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#47 Aug 6, 2012
Richard wrote:
<quoted text> typo alert, vag!nia should be vag!na
Richard, you can say "vagina". It's not a dirty word unless it's coming from the mouth of a perverted gyn pig.
Richard

Feeding Hills, MA

#48 Aug 6, 2012
Not With My Lady You Dont wrote:
<quoted text>
Richard, you can say "vagina". It's not a dirty word unless it's coming from the mouth of a perverted gyn pig.
. Lol, I hear ya
Not With My Lady You Dont

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#50 Aug 8, 2012
pailrider wrote:
Not sure pig is the correct word, perverse, odd, weird perhaps in choosing a job playing withvag!nia
for money/job. However' GP's also carry out pelvic exams, often unaccompanied. Very difficult subject IMO.
It's correct enough for me.
As far as GP's doing same exam, that's a good point, and I have no problem throwing them into the same 'pen' with the others.

*oink, oink*
Chris

United States

#51 Aug 8, 2012
Not With My Lady You Dont wrote:
<quoted text>
It's correct enough for me.
As far as GP's doing same exam, that's a good point, and I have no problem throwing them into the same 'pen' with the others.
*oink, oink*
. Lmao, G.P.'s are right there with them. They think as soon as you come into their office your body is there's , if your a woman that is, us guys they dont give a sh!t about. Oink oink, yes.
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#52 Aug 8, 2012
Chris wrote:
<quoted text>. Lmao, G.P.'s are right there with them. They think as soon as you come into their office your body is there's , if your a woman that is, us guys they dont give a sh!t about. Oink oink, yes.
I think it's some false sense of entitlement. Similar to the concept of a patient needing to be 'released' from the hospital before they can leave. Fortunately I haven't needed the 'in patient' services of ANY hospital for over 60 years, but if I did, I'd be damned if someone said "doctor isn't releasing you until (fill in the blank)".

I don't think they don't give a sh!t about the guys.....they just know better than to try that with us. They know we wouldn't put up with it.

*oink* lol
Chris

Bedford, MA

#53 Aug 9, 2012
Chris wrote:
<quoted text>. Lmao, G.P.'s are right there with them. They think as soon as you come into their office your body is there's , if your a woman that is, us guys they dont give a sh!t about. Oink oink, yes.
. Sp - theirs
Chris

Bedford, MA

#55 Aug 9, 2012
pailrider wrote:
NWMLYD, we sound a similar age, which surprises me, thought younger blokes would be kicking off about this procedure, rather than us older guys. I've always realized there is a massive problem, like yourself had to wait for the www to get further validation and prove it to my wife and spread the word, not the legs excuse the pun
. I believe the reason you don't hear from younger guys is because their wives/girlfriends go to woman on/gyn's. Most younger gyn's are woman this is do to demand. Supply and demand has been whats fueled the demand for woman gyn's. The younger woman get it. Their not naive like their older counterparts.
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#57 Aug 9, 2012
pailrider wrote:
NWMLYD, we sound a similar age, which surprises me, thought younger blokes would be kicking off about this procedure, rather than us older guys. I've always realized there is a massive problem, like yourself had to wait for the www to get further validation and prove it to my wife and spread the word, not the legs excuse the pun
Really? 64.

Agree on the www. It's a whole world of information. You can learn how to do all kinds of things...including a pelvic exam (minus the cytology) on your wife if you both so choose.

Food for thought, isn't it?
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#59 Aug 10, 2012
pailrider wrote:
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Almost 64 lol, my strong ethical beliefs have been with me for over fourty years, its been hell living with it, only finding out
recently there are many others the same. my savior google.
63/64 but still doing martial arts I'm lucky so far with my fitness.
Looks like you were correct on the ages. Been about the same 40 for me.
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#61 Aug 12, 2012
pailrider wrote:
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Yep NWMLYD and it never goes away the feeling of a cheating society in acceptance of bad ethical procedure.
These guys should hold their head in shame, we will have our day in due course.
No it doesn't go away. It's like being haunted.
They'll never hold their heads in shame. They think they're doing something good. Hope you're right about having "our day". Would love to see it exposed for the fraud that it is.
CRAIG

Bedford, MA

#63 Aug 31, 2012
The Internet is the leading cause of divorce for middle age woman. The second cause is going to a male gynecologist , against their husbands wishes. This is not a problem amongst younger woman , because they choose female obgyn's . Some middle age woman use the male gyn's for a thrill, yes they are paying for it and what does that make them? Middle age men have figured this out and divorce them. Afterwards the male doctor doesn't want anything to do with them unless they are paying. The men find younger woman who Arn't desperate (and would never go near a male crotch doctor) and marry them. The middle age woman get attention from their male doc once of twice a year. WHO WINS ? The attorneys, the doctor and the ex-husband. Who LOSES? We all know!
RICHARD

Bedford, MA

#64 Sep 3, 2012
Aint that the truth
Michael

Marlborough, MA

#65 Sep 6, 2012
Andrew wrote:
Is it all right if a gay male physician examines your husband? Is it all right if a lesbian examines your wife? Although there are a few bad apples, because physicians are humans, physicians are held to a high standard. They are not in the business of violating their patients in a vulnerable state.
The digital rectal examination (DRE) is done for numerous reasons. It can detect endometrial implants in the posterior cul-de-sac of the pelvis. Other diagnoses that can be elicited on examination: hemorrhoids, polyps, fissures, rectocele, enterocele.
Having said that, patients do not have eyes in their groin regions and thus it would make perfect sense for that physicisn (male or female) to notify the patient prior to performing the examination.
Male gynecologists are not lecherous sexual predators. They are no less professional than female gynecologists. Remember, the clinic is just that. It is not a massage parlor or a brothel. The entire process is and should be professional.
Whenever, people vehemently dislike something or some behavior, they may actually be afraid of that said thing in themselves. Research it in psychology books. Also, those averse to opposite sex examinations, may have deep rooted issues in trusting their partner or have low self esteem.
. Hey ace, don't you know woman are wired differently then men ? Do you think a straight woman doctor is going to be perving over a straight good looking man? We all know the answer, NO. So why would a lesbian perv over a straight woman ? Do you think lesbians have a stronger sex drive. For a doctor , your not that intelligent , quawk.
John

Louisville, KY

#66 Sep 7, 2012
I'm not really sure why any married woman who was electing to have this type of exam that involves such graphic nudity and having such intimate private areas seen and touched that only her and her husband have access to would not ensure she went to a lady doctor for that type of exam.
Michael

Enfield, CT

#68 Sep 7, 2012
pailrider wrote:
You would'nt want this doctor near your back door lol.
http://www.sacbee.com/2012/09/06/4794664/ex-p...
Oh, he's like Dr. Andrew. They both like the back door, except Dr. Andrew likes it on girls. I bet he likes the front door too. Though, he seems to have a special place in his heart for girls back doors. I wonder if his wife know, because this would be cheating! Right Andy. Maybe you like boys back doors to Andy. You havn't answered again, don't they have computers in prison?
CHRIS

Bedford, MA

#70 Sep 8, 2012
pailrider wrote:
<quoted text>
Just' do NOT tie shoe lace in front of the perv lol
LOL. They'll love him in prison where he'll end up. He better have soap on a rope.

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#71 Sep 8, 2012
CRAIG wrote:
The Internet is the leading cause of divorce for middle age woman. The second cause is going to a male gynecologist , against their husbands wishes. This is not a problem amongst younger woman , because they choose female obgyn's . Some middle age woman use the male gyn's for a thrill, yes they are paying for it and what does that make them? Middle age men have figured this out and divorce them. Afterwards the male doctor doesn't want anything to do with them unless they are paying. The men find younger woman who Arn't desperate (and would never go near a male crotch doctor) and marry them. The middle age woman get attention from their male doc once of twice a year. WHO WINS ? The attorneys, the doctor and the ex-husband. Who LOSES? We all know!
Hey CRAIG,

Our wives probably cannot help themself, sometimes they become out of control due to the release of a hormone called 'Oxytocin'. The b!st!rd male doctor knows exactly which 'buttons' to press to ensure that your wife keeps coming back for more treatment!

By allowing your wife to go to a male doctor for these type of examinations you take the risk of your wife forming an accidental 'hormonal' bond with the doctor which could be potentially devistational to your marriage...

Please read on...

The hormone 'Oxytocin'(which can be easily released into the patient's bloodstream through accidental stimulation of the patient's cervix during a pap/smear or pelvic examination). Oxytocin is a natural hormone within every woman which will make your wife feel calmness, trust, respect and even love for the Doctor who accidentally triggered the release of the hormone within your wife!(I'm pretty sure that Doctors are very knowledgeable about the Oxytocin hormone release and know how it affects patients).

"OXYTOCIN: is a powerful hormone and a neurotransmitter within the brain. This hormone plays a huge role in pair bonding (mating). This hormone is released during stimulation to female erogenous zones (especially genitalia area). Oxytocin is commonly described as the 'hormone of love'. This tiny chemical, released from the hypothalamus region of the brain, gives rat mothers the urge to nurse their pups, keeps male prairie voles monogamous and, even more remarkable, makes people trust and love each other."

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index...

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#72 Sep 8, 2012
CRAIG wrote:
The Internet is the leading cause of divorce for middle age woman. The second cause is going to a male gynecologist , against their husbands wishes. This is not a problem amongst younger woman , because they choose female obgyn's . Some middle age woman use the male gyn's for a thrill, yes they are paying for it and what does that make them? Middle age men have figured this out and divorce them. Afterwards the male doctor doesn't want anything to do with them unless they are paying. The men find younger woman who Arn't desperate (and would never go near a male crotch doctor) and marry them. The middle age woman get attention from their male doc once of twice a year. WHO WINS ? The attorneys, the doctor and the ex-husband. Who LOSES? We all know!
Hey CRAIG,

I know people who actually know male gynecologists personally as friends or family members. Male gynecologists sometimes confess things to people close to them, in social situations, or when drunk.

They sometimes says things like, "it's a real buzz examining young teenage women" and things like, "You should have seen the breasts on the one I saw to today!" and things like, "I couldn't believe how wet and excited she was!" and things like, "wow, I couldn't believe the swelling of her clitoris!" and things like, "her cute little 'box' was perfect, just like a mouse's ear passage", need I go on?

This IS how male gynecologists sometimes talk to people that they completely trust (fact). How does this make you feel ladies?

How does this make you feel after they've fooled you by acting completely 'professional' in front of you?

Don't you feel a little deceived? Some of you may like this kind of 'banter', but that makes you no better than the Husband who secretly visits a prostitute.

You can 'Google search' and read for yourself the long list of dishonourable male doctors who have been rightly exposed! I feel that women have been brainwashed into thinking that male gynecologists are 'too professional' to get sexual pleasure from intimate examinations!?

Any man knows that the body of an attractive woman is going to turn a man on sexually, doctor or no doctor.

People don't usually just do things for other people... People are naturally selfish. The main reason that people actually choose go into a certain profession is often subconsciously related.

"A woman who was once bullied by her brother became a pediatric nurse. Why? What do nurses give to children all day? Shots!(injections). She gets to see young boys cry all day!"

Besides all the 'spoof' that people ofen 'splurt' out in order to make themselves look good in front of other people, they often do things only for 'self-serving' reasons.

Why would a male take OB/GYN? Of course they average $200,000 annual income, but you can't remove the fact that despite all those 'honourable' reasons, a male gynecologist may well have picked OB/GYN for the fact that he gets to do intimate things to many women without out all the dating rigmarole and expense.

It's easy to overlook that fact that Gynecologists are 'biological beings'. It's easy to overlook the fact that their choice to become an OB/GYN could be sexually motivated. To overlook these definite possibilities, is voluntary blindness!

However, career choice reasons set aside... those who practice OB/GYN successfully, are often VERY professional in their mannerism (good at hiding their true feelings and motives). Doctors are taught and instructed to keep these natural feelings to themselves through med-school.

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#73 Sep 8, 2012
CRAIG wrote:
The Internet is the leading cause of divorce for middle age woman. The second cause is going to a male gynecologist , against their husbands wishes. This is not a problem amongst younger woman , because they choose female obgyn's . Some middle age woman use the male gyn's for a thrill, yes they are paying for it and what does that make them? Middle age men have figured this out and divorce them. Afterwards the male doctor doesn't want anything to do with them unless they are paying. The men find younger woman who Arn't desperate (and would never go near a male crotch doctor) and marry them. The middle age woman get attention from their male doc once of twice a year. WHO WINS ? The attorneys, the doctor and the ex-husband. Who LOSES? We all know!
It's complete nonsense when male doctors say that they don't find any sexual gratification from seeing an attractive woman naked! This goes completely against the nature of man!

Many women will not believe not hear anything negative said about male gynecologists no matter how 'logical' argument, this is because most women's reasoning is 'primarily emotional'. Only a logical thinking woman will understand my case here and they already tend to keep well away from male doctors!

Go ahead and research the 'female clitoris'... you will soon discover that stimulation of the clitoris is virtually guaranteed during a gynelogical exam. As a result, vaginal lubrication begins to flow, this is the start of sexual arousal! Some women even say that they've had orgasms during such an examination and that they couldn't help it!

As for the male OB/GYN... his male genetic make-up is naturally programmed to respond to female pheromones (natural hormonal scent given off by the vagina) and he is getting a faceful of this during an intimate examination no matter how 'detached' or 'desensitized' he is.

The programming deep within his genes does not automatically shut off during an intimate examination! And if he were somehow 'desensitized', then he'll probably have a VERY unhappy wife or girlfriend at home!

Of the 2 basic instincts, men have - survival and reproduction - the female patient's reaction, as well as the male OB/GYN's reaction, are naturally governed to this basic reproduction level no matter what the veneers of present-day society, past society, attempts to explain, rationalizations and justifications are used to wrap the realities an intimate examination situation.

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#74 Sep 8, 2012
CRAIG wrote:
The Internet is the leading cause of divorce for middle age woman. The second cause is going to a male gynecologist , against their husbands wishes. This is not a problem amongst younger woman , because they choose female obgyn's . Some middle age woman use the male gyn's for a thrill, yes they are paying for it and what does that make them? Middle age men have figured this out and divorce them. Afterwards the male doctor doesn't want anything to do with them unless they are paying. The men find younger woman who Arn't desperate (and would never go near a male crotch doctor) and marry them. The middle age woman get attention from their male doc once of twice a year. WHO WINS ? The attorneys, the doctor and the ex-husband. Who LOSES? We all know!
In my opinion, women who choose male gynecologsits are as much to blame, especially if they are in a 'comitted' relationship, or even worse... if they are Married!

I find it extremely repellent how male doctors tend to manipulate women into having these intrusive examinations, however that doesn't excuse the fact that many women deliberately go to these male doctors knowing full-well how much it hurts their Husbands!

I think about 90% of the blame rests on the medical industry. Women were raised to believe that male doctors can do anything, since they are 'experts' of the human body. This is a HUGE cultural blind spot! My Mother went to a male gynecologist for many years, I started questioning her when I was about 8 - 10 years. It made no sense to me how it was okay for a grown woman to disrobe in front of a male doctor to whom she wasn't married. My Mother used to ignore my concerns. But when I grew up, she listened to me. She has not gone to a male gynecologist for over 13 years now. She told me she no longer believes that any man (including male gynecologists) can stay 'pure in thought' when they're confronted with naked women.

The medical industry uses scare tactics to encourage women into intimidating examinations. Most women who go to a male gynecologist hold their breath and go 'in the name of medicine'. They don't even think about how it could affect their relationships and Marriages. Most women assume that male gyneoclogists are professionals who can turn off their sexual feelings within a medical settings, which is just not true.

I find the whole thing mentally and emotionally tormenting.

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