Michelle I am so sorry to hear about your medical situation and the fact that your husband had to look to the military for employment and insurance options. I am a ex military wife and I do know the pros and cons to military life, so if you need to talk or just have to let it all out without being judged just send me a e-mail at kcdawn@verizon.net or 815 Bland St. Pulaski, Va. 24301. I can not say I know how you feel to be fight the cancer, but I can say I know how it feel to be on the other side. My husband was told he has lung cancer in both lungs about a year ago. I felt like my whole world was crashing down on top of me. I still have my moments when I get down and discourage. It always helps to have someone to confide information in, even if the information is not always what people want to hear. I wish you and your family the best. If you feel like writing back I would love to hear from you. Take care of yourself and best to you and your family.