Non Sexual Penis Massage

My massage therapist has started doing a hot oil massage which is done undraped. She is very professional and caring. When she started this, she explained that the massage was a non-sexual massage. She does a full bodu massage but includes the pelvic region as well as the penis. She massages the penis like any other part of the body. She never wpaps her hand around the penis, but uses her fingers, and only for a short period of time, so as to keep it from getting sexual. Sometimes I am so relaxed that I don't get an erection, and sometimes I get a full blown erection. She has never commented on it and has NEVER gone past the point where it became sexual. Although I would like a "release" I have never brought it up or tried anything in front of her, since she told me early on that this was a non-sexual massage. My question is. Is she waiting for a response from me or truly doing just a penis massage. Any thoughts? And NO, this is not a dear Penthouse letter.

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I would be about 99% sure that any therapist doing a "penis massage" is open to a happy ending.

At the very least, she certainly won't be offended if you ask. Just tell her that portion of the massage is quite arousing, and you'd feel much more relaxed if she'd take it to completion.

Again, I could be wrong, but I can't imagine any therapist who does undraped massage, full body including the penis, would be offended by the request.

I am not a forward person, and I have been going to her for a while. I would hate to lose this therapist as she gives a really good massage (even without the(penis massage). She is board certified, not some wanna be. I would like to take it further, but she said on the first time that this was non-sexual.

When she does the front side of me she opens my legs in a butterfly position with pillows under my knees. The last massage I had I was totally erect as it had been a while since I had sex or masturbated. When she was finished she left the pillows under my knees instead of removing them like she normally does. I took the oportunity to finish myself off after she left, as she always says to take my time and never comes back into the room. She is not some young girl who is teasing me, but probably late 40's to early 50's.

The "rules" are she needs to offer if there are "options". You don't ask, she offers. So she wants to give a little sensuality with the understanding you are going to take care of things yourself after she leaves.

Asking is soliciting.

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while Chris is technically, and legally correct -- again, I can't imagine she'd have a problem with it if you respectfully asked about it.

So would I be totally out of line if I was to masturbate after she massaged my pen!s.

Seems you have an excellent thing going there, Bill. Why not, very subtly, hint that the erection is creating more tension than the massage is easing and leave her open to bring it to release? If she does, you win. If she doesn't, you still win. You can always whack it after she departs. I wouldn't masturbate in her presence unless you get a clear signal that it's okay. You might fondle or stroke yourself a couple of times to see if she catches the hint, but I would hesitate to blow a load in her presence. Like you said, you don't want to ruin a good...GREAT thing.

Bill,

I would agree with Hans, being subtle is the key. Maybe touch it a bit and watch her reaction. If none, a couple of strokes. Err on the side of caution if you detect any hint of disapproval on her part.

I have to admit I have never heard of a non sexual penis massage and agree she should not be offended if you just ask. HOWEVER, she may be required to say no.

Please let us know how this goes.

plz give mu that lady no

plz give me that lady no

I have read about a massage called a "Lingam", massage. It is the massage soley of the penis. Ejacualtion is not the goal, but it is also not discouraged. I am a male, and could never find a female, legit therapist to try this massage with, so I contacted some legit male therapists, and finally one that was willing to give the style a try after he read more about it.

I did have it done by him, and he followed what was written about this massage. I did become erect almost instantly, and I did also orgasm during it, about 20 minutes into the session.

I have not gone back again yet, but at some point, I am sure that I will.

Bill, what happened next? Could you talk to her?

My gut feel, it's her age (around 50) that stops her from offering anything more. She might feel that you would expect a younger companion if at all you were to cross the line - from non-sexual to sexual.

Lmao, Ohh please she knows what she is doing. do u give her tips? She probably isn't very busy and just needs the return clientele

A penis massage non sexual? Don't be naive. I'm a 22yr old cmp I've given, received and traded so many massages. I got a story ill make it quick so I was doing a massage trade at this old ladies house she liked me cuz she kept saying I was so healthy blah blah blah. She told me she would do a complete full body massage but it would be non sexual. When she told me that i said cool with me. In my head I was like "sure lady u just want to scew" and sure enough we did.
Don't be a wimp she is massaging your penis, she is already breaking the law u should try to sleep with her. She'll probably make u pay for it tho

Crappy story from a 22 year old?

piscescmp wrote:

Lmao, Ohh please she knows what she is doing. do u give her tips? She probably isn't very busy and just needs the return clientele
A penis massage non sexual? Don't be naive. I'm a 22yr old cmp I've given, received and traded so many massages. I got a story ill make it quick so I was doing a massage trade at this old ladies house she liked me cuz she kept saying I was so healthy blah blah blah. She told me she would do a complete full body massage but it would be non sexual. When she told me that i said cool with me. In my head I was like "sure lady u just want to scew" and sure enough we did.
Don't be a wimp she is massaging your penis, she is already breaking the law u should try to sleep with her. She'll probably make u pay for it tho

I don't want to sleep with her, however I would like a good hand job

@Paul. Chris is not "technically" correct (also just called "correct" btw) or legally correct. Draping is required in all massage therapy sessions in Indiana. THAT IS THE LAW. Sorry for the caps, but it takes no time to research this, and those that don't a just wishing the opposite is true. What you're experiencing is a low grade form of prostitution. Don't believe me? Go up to a cop and descibe your sessions. They'll be really interested.... Good luck with the hand job.

First of all, for all the massage therapy customers, there is no such thing as a "non-sexual penis massage". She is completely tainting the professional side of massage therapy and overstepping boundaries, as it were. I have been a masage therapist since 2001, and I also have a degree in Massage Therapy. NEVER in any formal training for Massage Therapy will you ever learn how to do a "non-sexual penis massage", it doesn't exist. So to the gentleman who was duped into thinking this is normal, it's not. It doesn't matter if they are "Board certified" (which is known as Nationally Certified, not Board certified BTW) Nationally certified just means she took the National Exam to become a certified MT for the country. She can practice anywhere in the US. It doesn't mean she won't be tempted to make a little extra money hiding behind the educational credentials of massage therapy. The fact that she's in her 40's or 50's just means she has age experience under her belt. She probably read a book about erotic massage, which has nothing to do with the requirements for receiving your massage certification.
So to clarify,...nowhere in any legitimate massage school or massage education are any massage therapists trained to do "non-sexual penis massage". Think about it for a moment, I know I have had male therapists (non-gay), in my classes. So if you assume that a "non-sexual penis massage" is normal training in a massage school, the school would be training the male students as well, RIGHT??? Ask a male therapist if that's what they learned in their massage training.