Male reaction during massage... !

First off, i'm a guy!
I've been receiving massages for quite a while now. 10 years, at a rate of 1 massage per month. The sense of touch has alway been very intense for me, so you can see why I just adore receiving massages.
The thing that bugs me is that in each and every massage i've received, I have always leaked a little precum. Even when I'm not aroused or excited. I don't even have an erection most of the time.

This has happened each and every time. When getting massaged by a young female therapist. When getting massaged by an old female therapist. When getting massaged by a male therapist. When receiving the massage draped. When receiving the massage completely nude.
Now you can understand that this is quite frustrating and embarassing, especially since I don't go there hoping for "happy endings", and I don't have fantasies about 55-year-old ladies or male therapists.
Since touch is really intense for me, my guess is that somehow, it's my body's normal reaction to being touched. But it remains bothersome.
My regular massage therapist is used to this and she knows that it's not something sexual aimed at her; In fact, she massages me nude, and simply gives me a tissue to cleanup when I flip. It's cool. But for other therapists (People like "Female MT" on this forum for example), I always get the feeling that i'm immediatly tagged as a pervert because of this...
Has this happened to other dudes? Did you find a way to get it under control? Any (constructive!) input is appreciated...
Thanks,

It happens, and it's common, and there isn't really much you can do about it. I don't know of any way to stop the "precum" from leaking out.

Either learn to live with it, or start getting draped massages, so the problem isn't so obvious.

Maybe masturbating yourself a couple of hours beforehand would stop the problem, clean out the pipes, so to speak.

But if it were me, I wouldn't worry about it. Your regular MT is clearly not bothered by it, so you shouldn't be either.

yea, I have leaked as well and I will sometimes check the sheet when I am finished to see if there is an obvious wet spot. Sometimes there is and other times it is not so noticable. I agree that there is not much you can do about it. I've never been given a tissue to wipe myself when I flip over. I have had precum get on my belly but with the oil or cream on me as well, I've never felt the need to wipe it.

SICK PUPPY

Thanks for the input guys. And I usually do masturbate before going to the massage, otherwise it's even worse!

Actually, since I wrote the original thread, I spoke with my regular MT about it. It does not bother her (I already knew that), but she told me that from her experience it happens to maybe 20% of men she sees.

Oh well, I guess I'll just live with it, and try to find MTs that are mature enough to know the difference between a guy having an erection and a guy wanting a "happy ending".

You really think we believe your rants - get real sick pupppy

Baker,

First of all, ignore the trolls (Exemplo Gratia: Rubbish.)

Secondly, if your therapist is fine with it, don't worry! This is totally normal, although not exactly a regular occurrence. If you find yourself about to receive a massage from someone who ISN'T your regular therapist the solution is simple! Wear dark, loosish underwear! Something that will mask the stain, and still make you comfortable. I never under any circumstances give a fully nude massage, as a self-preserving rule. Not that there is anything wrong with it, it's just for the safety of my career. For me, underwear is a must.

Also, if that is absolutely unnaceptable, you may want to look into kegel exercises. It may just be the soltion to your issue.

I hope I helped,
And good luck!

Thanks for the info Cablefist!

I guess for the moment I'm sticking to my regular MT. But yes, Kegel exercices.... hadn't thought of that. who know, increased muscle tonus in the region might help!

thanks again.

you wont lie down will you