Do Women get aroused during massage?

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hotdude wrote:

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Actually, Mike Hunt is a little sore today and needs a massage bad!

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Johnny wrote:

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No problem with glutes and inner thigh massage does not mean a woman wants more. She is likely just comfortable with your touch.

In some cases that is the true but females are suttle, as a straight guy I can pick up on them without much guesswork. Moaning, grabing my hand when I am massaging the the palms and other cues. I have had female clients sat dont worry about the sheets, I am not shy.

For example, I actually had a couple of females "hang around" after the massage. I can tell they wanted more but were afraid to ask I think, or maybe they wanted a date, I am not sure.:)

Another example would be someone that I have massaged before come to the massage dressed very sexy. They walk in with very short mini skirts and heels.

Some women try to feel you out with questions such as, "I had a male massage therapist before and he was interested in other parts of my body, what do you think about that?" Somethines they will accidently have a breast slip out from under the sheets and their nipples are pointed straight at me.

However, even if a woman wanted more, which I would not do, it certainly would not be a woman that I never seen before. In some places you have undercover cops posing as clients. As a massage therapist you are taking a big risk.

I am glad that my clients feel safe and relaxed when I massage them, that is what a massage is supposed to do. I have spoken with females therapist before and most of them told me about how nice the guys body was when they were massaging them. I think it is the same way with male therapists. Some of the females are incredible sexy which for me is enjoyable in itself. I like women whether I am massaging them or having a conversation.

I remember my private masseuse would at first only touch me near my ass, and tits! But one time i begged that he massaged my inner thigh, so he did and moved and started grinding my labia and he massaged my clitoris. I came over and over again, and we still do it once a week! I'm a horny housewife, what else am I suppose to do!?! <3

Hi, I'm new to this forum and I'm glad I found it! I posted the following on another thread here but think, perhaps, it's more appropriate on this thread. Forgive me for the double post, please, but I thinkit's an important issue. After many years as an LMT, well regarded by my peers and thousands of clients, I think I have the right to say how disappointed I that so many MTs have such an inflated view of our noble profession and so little understanding, tolerance and compassion for their clients. I have found that such attitudes are invariably characteristic of , generally, poor therapists who's experience is relatively as limited as their tolerance seems to be.

" I've been doing massage therapy for 16 years. Many modalities from neuromuscular / deep tissue to Thai , hot stones, Swedish, etc.. I had a private practice, worked in doctors' offices, physical therapy clinics, boutique spas and huge resort spas.
I've found that, especially in a spa setting, women often become aroused. As other therapists have said, I take that as a compiment to my work. I guestimate about 15% of them let me know they would like a more intimate massage, usually by body language ( spreading their legs as I work their upper thighs, moaning and sometimes just saying so. One particularly bold lady who knew her own mind and was comfortable with it said " make it last... Don't make me cum too soon".
I am always happy to oblige. And, by the way, it makes no difference to me about their looks, weight or age. I am particularly touched and gratified when it is an older woman who solicits such attention. Often, they have not been touched lovingly and intimately in a long time. One lady cried tears of joy and gratitude when she came . She was so peaceful and happy when she left.
I am aware that some peeps think that this is unprofessional and/ or immoral. I think neither is the case. The nature of my work, human sexuality and the human need to be touched in a caring, loving, nurturing way make, in my opinion, sufficient justification to provide what I consider to be therapeutic treatment despite Puritanical laws and "ethics" of some societies.
What is immoral, and obscene is violence sanctioned by those same societies in the forms of war, capital punishment, domestic abuse, etc.,etc., ad infinitum .
Thank you all for sharing your experiences and points of view. Very interesting topic/forum =; )

Yeah, I too have been doing massage therapy for almost 20 years, and I resent your implication that just because I refuse sexual service that my massages are below par. I see you have worked many places, I have always had my own little place, and a very successful little clinic it is.

If the only way to defend your practice is to put others down, then you do not have a true arguement. Try sticking to just the facts in debate please.

an LMT wrote:

Yeah, I too have been doing massage therapy for almost 20 years, and I resent your implication that just because I refuse sexual service that my massages are below par. I see you have worked many places, I have always had my own little place, and a very successful little clinic it is.
If the only way to defend your practice is to put others down, then you do not have a true arguement. Try sticking to just the facts in debate please.

Resent what you wish. It's not your experience or skills I question. It's your attitude of trying to impose your point of view on a question on which equally skilled and, yes, ethical professional peers, have various opinions.

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Resent what you wish. It's not your experience or skills I question. It's your attitude of trying to impose your point of view on a question on which equally skilled and, yes, ethical professional peers, have various opinions.

I don't have a problem with a woman wanting more from a massage. In many other places in the world it is legal to do it. I don't think a male therapist is evil or sub par for not providing a happy ending for a woman. As a matter of fact that probally requires some skill with the hands thats not taught in schools.

I would like to pose a question. If you know the person you are massaging really well and you have developed a trusting relationship, would you still do the happy ending on a woman?

What if she said that she wasn't being satisfied at home, maybe her husband has medical problems. If there are any female opinions out there I would like to hear them.

I gave this one lady a massage who turned out to be my neighbor. One day I had a client who was already in the room face down wcovered with a towel. Originally it was not my client, but another coworkers who had to leave for some reason. So I did not see her when she came in. She was an older lady in her 40's. I massaged her back, legs and other parts and she was moving arond moaning. She was getting excited. When it was time to turn over, we saw each other and at first, it was akward, but she said continue to do what you did earlier. As I massaged her stomach she rubber her hand against my thing. It was hard. She lovered the sheet ans said if I would massage these? They were pretty big boobs. I did massage them. As she unzipped my pants and pulled out my cock I rubber her boobs and nipples and we came at the same time. We kept our mouths shut. I see her once a month.

I got my first massage today and i must say...i never thought what happened would actually happen lol...he massaged my boobs which turns me on beyond belief and then he kissed me and we made out for a brief moment n then he massaged my boobs more and i could tell he was very close to ummm u know...then he looked up at the clock and realized we had been in there over an hour

It also didnt help that i uncotrollably moaned when he hit the right spots on my back and he commented on how hott it was! I actually cant wait to go back and have a relaxing massage turn into stress relieving, excitement and scandal. Im going to purposely ask for him...he also loved how much pressure i liked being applied on my neck an back...hmm? I wonder why tht was...o yeah he pulled my hair too :)

Also, the whole ethics thing...think for yourself. People are way to emotionally sensitive...back in the day, doctors would actually prescribe woman to receive a hand job or the dr would do i t themselves lol i think its a healthy release of stress after a relaxing massage. Even though mine didnt go that far :( but everyone has their own beliefs on what should or shouldnt happen behind that door. I say as long as you like it, why object? As far as BEING a lmt you do run a high risk of the girl turnig around and tryig toget u into trouble cuz maybe they feltto uncomfortable to say stop...idk stupid rambling now. I only got to vent my experience today to my best friend and i have so many feelings going on right now i just wanna go back for a massage tomorrow if only my muscles weren't so sore..see u next month my molesting masseuse ;) hope hes not readingthis or else i would be very embarassed lol actually, if e is reading i want him to know he can blow his ____ on me next time instead of the bathroom right after my massage lol

Jehn wrote:

Also, the whole ethics thing...think for yourself. People are way to emotionally sensitive...back in the day, doctors would actually prescribe woman to receive a hand job or the dr would do i t themselves lol i think its a healthy release of stress after a relaxing massage. Even though mine didnt go that far :( but everyone has their own beliefs on what should or shouldnt happen behind that door. I say as long as you like it, why object? As far as BEING a lmt you do run a high risk of the girl turnig around and tryig toget u into trouble cuz maybe they feltto uncomfortable to say stop...idk stupid rambling now. I only got to vent my experience today to my best friend and i have so many feelings going on right now i just wanna go back for a massage tomorrow if only my muscles weren't so sore..see u next month my molesting masseuse ;) hope hes not readingthis or else i would be very embarassed lol actually, if e is reading i want him to know he can blow his ____ on me next time instead of the bathroom right after my massage lol

hey John , I call b/s on your story !

poor LMT... all these NASTY therapists are coming forward and admitting to being sinners! Maybe it is not the poor unsuspecting clients afterall??!!

hotdude wrote:

poor LMT... all these NASTY therapists are coming forward and admitting to being sinners! Maybe it is not the poor unsuspecting clients afterall??!!

Nah, it's just some kid inventing fantasies. Or can't you tell the difference?

U callin me a kid?? Lol im 24 and i didnt make it up haha...been thinking about it all day

Over the past few years, I have seen a trend of female clients expressing desires to receive massages undraped, and more of them expressing arousal openly. And here I worry about feminist movement moving backward, lol.

women deserve just as much sensual attention as guys, so why not!! Nausicaa, do you prefer to massage women or men? For me, it is men but not if they're too hairy.