Women respond to 'Sad' men about lack of sex -- Marriage, Chica...

Charming One wrote:

<quoted text>That's not what you said. Now I see how there is poor communication with your marriage.
<quoted text>I'm bringing up morals because it's my opinion of which I'm entiled too, not because a priest dictates it. Talk to me when you know how to communicate. Running away? I'm not the one complaining or disappointed about my marriage. I know how to communicate. You on the other hand, have issues that you need to work on. One of them is communication. Good Luck.

katokc1 wrote:

there are many men out there that will do all the housework and not have issues with it....i married a foreigner and he does better laundry and cooking than i do....i work come out and sweep and mop the floor...thats it....he does the laundry...cooks, cleans, waters the flowers, plants the flowers, mows the lawn...washes the cars...everything.....i chose not to settle for less and i got the best...a man that cleans and cooks better than me and still luvs me for it.....if you let men treat you like shit, they will....don't be submissive and be the head of the house and they will do whatever you want with the luv in their hearts to do it.....i would never ever be with an American man again...foreigners are the way to go...they respect American women and will treat them like gold...seen it too many times.....

noneoftheabove wrote:

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You "think" you know how to communicate. I think you have a hard time comprehending actually. Check the name of the article. I'm not complaining at all - it's called a discussion but you interpret it the way you see it I guess, oh great communicator! Then to say I have problems is pretty presumptive to say the least

celibatewife wrote:

Or you could turn the story around. My husband is a pornography addict (for over twenty years, I didn't know this) who prefers to take care of himself. It's not unusual for us to go months without sex. Real sex is a bother to him, m-ing is a quick fix and he only has to please himself. I am catholic and a priest said that this is not a good reason for annulment. Besides, we have several children.

male needs wrote:

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He cannot quit, it is harder to quit than heroin/smoking/drinking.
Your priest is 100% right, why, because all men do it, it is natural, men get wood even while sleeping, men are visual, women are romantic. Romance novels are female porn, should female porn be chastised, its laying in plain view all around the house. And a lot of the times men even think/fantasize of their wifes while doing it, and they would love it if she could be involved, but our prudish society has said no you cannot look at visual images with your spouse and gratify each other. Just a tip for all marriages, after years of marriage, try something new. If you ate the same dry dog food everyday you too would be humping peoples legs.

Charming One wrote:

<quoted text>Uh oh, did I piss in your cornflakes? Awww, here's tissue. Temmper, temper......not a good way to communicate now. And oh, I can comprehend and communicate just fine, thank you. I know when to walk away when talking to a wall. Have a nice day.:)

noneoftheabove wrote:

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Guess when you try to communicate, if you don't have any real answers, you try to belittle and throw out insults. And I know when I'm talking to a self-righteous witch - Hope you have an even better day, maybe even get a nice night for a broom ride - I'm sure your husband would enjoy the peace and quiet

Charming One wrote:

<quoted text>Vilolin playing in the background......go lick your wounds little boy.

finnius wrote:

so what is a man supposed to do when is wife lays on her butt in bed all day, gainst a hundred pounds and then complains about lack of sex. we have no kids, we're both middle aged. i work full time plus overtime. and she wonders why i don't find her 280 pound body sexy?

someone wrote:

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File for divorce
You don’t want to *&^% her and from the way you talk, doesn’t see like you love her.
No kids, so there is a huge problem gone right there.
Find your nuts, find a lawyer, make a clean break and go out and screw

finnius wrote:

so what is a man supposed to do when is wife lays on her butt in bed all day, gainst a hundred pounds and then complains about lack of sex. we have no kids, we're both middle aged. i work full time plus overtime. and she wonders why i don't find her 280 pound body sexy?

finnius wrote:

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that what i did. now you know how men feel when women let themselves go to crap, then whine about feeling unloved.

finnius wrote:

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that what i did. now you know how men feel when women let themselves go to crap, then whine about feeling unloved.

Ridiculous wrote:

I guess it is too much to ask for a man to actually LOVE his wife, not just LUST for her. If LUST is all you want, go date a stripper.
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Terri at home wrote:

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I have the feeling that he probably was putting up with more than the weight issue. If you are laying in bed all day it means many things were not right. Perhaps depression. Some people cannot stick with someone going through the pain of depression and perhaps it's better they go their separate ways so she can find someone who will support her and he will find someone who doesn't have that problem. As bad as that seems, and as bad as I would feel if I was that woman, it probably is for the best.