#10 Nov 18, 2009
my comment wrote:
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When about 11 I could watch boys playing. But their studs were small and had not the threatening look a grown up's tool has.
When I first saw the huge shining dark helmet of an adultīs penis alittle later, I was scared almost to death. I thought of mom or other females, who are bound to receive those monsters in their vagina (and as I knew allready) also in their mouth.
I can understand th shock a young girl has, when seeing the real thing. No porn pics or even videos are such an ugly view as boner with its oily silky head and the veiny shaft close to you.
I admit I almost threw up the first time. Now no problem of course!
I never saw an ugly one in real life. Never saw one with a shiny or oily head (helmet)Thats maybe due to do my not seeing any un-circumsized ones? Ive seen pictures on the net of some awful looking veiny ones, but for some reason the approximately 10 ive ever seen myself were nice ones. Except my GFs brother who has a tatoo of a clock on his. EEWWW!
my comment

Vienna, Austria

#11 Nov 18, 2009
Louisa D wrote:
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I never saw an ugly one in real life. Never saw one with a shiny or oily head (helmet)Thats maybe due to do my not seeing any un-circumsized ones? Ive seen pictures on the net of some awful looking veiny ones, but for some reason the approximately 10 ive ever seen myself were nice ones. Except my GFs brother who has a tatoo of a clock on his. EEWWW!
A penis isnīt a real beauty anyway. If you are an innocent girl you will be embarrassed, especially by uncut ones showing their naked plum.
It is the same with semen. It is disgusting at the beginning, but you learn to love it.
The right psychical attitude is the clue.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#12 Nov 18, 2009
my comment wrote:
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A penis isnīt a real beauty anyway. If you are an innocent girl you will be embarrassed, especially by uncut ones showing their naked plum.
It is the same with semen. It is disgusting at the beginning, but you learn to love it.
The right psychical attitude is the clue.
I was a very innocent & very little girl the first few times I saw the first one. I was not too much older when I saw members of my family. I was curious about theirs but I never found them ugly. I didnt think they were pretty either I was just a little fascinated by them at that age. If you only see the "naked plum"type you dont think of it as strange. Im sure its the opposite in your country since uncut is the norm. The first time i knew anything about the subject is from "Seymour" on topix. Its a big topic for him. He dont like the idea of circumcisin as its done here for almost every boy baby. Ive seen pictures of uncut recently and Im as repulsed by them as you are by cut ones.
teen nude

Chicago, IL

#13 Nov 18, 2009
I was 10 years old when I saw a penis other than my own for the first time. In fact, I was lucky, because I saw four at the same time. My friend also 10 invited me to come over and use their new pool. I was surprised when he opened the door in the nude. I just stared at his penis, when he said that he forgot to tell me that his dad did not allow any thing but nudity in the pool. We went out on the deck, and sure enough his dad and brothers were all naked. I soon loved it.
When I returned home, mom made me take a shower. She wanted to now, why my trunks were still dry. I think she knew when she saw me naked without a tan line. What shocked me was that she said that if I go naked next door, I could stay that way here at home. I was now a nudist and loved it.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#14 Nov 18, 2009
my comment wrote:
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A penis isnīt a real beauty anyway. If you are an innocent girl you will be embarrassed, especially by uncut ones showing their naked plum.
It is the same with semen. It is disgusting at the beginning, but you learn to love it.
The right psychical attitude is the clue.
I want to add that my reaction to semen was not discusting at all. I was aware by then that guys do leak somthing out. I wasnt aware of how it shoots out and how much of it there is.LOL. I was not put off by it at all. I was more interested and amazed. I liked that I made my BF so excited. I guess we all have diferent attitudes on sex.
seymour

New Zealand

#15 Nov 18, 2009
Louisa D wrote:
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I was a very innocent & very little girl the first few times I saw the first one. I was not too much older when I saw members of my family. I was curious about theirs but I never found them ugly. I didnt think they were pretty either I was just a little fascinated by them at that age. If you only see the "naked plum"type you dont think of it as strange. Im sure its the opposite in your country since uncut is the norm. The first time i knew anything about the subject is from "Seymour" on topix. Its a big topic for him. He dont like the idea of circumcisin as its done here for almost every boy baby. Ive seen pictures of uncut recently and Im as repulsed by them as you are by cut ones.
Cut is less common than people think. In recent years, about 25% of baby boys in New York state and New England come home from the maternity ward with all their bits. That 25% includes the relgious Jews, who get cut at home when they're a week old. A lot of the uncut boys are from Latino or other immigrant families. I recently read that there are Italian-American families in the City, Boston, and Philly who won't let their boys get cut. West of Denver Colorado, only 30% of boys are cut now.

Since damn near every penis I saw while growing up was cut, cut does not look ugly or strange to me at all. I refuse to call it "mutilated." My biggest worry about cut is that they usually do it without local anesthetic, even though it hurts like hell.

Nature did not design the penis to be eye candy for women, but to make bonking more pleasant and gentle.
Louisa D wrote:
<quoted text> Ive seen pictures of uncut recently and Im as repulsed by them as you are by cut ones.
I respect your honesty. I bet tens of millions of everyday American women think like you do, and that's a major reason why the cutting doesn't stop (doctors don't push it any more). If the helmet look is all you've see on brothers, and on babies whose diapers you've changed, getting used to the Anteater is a Big Ask. Mind you, cut and uncut are almost alike when they're both hard.

Most pics of uncut on the web are gay porn. If that disgusts you, I don't blame you. Other pictures can be atypical. Fortunately, there's Wikipedia. I believe that this image is a fair representation:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Erection_De...
seymour

New Zealand

#16 Nov 18, 2009
Louisa D wrote:
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I want to add that my reaction to semen was not discusting at all. I was aware by then that guys do leak somthing out. I wasnt aware of how it shoots out and how much of it there is.LOL. I was not put off by it at all. I was more interested and amazed. I liked that I made my BF so excited. I guess we all have diferent attitudes on sex.
Of everything the human body puts out, semen is the least gross. By far.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#17 Nov 18, 2009
seymour wrote:
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Cut is less common than people think. In recent years, about 25% of baby boys in New York state and New England come home from the maternity ward with all their bits. That 25% includes the relgious Jews, who get cut at home when they're a week old. A lot of the uncut boys are from Latino or other immigrant families. I recently read that there are Italian-American families in the City, Boston, and Philly who won't let their boys get cut. West of Denver Colorado, only 30% of boys are cut now.
Since damn near every penis I saw while growing up was cut, cut does not look ugly or strange to me at all. I refuse to call it "mutilated." My biggest worry about cut is that they usually do it without local anesthetic, even though it hurts like hell.
Nature did not design the penis to be eye candy for women, but to make bonking more pleasant and gentle.
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I respect your honesty. I bet tens of millions of everyday American women think like you do, and that's a major reason why the cutting doesn't stop (doctors don't push it any more). If the helmet look is all you've see on brothers, and on babies whose diapers you've changed, getting used to the Anteater is a Big Ask. Mind you, cut and uncut are almost alike when they're both hard.
Most pics of uncut on the web are gay porn. If that disgusts you, I don't blame you. Other pictures can be atypical. Fortunately, there's Wikipedia. I believe that this image is a fair representation:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Erection_De...
I am not sure about most Italian families but I know my dad and brother are. I babysat for a few cousins and bathed the younger ones & changed some of my baby cousins too. Im pretty sure they are all cut as you call it. The subject never came up with my mom.
If our first baby is a boy maybe ill ask mom her opinion and the doctor too. That link you gave actually showing a man getting hard is interesting. I see his foreskin slides off the head. I was not aware of that. I like the way it looks hard but his is bent a lot.
I never saw one so curved.
seymour

New Zealand

#19 Nov 18, 2009
Louisa D wrote:
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The subject never came up with my mom.
The only time most American women need to think about it is when they do their first prenatal class.
Louisa D wrote:
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If our first baby is a boy maybe ill ask mom her opinion and the doctor too.
Would your mother have more to say than "your dad was cut, and I had let them cut your brothers. I've never seen anything else."
The sad truth is that USA doctors are not reliable sources of info here. To understand that uncut johnson can be perfectly healthy (if the owner does not misuse it), how to raise an intact boy, and how it all works sexually when he's grown up, all requires doing some internet research.

Mr DaG may not feel comfortable raising an intact son. You should explore this with him, very delicately, before you get pregnant.
Louisa D wrote:
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I see his foreskin slides off the head. I was not aware of that.
This is a basic fact about how uncut johnson works, but one they don't tell you in health class! I bet it's not part of LI teen dirty talk either. Porn doesn't teach this either; the men there are hard from the get-go.
Kate

India

#21 Nov 20, 2009
my comment wrote:
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When about 11 I could watch boys playing. But their studs were small and had not the threatening look a grown up's tool has.
When I first saw the huge shining dark helmet of an adultīs penis alittle later, I was scared almost to death. I thought of mom or other females, who are bound to receive those monsters in their vagina (and as I knew allready) also in their mouth.
I can understand th shock a young girl has, when seeing the real thing. No porn pics or even videos are such an ugly view as boner with its oily silky head and the veiny shaft close to you.
I admit I almost threw up the first time. Now no problem of course!
Ha ha, yes. The first time I saw a boys skin roll of and show "the huge shining dark helmet" was a terrible shock for me too!

Do you think there should be a way to prepare girls for this, or is the shock part of the whole sexual rite of passage?
Steve

United States

#22 Nov 20, 2009
Kate wrote:
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Ha ha, yes. The first time I saw a boys skin roll of and show "the huge shining dark helmet" was a terrible shock for me too!
Do you think there should be a way to prepare girls for this, or is the shock part of the whole sexual rite of passage?
How do you think boys feel Kate? At least most girls do see a penis before first sex (father, brother, photo, etc). Boys may see a photo or mom or sis but can't really see the anatomy of a female the way a girl can of males. I mean there's not much to a penis while the vagina is pretty complicated.

I don't know what else you can do. I don't think sex ed prepares you for sex. Are the parents supposed to get naked and show themselves to children to learn from? I think not. I DO think it's part ofvthe rite of passage. It was scary but fun!
artieshaw

New Zealand

#23 Nov 20, 2009
Kate wrote:
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Ha ha, yes. The first time I saw a boys skin roll of and show "the huge shining dark helmet" was a terrible shock for me too!
I'm a bit surprised this is an issue, because young men tend to get hard before their pants come off. So when you first see them, the helmet is already on show.
Kate wrote:
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Do you think there should be a way to prepare girls for this, or is the shock part of the whole sexual rite of passage?
I am pleased to see that you have enough education to employ the phrase "rite of passage." We North Atlantic people are just another tribe, we too have our customs, and some of them strike the so=called "natives" in Africa, say, as pretty weird.

We could have ethical sex education web sites, where a mother could log in and let her teen daughter watch some videos. The actors would be over 30. They would be regular people, not porn stars. Big emphasis on safe sex, which means careful demonstrations of how to roll a condom on. This can be tricky if he's uncut. No money.

The way girls have learned about the male bits since the dawn of time is from playing with their brothers. Not "doctor," just roughhousin'. For the record, my sister did not do that with me.

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