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Mar 20, 2008
 
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).

1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.

Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.

No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.

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Mar 20, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).
1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.
Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.
No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.
I applaud you, Nick.

I am in the middle of doing an assignment (due tongight), but I hope this thread can remain uncontaminated by hatespeak.

Anyone who enters this thread should have an open mind and a willingness to discuss with the intention of producing no less than a respect for each other's position.

Compromise is not too much to ask for.

Have a good evening.

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Mar 20, 2008
 

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And you put the negative statements in the first post... no surprise.
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Mar 20, 2008
 
Happy Contented Soul wrote:
And you put the negative statements in the first post... no surprise.
What did he say that was negative?
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Mar 20, 2008
 
Here is the compromise that I favor. Though smoking will not be permitted in public venues, smoking will continue to remain legal.
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Mar 20, 2008
 
BleuJei wrote:
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I applaud you, Nick.
I am in the middle of doing an assignment (due tongight), but I hope this thread can remain uncontaminated by hatespeak.
Anyone who enters this thread should have an open mind and a willingness to discuss with the intention of producing no less than a respect for each other's position.
Compromise is not too much to ask for.
Have a good evening.
Good luck on your assignment.

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Mar 20, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).
1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.
Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.
No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.
If your compromise were on the ballot, I would vote for it.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
I posted this thread on the forum yesterday. It seems as if there is no entertainment value in discussing the issue peacefully and without acrimony. Cant say it wasnt tried.

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Mar 21, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).
1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.
Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.
No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.
KHartman wrote:
Here is the compromise that I favor. Though smoking will not be permitted in public venues, smoking will continue to remain legal.
As you can see Nick, with some people there is no compromise....
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Mar 21, 2008
 
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As you can see Nick, with some people there is no compromise....
And that is a legitimate position to bring to the discussion as it does not call people names or try and diminish them. You are one of the more reasonable posters here. The idea was to get viewpoints out in the open without acrimony so that posters could see common ground. THAT is where compromise starts- in the area of common ground, however small that might be.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).
1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.
Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.
No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.
Why not just let the owners decide that has always been the American way.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
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Why not just let the owners decide that has always been the American way.
I understand your position, but the problem with that is that it does not offer enough accomodation to the non smokers. Many of us truly believe that second hand smoke is harmful to our health. Non smoking sections in a restaurant are not really smoke free. Many owners try to make as many people as possible happy, hence the different sections, smoking and non smoking. As I said, that is not really a solution because there is nothing to keep the smoke out of the non smoking section.

Being a former smoker, I can understand wanting to be able to smoke in a restaurant. As a smoker, though, I also spent a lot of time in the non smoking sections of the restaurants because that is where my friends wanted to be, so I did get used to standing outside to have a smoke. I, personally (my OPINION here), did not find it to be all that inconvenient.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
Free America wrote:
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Why not just let the owners decide that has always been the American way.
That would be the only legitimate compromise. I think it is funny that the antis are not trying to compromise with the private property owners who are the true owners, they own the rights, and they are the victims of the lies and deceits to get the smoking bans.

They are still trying to control property that they do not own...amazing !
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Mar 21, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
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I understand your position, but the problem with that is that it does not offer enough accomodation to the non smokers. Many of us truly believe that second hand smoke is harmful to our health. Non smoking sections in a restaurant are not really smoke free. Many owners try to make as many people as possible happy, hence the different sections, smoking and non smoking. As I said, that is not really a solution because there is nothing to keep the smoke out of the non smoking section.
Being a former smoker, I can understand wanting to be able to smoke in a restaurant. As a smoker, though, I also spent a lot of time in the non smoking sections of the restaurants because that is where my friends wanted to be, so I did get used to standing outside to have a smoke. I, personally (my OPINION here), did not find it to be all that inconvenient.
That does not seem to be a problem where I live. We have six Restaurants one has a smoking section. Two are Smoking and three are non-smoking. We have eight bars Two are non-smoking. All of the restaurants are doing fine,the two non-smoking bars are not doing well. All of the smokers to frequent the non-smoking restaurants to accommodate their non smoking friends but they do frequent the smoking ones more but bars that is more social you are there for hours shooting pool, playing darts,Dancing. Free market does work if there is a demand for a non-smoking bar it will come.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
Free America wrote:
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That does not seem to be a problem where I live. We have six Restaurants one has a smoking section. Two are Smoking and three are non-smoking. We have eight bars Two are non-smoking. All of the restaurants are doing fine,the two non-smoking bars are not doing well. All of the smokers to frequent the non-smoking restaurants to accommodate their non smoking friends but they do frequent the smoking ones more but bars that is more social you are there for hours shooting pool, playing darts,Dancing. Free market does work if there is a demand for a non-smoking bar it will come.
If this was the case everywhere I doubt there would be enough support for a ban. I have been to many areas of the country where it is impossible to find a non smoking restaurant.
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Mar 21, 2008
 
You may find this ironic Nick Fitt, but my favorite St. Louis small music venue, Off Broadway, where I like to hear a band called the Schwag (a truly smoky name!), is now smoke-free. I thought it might be a fun experiment to buy the place some Air Quality Engineering machines that Opie Taylor of this board and I could install. Then allow smoking at Schwag shows and see how it is.
http://www.offbroadwaystl.com/
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Mar 21, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
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I understand your position, but the problem with that is that it does not offer enough accomodation to the non smokers. Many of us truly believe that second hand smoke is harmful to our health. Non smoking sections in a restaurant are not really smoke free. Many owners try to make as many people as possible happy, hence the different sections, smoking and non smoking. As I said, that is not really a solution because there is nothing to keep the smoke out of the non smoking section.
Being a former smoker, I can understand wanting to be able to smoke in a restaurant. As a smoker, though, I also spent a lot of time in the non smoking sections of the restaurants because that is where my friends wanted to be, so I did get used to standing outside to have a smoke. I, personally (my OPINION here), did not find it to be all that inconvenient.
I was asked to provide a ventilation expert to the St. Louis County Council back in 2005. All the guys I talked to said ventilation could work but many restaurant systems were just badly designed. Some restaurants pull the smoking section air back thru the nonsmoking section to the vents. That doesn't do anyone much good.

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Mar 22, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
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If this was the case everywhere I doubt there would be enough support for a ban. I have been to many areas of the country where it is impossible to find a non smoking restaurant.
Good morning Nick: I noticed a few years before the ban was conceived, that more nonsmoking restaurants and bars were becoming available; as well as popular. If this became the focus before the ban proposals it may have been a great compromise. More time and energy would have been well spent on prompting establishment owners to either become nonsmoking or smoking.

Hindsight being 20/20, smoking sections did not alleviate people's concerns or preferences for that matter.

I realize there are people who have embarked on a mission to eliminate tobacco, but this is not a realistic approach. I believe the people are capable of reaching an amicable and mutually beneficial result other than bringing government intrusion into the equation.

Yes, there are small towns in the country that do not have many bars and restaurants, but if the restaurants can be smokefree and the bars provide for an area for smokers to [comfortably] enjoy their time,,,,,?
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Mar 22, 2008
 
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Good morning Nick: I noticed a few years before the ban was conceived, that more nonsmoking restaurants and bars were becoming available; as well as popular. If this became the focus before the ban proposals it may have been a great compromise. More time and energy would have been well spent on prompting establishment owners to either become nonsmoking or smoking.
Hindsight being 20/20, smoking sections did not alleviate people's concerns or preferences for that matter.
I realize there are people who have embarked on a mission to eliminate tobacco, but this is not a realistic approach. I believe the people are capable of reaching an amicable and mutually beneficial result other than bringing government intrusion into the equation.
Yes, there are small towns in the country that do not have many bars and restaurants, but if the restaurants can be smokefree and the bars provide for an area for smokers to [comfortably] enjoy their time,,,,,?
I would be amenable to that. It would allow me the opportunity to be able to eat and relax in a smoke free environment before getting behind the wheel and back on the road. Bars would be able to provide an alternative venue for those that wanted to smoke and that would restrict the access by minors.
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Mar 22, 2008
 
Nick Fitt wrote:
I am posting this thread in the hopes that we can talk WITHOUT name calling or bringing negative statements into the mix.(Probably not, but it is worth a try).
1. Any position is acceptable.
2. Do not disparage anyone's position even if it does not allow for compromise.
3. You can ask why, but do not belittle the answer OR the research cited in the answer.
Personally, I would be willing to compromise on SOME bars. I would let the small bars (mom and pop) opt to be smoking and GRANDFATHER them in. A new bar coming in would not get the permission to be smoking UNLESS they purchased a license from mom and pop.
No smoking in restaurants or other businesses. An exception would be a tobacco store or a hookah bar.
that sounds like a logical compromise to me.
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