Do Women get aroused during massage?

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<quoted text>Enjoy it and let her know by your actions. Moan when if feels good, and breathe fsst, dont hide it. If she wants to do more-let her. Its not cheating. Dont deprive your self of your LMT's sexy touch. Let her make you cum, and walk out feeling beautiful. We worry to much and miss so much pleasure.
I agree 100%!
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I have been DYING for my MT to take it further. He once finally did something I really enjoyed, but the next 5 times I've seen him he's acted like it never happened.:(
I am so aroused by this man's hands, that when he goes near my thighs I immediately get wet, at first I was embarrassed but after a few sessions I just go with it and moan all I need to. The one time he really touched me was amazing though. He massaged and stroked my breasts, brushed his fingers down my little slit, and in the end he sucked (quickly) on my nipples before he exited the room. I thought I'd gone to heaven! Unfortunately, he has never touched me like that again. i give all the signals, open my legs, bring up my ass for him, etc...I wonder if he thinks I'm a cop or something and not just a horny housewife????
Honestly, I know it's wrong, but I keep hoping he takes me to orgasm each time I see him.
actually I tested so many male massage but no one could satisfy me. I have been introduced to one foreigner student who knows how to massage breast. he learned it just for himself and he is not doing it as job but he was really perfect. I was so aroused and wet. he is very calm and gentleman. I'm very comfortable with him because he is not doing anything wrong or get advantage of me. I cannot put his email here cause I'm not sure he is comfortable with that. anyway if you want you can just comment here then I will ask him.

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I also learn breast, glut and hip professional touch during my study of MLD (manual lymph drainage).
Thor Elfdail

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I've had quite a few erotic massages from some of the better practitioners in my area. Some of them seemed to get at least a little bit aroused, some didn't. But in the same way that "legitimate" masseuses get all holy and claim they'd never touch a penis, the erotic massage girls, who do touch penises, go out of their way to set themselves apart from "full service" and "gfe" providers (hookers and escorts). So they are usually very careful not to give you the wrong idea. For example, they usually allow you to fondle their bottom and breasts, but not usual their genitals, or if they allow that, it must be very brief and "non-invasive" (as they put it :-) HOWEVER... I recently met a very intelligent, and well-educated young lady, who also has a good "real" job, and who gives erotic massages for a second income. She gave me a totally naked full body massage (both of us naked), and when I asked for "tantric style" non-release prolonged genital arousal, she agreed. And she did this extremely well. As she worked on me, I stroked her breasts and buttocks, and ran my hands over her back, belly, and limbs. But I didn't even try to touch her labia at first, me being indoctrinated with the concepts I've mentioned above. She was gliding and sliding and crawling all over me as she worked, so eventually I just felt drawn to respectfully slide my fingers over her clean-shaven vulva from behind. WOW! She was so wet I could hardly believe it! I mean, I've had girlfriends who never reached that state of arousal, who never got that wet. I asked her about this and she told me matter-of-fact that she always gets aroused doing erotic massage. I found this very interesting because I haven't been a hot, young stud for at least 30 years, and am not especially good looking. My masseuse maintained a professional bedside manner and did not act out any erotic desires she may (or may not) have been fantasizing. I continued to gently stroke her wet, slippery vulva on and off for the final 15 minutes of our session. She later told me that she only does 5-6 erotic massages per week, because this way she can keep her energy where she likes it. If she worked at this 40 hours per week, she probably would reach the point where she didn't get wet during the massages anymore. It's nice to meet someone so honest and lacking in hypocrisy. This is a very guiltless pleasure, whatever the blue-noses and wowsers may imagine. How on earth can anyone be expected to live without receiving an affectionate and erotic touch from time to time?(!)
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Apr 5, 2011
 
Thor Elfdail wrote:
I've had quite a few erotic massages from some of the better practitioners in my area. Some of them seemed to get at least a little bit aroused, some didn't. But in the same way that "legitimate" masseuses get all holy and claim they'd never touch a penis, the erotic massage girls, who do touch penises, go out of their way to set themselves apart from "full service" and "gfe" providers (hookers and escorts). So they are usually very careful not to give you the wrong idea. For example, they usually allow you to fondle their bottom and breasts, but not usual their genitals, or if they allow that, it must be very brief and "non-invasive" (as they put it :-) HOWEVER... I recently met a very intelligent, and well-educated young lady, who also has a good "real" job, and who gives erotic massages for a second income. She gave me a totally naked full body massage (both of us naked), and when I asked for "tantric style" non-release prolonged genital arousal, she agreed. And she did this extremely well. As she worked on me, I stroked her breasts and buttocks, and ran my hands over her back, belly, and limbs. But I didn't even try to touch her labia at first, me being indoctrinated with the concepts I've mentioned above. She was gliding and sliding and crawling all over me as she worked, so eventually I just felt drawn to respectfully slide my fingers over her clean-shaven vulva from behind. WOW! She was so wet I could hardly believe it! I mean, I've had girlfriends who never reached that state of arousal, who never got that wet. I asked her about this and she told me matter-of-fact that she always gets aroused doing erotic massage. I found this very interesting because I haven't been a hot, young stud for at least 30 years, and am not especially good looking. My masseuse maintained a professional bedside manner and did not act out any erotic desires she may (or may not) have been fantasizing. I continued to gently stroke her wet, slippery vulva on and off for the final 15 minutes of our session. She later told me that she only does 5-6 erotic massages per week, because this way she can keep her energy where she likes it. If she worked at this 40 hours per week, she probably would reach the point where she didn't get wet during the massages anymore. It's nice to meet someone so honest and lacking in hypocrisy. This is a very guiltless pleasure, whatever the blue-noses and wowsers may imagine. How on earth can anyone be expected to live without receiving an affectionate and erotic touch from time to time?(!)
I agree we are in need of touch'

What did ur massage cost you?
Johnny

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From my experience it's not unusual for some women to get sexually aroused during the massage. The intensity and expression depends on the individual, their response to touch and the type of massage they are getting. Some are more prone to getting aroused while getting a massage than others. Among the most sensitive are that can trigger the sensual response I would mention these areas in the first place: cervical spine, tendons of upper traps, occipitals, and pecks. Interestingly enough if the woman is not very comfortable with you, working on her glutes and inner thighs does not necessarily cause the arousal even if the person is prone to getting aroused. But ones the certain level of comfort has been established those are very sensitive areas too. The areas around the knees, feet, hands, forarms and front of the neck also contribute to experiencing the sensual sensations. When it happens it's interesting to see how different women react to the sensation they are feeling differently. While some consider getting aroused during the massage as something inappropriate, something they "should not" be feeling and get uncomfortable, others accept it and give the signs that they do not mind the sensual touch. In both cases the client comfort is the priority, massage experience should be enjoyable and customized to the particular person needs. It takes experience on the part of the person doing the massage to interpret the signs of arousal and most importantly how to proceed. Some women experiencing the sexual arousal are not sure whether they want it or not (in which case the massage practitioner should not try to make her more aroused), while others do want their arousal to intensify.

From my experience of giving massages I'd say 70% of the women do not get sexually aroused at all during the massage (or they hide it very well). About 20% get somewhat aroused and another 10% get obviously aroused.

Provided that a woman wants it, I personally see nothing wrong, bad, unethical or criminal proceeding with a sensual massage. On the contrary a skillfully performed sensual massage can help free up the trapped energy normalizing and optimizing its flow which it its turn will have a very positive effect on the physical and emotional well being of a person. However I strongly believe that sensual should not be confused with sexual and massage should remain a massage and not a sexual intercourse.

90% of my massages are "therapeutic" in the meaning of "non-sensual" with traditional draping used. 10% are sensual massages with different degree of sensual touch. I've had requests of full body massages without draping with "everything" to be massaged. I have female customers who are comfortable with their breast area not covered and massaged (or uncovered but not massaged). And I have customers with whom I use the draping but the nature of touch is sensual without crossing the line. The client's comfort is the priority and I always make sure my touch is comfortable. The women requesting sensual massages trust me and I trust them (otherwise I would not do it), so I'm not afraid to get in trouble with the official massage agencies' draping regulations.
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I must say I really enjoy giving sensual massages. Unfortunately in the US the sensual massage is a taboo and can not be practiced openly. I believe it's mainly because of the conservative religious ethical norms in the US society according to which nudity, sex and sensuality outside of marriage is considered sinful and dirty. It's so deep in people's mentality by now that the Americans are rightfully considered prudent and uptight in the world as far as the naked body is concerned. This mentality is reflected in the massage law in many US states that requires draping the breast and genital areas during every massage without exception, no matter whether the client wants it or not. And it's a big deal even if the client is ready and willing to give a massage practitioner a written consent allowing to get a massage without draping. It's very understandable that draping should be a standard practice in most cases but I truly believe that if both sides are comfortable without it then it should not be illegal. When something becomes a taboo it does not seize to exist but goes underground. In this case it results in the "massage" ads on backpage that are not true professional sensual massages but rushed happy ending sessions that do not do anybody any good. Sensual massage is an art and requires the same training as therapeutic massage. The biggest mistake it to confuse sensual massage with a sexual service. A true sensual massage does not involve ejaculation because its purpose is to circulate the powerful sexual energy through the body helping us become comfortable with our bodies, accept ourselves as we are, realize our true nature, transcend our complexes, be healthy physically and mentally and be free.

Best wishes, let the peace be with you.

Johnny
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Johnny wrote:
Unfortunately in the US the sensual massage is a taboo and can not be practiced openly. I believe it's mainly because of the conservative religious ethical norms in the US society according to which nudity, sex and sensuality outside of marriage is considered sinful and dirty. It's so deep in people's mentality by now that the Americans are rightfully considered prudent and uptight in the world as far as the naked body is concerned.
EXACTLY. Very well put.
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Wow Johnny, I want a massage from you dude!!!

I agree 100% with your assessment of sunsual massage.
Thor Elfdail

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Although to some it may sounds a bit like Bill Clinton's classic, "I smoked, but I didn't inhale" comment, I agree with Johnny that in the best cases, a sensual massage should arouse and circulate the powerful sexual-bio energy through the body and avoid ejaculation, although if both parties are willing to include ejaculation, that should be ok too. I mean, I wouldn't condone that the usual gang of elected idiots should pass a law making "sensual massage without ejaculation legal, but if you come, you both go to jail" LOL. Those who try it both ways often quickly begin to value the energy build up and circulation over the energy release and the attendant energy drain.

Anyhow, this is where I differ with nay-sayers (actually bigots) such as LMT. Since whatever the law may be, if both parties are discreet and get to know one another a bit and become friendly before stepping into gray areas or even totally illegal (but not immoral) areas, then it will be virtually impossible for them to run afoul of these so-called laws because it will be impossible to be discovered.
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I've been seeing a female m.t. for over a month now and I become almost uncontrollably aroused by her EVERY time.
I read an earlier post where the girl said she was visibly wet. The SAME thing happens to me at every massage. She just has this "way" of getting close but not actually touching my vagina while massaging my buttocks and inner thighs. It drives me CRAZY and it's almost as if she's TRYING to get a rise out of me. I'm both embarrased and aroused as the excitement "literally" leaks out of me. Any other women out there experience this while being massaged by another woman?
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May 31, 2011
 
Love it Brooke!!!
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Brooke, do not be embarrassed and enjoy it. If you like what you feel, just give her a sign and she’ll be more comfortable with you too.

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After almost every massage I have ever gotten, I have to be aroused from a sleepless state to get dressed and drive home.

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OOPs, that was supposed to be sleepy, not sleepless
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Brooke wrote:
I've been seeing a female m.t. for over a month now and I become almost uncontrollably aroused by her EVERY time.
I read an earlier post where the girl said she was visibly wet. The SAME thing happens to me at every massage. She just has this "way" of getting close but not actually touching my vagina while massaging my buttocks and inner thighs. It drives me CRAZY and it's almost as if she's TRYING to get a rise out of me. I'm both embarrased and aroused as the excitement "literally" leaks out of me. Any other women out there experience this while being massaged by another woman?
The same thing happens to me and I'm embarrassed, but I love the touch. She doesn't touch me there, but I'm wet.
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I've been seeing my massage therapist for 3 years now and I always get aroused and get wet. I can't hide it, so I'm sure he knows and does not mind it because I noticed that when a certain area feels especially pleasurable he stays there longer and it makes me go into the zone. He never touches my pussy and it makes the arousal even more intense. Sometimes I wish he did.
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I am a woman who recently found an amazing male LMT- he owns his own place- after working at a chain (he gave me his cell # after my 1st massage w/ him). So when I 1st met him I felt an immediate connection...during the massage where u flip from front to back- somehow- my breasts were exposed but then he quickly covered them back up...in the 10+ years of getting massaged that has NEVER happened to me! I didn't mind tho... So now he's in his new place and the massages are getting more sensual - his hands r amazing and w/out touching private areas he gets me 100% aroused and super wet... I've found myself thinking about him on a regular basis, I've fantasized about him touching me and stroking me to the point that I've made myself cum repeatedly...At my last visit I put my arms straight back / while I was lying on my back and I accidentally touched his cock...I didn't say anything and neither did he, but from what I felt for that brief moment- he WAS aroused...I just don't know if he is willing to take the massage to the next level- I don't want to ask- way too embarrassed- but I really want him so bad...funny thing is that he's not a young hot beefy stud- just a regular guy right @ my age of 40something...I'm seeing him soon- made a 2 HR appt at his recommendation....what should I do so he knows that it will be safe to "go there" with me??? My sexual desire for him is so intense I get wet thinking about him touching me! I need some help with this- never had a masseuse stir up this kind of arousal and desire! I'm really confused about what to do- or NOT to do! I may have to change lmt's to keep myself from going crazy w/ desire! Help me please!

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