Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex

If a married guy isn't getting what he needs from a "straight" marriage, what's he to do? He surely doesn't want another woman on the sly, so he turns to a gay guy who puts out on the discreet side. I think that is simply fulfilling his sexual needs and not having conflict in his marriage. Married guys are usually so frustrated and horny, they make super BB lovers. Ken in Houston

Ken Likes Arab men wrote:

If a married guy isn't getting what he needs from a "straight" marriage, what's he to do? He surely doesn't want another woman on the sly, so he turns to a gay guy who puts out on the discreet side. I think that is simply fulfilling his sexual needs and not having conflict in his marriage. Married guys are usually so frustrated and horny, they make super BB lovers. Ken in Houston

I do have to agree with you, some of the best sex I've had has been with married men. I think its a combination of finally releasing the built up frustration and also the taboo of having sex with someone either than their wife.

A bit of "down and dirty" with a guy can be so much fun.Women are OK but a guy knows what a guy enjoys.A guy gets 'hot' and so what if it is another guy?I think every guy has either fantasized about it or done it.Took me a long time.I thought I was straight,but an orgasm with a guy was the best ever.

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Just An Observer wrote:

O.K., maybe I'm missing something here. How can a person be straight, and be having sex with another person of the same sex????? You've lost me! Either you're straight, or you're not. 10% of these "straight" men are not really telling the truth, or trying to tweek the stigma!

Well, this post is pretty old, but I like to comment on it since it appears on a top position on google. I am completely straight and since I'm a child I am a masochist. And exactly for that reason I like to be used by men since I am not attracted to men. I feel used and I can watch my body react to that which gives me a turn on. I like to watch my own body being used by guy men, that's my turn on. I could not find anything else on the net. I am the only weird out there?

Alan R McGillvray wrote:

Sex is sex , sometimes a person (man or woman) wants to have sex, and only partner available is somone of the same sex who may also have the same desires. So relax, there's nothing wrong with it, it feel good, no pressure, just do what feels good to you and do it to them. No matter man or woman.
"Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't."

Luc Daigle, I agree with you totally, sex is sex , I am married, and I am a bisexual, my wife knows and she is ok with it, but I prefer
men to women

I support other men who have pan-sexual feelings.

I am not ga but I always wanted to try it I had a rooming house and I left this one guy moved in later I found out was gay I came on to him and kissed him on the chee and he held me down while he kissed me on the lips and then he reached down my pants and rub my peni until he got the hard and then he went down on m after a few minutes he came up for ai any talk to me and he said I'll let you screw me but you can't tell my boyfriend I had sex with this man he lived with me for four years within the four year he showed me what real love wa six I had a uncle imprisone that told me that was the best sex he ever had I do believe he is right whenever I get a chanc I always go out looking for a gay man I've sucked a lot of Dick since I had my firs boyfriend I don't think of myself as ga because I still have sex with women y t e d s s r e s k y

I had sex with my pastor I did not know he was gay this happened in Colorado about three years ago I listen to them in church one time he told me how he hated gays he's the biggest hypocrite of all he offered me money to have sex with me while his wife watched how weird is that

HEY Jimmy? OMG dude..you should OUT that SoB that had sex with you buddy! I never would do such a thing UNLESS it's the type of situation you had! THIS is why all this b/s is again being tossed around in politics..did you guys HEAR Ahole Santorim ranting and raving like the fucking Nazi he is about women and mostly gays?! Truly a frightening thing that not only do people put up with this shit these days..but he's running for public office?! Tragic...I'd out that supposed Pastor REAL fast buddy!

BIGshooter wrote:

HEY Jimmy? OMG dude..you should OUT that SoB that had sex with you buddy! I never would do such a thing UNLESS it's the type of situation you had! THIS is why all this b/s is again being tossed around in politics..did you guys HEAR Ahole Santorim ranting and raving like the fucking Nazi he is about women and mostly gays?! Truly a frightening thing that not only do people put up with this shit these days..but he's running for public office?! Tragic...I'd out that supposed Pastor REAL fast buddy!

Gays are allowed to run for anything ... WATCH IT, ur getting catty!!!

Straight guy wrote:

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Well, this post is pretty old, but I like to comment on it since it appears on a top position on google. I am completely straight and since I'm a child I am a masochist. And exactly for that reason I like to be used by men since I am not attracted to men. I feel used and I can watch my body react to that which gives me a turn on. I like to watch my own body being used by guy men, that's my turn on. I could not find anything else on the net. I am the only weird out there?

This is perfectly normal. You get turned on by what you get turned on by. Don't let anyone tell you what or who you are only god can judge that. It's not weird the term that they came up with that is bi-curious & being a trade.=) my whole point to this argument was you cant help what you like and you actually proved my point.

If they could run then why do they get beat so often?

sentrie wrote:

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Gays are allowed to run for anything ... WATCH IT, ur getting catty!!!

i meet a married couple about once a month. been meeting them about 10 or 11 months now. at first we were taking it in turns to have sex with her but after about 4 months we were in their bedroom talking about our turn ons. she said her turn on was to watch 2 guys having sex together. me and him were up for it so i got on my knee`s and bent over and he went at it behind me like a rabbit!!! his wife watched us and masturbated herself. god she got so excited and so did me and her hubby doing it while we both watched her. he shot a huge load all over my back! then he masturbated me over her. that night was the most incredible sex i`ve ever had!

DAMN...HOW the hell can so many str8 dudes out there WANT this, but none of them will ACT!? very frustrated with a buddy of mine at the gym for 1.5 yrs. now, he watch's me..looks..but won't even talk to me anymore all because I finally got the balls to mention having some 'fun' with him. We could have been having an amazing time, I hvaen't messed with a guy in over 10 yrs. and am so horny/frustrated over this. Any suggestions str8 dudes?

I don't consider myself as gay, but when I met my gay male lover, he had this look about him that told me he had the HOTS for me. I could feel his gaze and I got this hot flash in my crotch that I felt like I was going to ejaculate. I never got that level of arousal with a woman. Deep inside I knew I was about to experience sexual pleasures only a man could give me. After all, a man instinctively knows what a man needs and just how to use his tongue, lips and gums to titillate me and bring me to the cusp of orgasm then stop and rim my butt hole for a time licking me all over then go back to my stiff prick and do it again and again till I can't stand it. He had a sweet feminine side to him that made me feel love for him because he was so very intimate with me in places a woman would never know about, and deeply personal too. I'm 63 and he's 35 so I had no trouble eating him from stem to stern with a lust I've never known. No woman ever had the hots for me let alone blowing the socks off me. I always got the feeling they really don't like blowing a man. I felt like I was asking too much of her so all I was left with was a lousy fuck. :-(

OMG SOMtrom?! THIS is exactly what I want to show my sauna buddy at the gym!! YOU describe this perfectly let me tell you! My problem is this guy is the one who 'started' it all 1.5 yrs. ago, I was so insecure in my body image as he is drop dead handsome..VERY uber/str8 jock and built like gymnast! But even 30lbs. over weight, he was looking at me daily and hinting. I couldn't allow this to happen till I dropped 30plus lbs. and 7 mo. later when I did and am built incredible now..when I got honest w/him..he FREAKED out, and hasn't said one word to me since. HOW do I repair this? I want to write a long letter telling him about how out of shape I was..and how I just couldn't 'go there' with him till now? but not sure I should. Advice? thanks so much!

BIGshooter wrote:

OMG SOMtrom?! THIS is exactly what I want to show my sauna buddy at the gym!! YOU describe this perfectly let me tell you! My problem is this guy is the one who 'started' it all 1.5 yrs. ago, I was so insecure in my body image as he is drop dead handsome..VERY uber/str8 jock and built like gymnast! But even 30lbs. over weight, he was looking at me daily and hinting. I couldn't allow this to happen till I dropped 30plus lbs. and 7 mo. later when I did and am built incredible now..when I got honest w/him..he FREAKED out, and hasn't said one word to me since. HOW do I repair this? I want to write a long letter telling him about how out of shape I was..and how I just couldn't 'go there' with him till now? but not sure I should. Advice? thanks so much!

Here's what I think happened: I believe he was attracted to you the way you were at 30 lbs. overweight. When you dropped the lbs. you didn't appeal to him any more and rather than tell you this he clammed up. If he was honest w/y he would tell you to put the lbs back on, but that seems counter intuitive doesn't it? You probably feel better at minus the 30 lbs. than you did. And he doesn't want you to be the "old" you and have you
possibly ruin your health as well as your new self image. This may not be the case, but I think he is similar to me because I find myself attracted to a man who isn't athletic looking like I am at 63. I like the "regular" guy type with a belly and a laugh to go with it. I hope this gives you some insight.

I am 37 just started playin wit toys im thinkin about the real thing all the time now just dont know how to come about it but im ready

Q: What's the differnece between a gay guy and a str8 guy?

A: About 4 or 5 beers.

ROFL !

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