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“Choose wisely!”
Since: Jul 07
Los Angeles
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My experience wrote: Yeah virgin queen, I can see where the similiarities are. But there are differences too, and that is OK. I believe in free speech and the freedom of thought--live and let live. If you believe in live and let live, then why did you create this thread and take the gay community to task? Seems to me, and I'll be others, you came looking for a fight, because your first post, is certainly NOT live and let live. You blame the gay community for a host of failings, not the least of which is not taking care of you. Your life, you happiness, is YOUR responsibility alone. Don't make others responsibile for your own failings. Eric
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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gemelk wrote: <quoted text> There is no such thing as a "gay agenda". It's a lie oft repeated though. There is no propaganda either, just truth. We are citizens and we want full equality under the law for our people. Nothing more. Nothing less. You can prove nothing else and statements to the contrary are not born out by fact or evidence. Eric Eric, for you I will henceforth leave out all references to "gay agenda" and "propaganda" when posting to you.
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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gemelk wrote: <quoted text> But you replied to me and I see your statement as an implication of calling me a liar. Apologize. Eric I replied to you because you implied that my believing him was the equal of those in here who call him liar and it really isn't. But since it's a silly argument I will apologize...for giving you reason to intrepret my post the wrong way.
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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My experience wrote: virgin queen, what is your religious background, just out of curiosity? Were you always Christian? I'm Southern Baptist. I was raised in the church, left when I was 24, and returned five years ago.
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“ Christ was fine but his ”
Since: Apr 09
christians SUCK ILKS r kewl
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My experience wrote: My experience with the gay community has not been positive to say the least. First off I slowly started to identify with being gay. I started to seek out friendships with other gay people. What I found was highly disturbing. I found that friendship within the gay community was very conditional. I found out that sex was valued over everything else. I am a principled and moral person and I found out that if I could not be used for sex, that basically I was no use to them. It took me awhile to figure this out, because I still believed in a live and let live philosophy and I was brought up to give the benefit of the doubt to the other person. You see when I was first coming out I was really needing people to talk with and was needing an understanding ear from those who had been in my shoes. My pleas fell upon deaf ears as long as I was just looking for platonic friendships. The gay community really let me down. All was not lost, as I have since accepted Jesus in my heart, and I have renounced homosexuality. No longer am I friend of the gay community, no longer do I believe that they are a persecuted people. I have seen the dark side of the gay community, and it sickens me to think that I almost fell for that trap. I now have a good home church, I have a girlfriend, I have alot of straight friends, and most importantly I have Jesus. Jesus has blessed me with people who care for me as an individual and a human being. Had I stayed on the road to homsoexuality I would have had a nervous breakdown. This is a good warning to all the young people who are contemplating a life of homosexuality--stay away, stay far, far away. Love your family, love your church. Love God, and don't value so-called sexual freedom above those who love you the most. What a load of garbage! And I'm straight!
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“Fight bigotry.”
Since: Feb 07
Toms River, NJ
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God is bigger than your bible, which codified human biases, not God's biases. My experience wrote: ACLU-Tom, true I don't know you from Adam, but you are supporting a sin that is contrast to the holy word as revealed in the bible. I am sure you believe in "a god", but is he "The God"? And for your info, God did not create me as anything but heterosexual. It would be a cruel joke for God to create me gay, and then oppose every measure, every attempt I made for support and acceptance in the gay community. The God I serve does not play tricks like that.
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“Fight bigotry.”
Since: Feb 07
Toms River, NJ
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As for support and acceptance in the "gay community" perhaps you weren't accepted because you're just not a very nice person to be around. My experience wrote: ACLU-Tom, true I don't know you from Adam, but you are supporting a sin that is contrast to the holy word as revealed in the bible. I am sure you believe in "a god", but is he "The God"? And for your info, God did not create me as anything but heterosexual. It would be a cruel joke for God to create me gay, and then oppose every measure, every attempt I made for support and acceptance in the gay community. The God I serve does not play tricks like that.
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“I will not go quietly.”
Since: Feb 07
Indianapolis Indiana
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ACLU-Tom wrote: As for support and acceptance in the "gay community" perhaps you weren't accepted because you're just not a very nice person to be around. <quoted text> He does sound extremely neurotic, needy and co-dependent seeking 'approval' instead of standing up for himself. Act like a dog and you'll be treated like a dog whether you are heterosexual or homosexual.
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“A Proud Gay Parent”
Since: Mar 08
Location hidden
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Well, I've taken the time to read all the posts. First off, everything "My experience" is saying directly relates to sex. He never mentions the emotional attachment to the same-sex gays feel. He never mentions the fact that you can never have experienced sex, you can be incapable of sexual performance and still be gay. Since he only equates being gay with sex, would it be any wonder that when he searched for friendship it would always come down to sex? For that's all he thinks being gay amounts to. You do reap what you sow. Personally, since the time I came out, I have experienced some great sex. Better than I ever had with an opposite sex partner. However, I've always experienced a great deal of platonic love, compassion, friendship, laughter, sharing of tears and every other human experience and emotion you could imagine. When I was down, it was my gay family that comforted me. When I was happy, it was my gay family that celebrated with me. But, obviously, "my experience" wasn't looking for a gay family - he was looking for a gay sex experience. So, I don't doubt his experience as real. He was obviously searching for the wrong thing, in the wrong place, with the wrong heart.
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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Troth for Leogere wrote: <quoted text>What a load of garbage! And I'm straight! Such hubris. If you're straight than how the h--l would you know?
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“I will not go quietly.”
Since: Feb 07
Indianapolis Indiana
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The Virgin Queen wrote: <quoted text> Such hubris. If you're straight than how the h--l would you know? Because it's obvious even to heterosexuals that the entire story is nothing more than a scripted lie. All anyone has to do in mention your imaginary friend and they automatically get your stamp of approval and belief.
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My experience
Redmond, WA
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The proof is in the pudding, my life has greatly improved since I renounced homosexuality. I have an abundance of good christian friends, why would I ever want to go back to that destructive lifestyle?
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“I love my wife. :)”
Since: Mar 08
Seattle, WA
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My experience wrote: My experience with the gay community has not been positive to say the least. First off I slowly started to identify with being gay. I started to seek out friendships with other gay people. What I found was highly disturbing. I found that friendship within the gay community was very conditional. I found out that sex was valued over everything else. I am a principled and moral person and I found out that if I could not be used for sex, that basically I was no use to them. It took me awhile to figure this out, because I still believed in a live and let live philosophy and I was brought up to give the benefit of the doubt to the other person. You see when I was first coming out I was really needing people to talk with and was needing an understanding ear from those who had been in my shoes. My pleas fell upon deaf ears as long as I was just looking for platonic friendships. The gay community really let me down. All was not lost, as I have since accepted Jesus in my heart, and I have renounced homosexuality. No longer am I friend of the gay community, no longer do I believe that they are a persecuted people. I have seen the dark side of the gay community, and it sickens me to think that I almost fell for that trap. I now have a good home church, I have a girlfriend, I have alot of straight friends, and most importantly I have Jesus. Jesus has blessed me with people who care for me as an individual and a human being. Had I stayed on the road to homsoexuality I would have had a nervous breakdown. This is a good warning to all the young people who are contemplating a life of homosexuality--stay away, stay far, far away. Love your family, love your church. Love God, and don't value so-called sexual freedom above those who love you the most. I just love how so-called "christians" have no problem lying, misleading, and deceiving. I'm sure Jesus is oh, so proud.
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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Venus_Rearmed wrote: <quoted text> I just love how so-called "christians" have no problem lying, misleading, and deceiving. I'm sure Jesus is oh, so proud. Venus, how do you know he's not being truthful based on what he himself experienced?
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Spider
Alpharetta, GA
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My experience wrote: The proof is in the pudding, my life has greatly improved since I renounced homosexuality. I have an abundance of good christian friends, why would I ever want to go back to that destructive lifestyle? Are you married to a person of the opposite sex?
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Gretchen
United States
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fr my experience:
>...I was born straight, and turned into a homosexual...<
Nobody "turns into a homosexual". You are BORN gay or straight.
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“I love my wife. :)”
Since: Mar 08
Seattle, WA
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The Virgin Queen wrote: <quoted text> Venus, how do you know he's not being truthful based on what he himself experienced? Nothing in his post rings with any truthfulness. It looks almost like he's being coached as to what to say. Just another Exodus "plant" (or whichever organization) like the tag-team Western1.
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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Venus_Rearmed wrote: <quoted text> Nothing in his post rings with any truthfulness. It looks almost like he's being coached as to what to say. Just another Exodus "plant" (or whichever organization) like the tag-team Western1. But you really can't know that and even if he were to say he was from Exodus that doesn't mean what he experienced is untrue. It's not as if his claims are that off the wall. Maybe he just had a bad time of it when he was around gay people.
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“Love thy neighbor!”
Since: Dec 06
Westland , MI
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Wow!! Can't you just see V.Q. with a puppet in his hand, talking to himself? That's what these posts sound like. If you look at the sequence, his identity is nailed. But....you did get people to respond, didn't you. Like being the center of attention?
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The Virgin Queen
Miami, FL
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Gay Mom wrote: Wow!! Can't you just see V.Q. with a puppet in his hand, talking to himself? That's what these posts sound like. If you look at the sequence, his identity is nailed. But....you did get people to respond, didn't you. Like being the center of attention? GayMom, once again you're Junior High School regression is showing.
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