How old should you be to lose your virginity?

I'm 13 and My boyfriend want to do it and I do to but I'm not should If we should I think we both are ready but I do not know what to do

Trying to pin-point an age for this is useless. It is different for everyone. Some are ready before others, though too many these days think they are ready when they really aren't.
I lost mine at 17, but I know many who are in their twenties who really should not even think of the word 'sex', much less have it.

Seriously any 1 even thinking of hvin sex who under 16 definitely forget it. Your way to young. I am 18 and lost it 16. Biggest mistake of my life

KitKatKatie wrote:

I lost my virginity at 15! Wasn't even my boyfriend too! We don't even like eachother either!!! Probably the funnest thing ever! I don't get why people are so hesitant about this, it's fun! Do it whenever!

What the hell. You should have when ready not whenever.

What is this thread even in the music forum? this is way off-topic!

Well I suggest intill u gey married u people so u can be clean to ur husband

I think it's important for both, the girl and the boy to be ready,physically and psychologically for something like that.
But if we should say a certain age.. than I personally think the best age for that is 18,19...

My name is Eboni I'm 14 years old. I really think you should wait to loose your virginity because, when you do it you will feel guilty as far as I herd. I'm still a virgin and it would be best to wait and find the right guy because you don't know if he will use you or leave you I have a friend that lost there virginity to a jerk and the keep saying they shouldn't of done it so I would wait. Don't loose you V card unless your an adult or can handle yourself.

Victorya wrote:

I,m not that preety but I am in love with someone and I don,t know if he likes me , but I want to lose my virginity to him what do I do

I do so I asked him and we did. But now I have a baby so don't ok

The way I see it is:

If you wait til marriage there are no regrets. If you don't there are GUARANTEED consequences, even if it's just the constant feeling of guilt- you could never go back to feeling the way you did before. Or a bigger consequence is getting pregnant(or getting someone pregnant)which is very PROBABLE. You'd have to grow up so fast, and life as you know it would be GONE FOREVER. Now imagine yourself however many years from now (it'll pass by quicker than you know), and you're married, you saved yourself for marriage, maybe you have kids now, and you're happy.

No regrets, no shame, no guilt.

p.s.

This is coming from a teen.

SexyGirl wrote:

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Omg I will love 2. I'm a really horny girl that has sex with girls and guys. But I live in Los Angeles. I'm 14 years and I had sex 10 times and had oral sex 5 times. It's ok to have sex at a young age because it feels so good but can u text me??? I'm so horny!!!!

mmmm hey baby. My girlfriend and I got really horny two nights ago and did it ;) but I'd still like to... Well you know with you ;) I lost my phone, so I can't text you. But yeah, i'm horny right now and Id love to have some fun pussy sex with ya ;)

Im not going to tell u no its wrong but ask ur self one question if I was ready y would I rely on the Internet to give me a answer.plus u bleed and it hurts like hell the first time u have sex.

I'm 17 and still virgin :D Im proud of it

F u sluts who think ur ready when ur 12 im 11 and im probebly more mature than u i wouldnt even think about havin sex wit my gf untill we r both like 17 at least

And all u bitches who say o ya i have sex all the time and they r like 13 and 14 if u were in my school u would be the biggest slut

I am 13 and i love my boyfriend and we have made promises that we will save ourselfs for eachother until marriage ... Should i wait until honey moon , or have sex at 18?

People I'm only 13 but some ppl want to have sex my age. Well you would be risking lots of problems like pregnancy. Since I a smart teen I won't bother thinking about girls and sex until i'm legally an adult 18
+. This is a mans perspective

zpln1 wrote:

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hell no. your twelve years old. u dont know the first thing about love. that was a dumbass choice. it also proves that u r extremely horny.

That was a really dumb move your only 12..im 16 nd im still a virgin and proud to be..you should recomend abstinence sweety really !! Smh

JASMINE wrote:

i lost my virginity at 15 and im proud although the boy i lost it to now treats me as if i dont exist but i still feel love for him i dont know why?!...

Maybe because that was your first and that whole situation you'll never forget..

emos r hot wrote:

<quoted text>ok 1. how am i spozed 2 help u if i dont know who u r.
2.ure the only person who knows if ure ready or not
and 3. if u listen 2 them dudes ure an idiot
so i say wait till ur actually in love with some 1 b4 u do it

First if all..those boys who ask for your virginity thats all they want n then they will leave nd talk about you to there friends...jus wait until YOU KNOW YOUR READY not THINK...KNOW !!!