teenager pooping pants

i have an 8 and a 14 year old dauhters and on our way home once my 8 year old needed the toilet but we where stuck in heavy traffic and so in the end she wet herself but confessed she still had to poop after 20 mins or so my other daughter and i new she had pooped because of the smell she began to cry so my 14 yr old comforted her we then got home and i cleanded her and bathed her. Another time we where out shopping and i was buying dinner whilst my older daughter took rosie (8 yr old) to pick a toy on their way back rosie told aleah (14 yr old) that she needed the toilet so aleah said that she would take her when they got back to me. so we took her into the super market toilets where she was about to go into a cubicle but again pooped herself. Aleah went out to the car to get the spare clothes and wipes i now took out with me after the 1st accident. This time the poop had been a bit runny so i dindnt make to much of a fuss. a month or so when past and no accidents until we where at home and aleah and rosie where playing and aleah came to me and said she thinks rosies pooped herself so i took rosie into the bathroom this time a little angry as we where at home but found she was clean and dry. I went back into the living room to find aleah in tears and smelt the room and guessed she had pooped herself. We walked upstairs where i told her to lie on a towl i took of her nickers to find a 14yr olds poop in them it wasnt runny so i dont know why she had done it. I was going to tell her to clean herself up but she was so messy i thought i had better do it. when i finished i asked her why she had pooped her self and she said that she was playing wii and when she stopped she realised she had pooped i asked why she thought it was rosie and she said that she just said that so she could have a go on the wii whilst i was checking aleah. Rosie had 1 more accident but Aleah has pooped herself twice more around family and friends claiming she didnt notce she was pooping till it was to late. I have taken both of them to the docs and to have tests and nothing is medicly wrong with them.But both girls had an accident today and was wondering if any one new what i could do?

I am 16 and I have the same problem except , there is something medical
wrong with me. So my mom put me back in cloth diapers with rubber pants.
I am embarrassed but I can't ware big girl panties until , I can make it to the
poddy. my mom spanks me every time I go poopie or wet my diaper. But I
really can't help it!!!!

Brandy Ann Depressed teen!!!!

Susan, lots of older children have relapses in their ability to control themselves. My daughter wet her bed (and occasionally herself during the day) until she was 16. In my experience, having them wear diapers covered with snap-on rubber baby panties for bed as well as under their dresses during the day is the best remedy. They are not being punished, they are simply dressed to protect their bedding and clothing from wetness. If they cooperate you can permit them to wear the fancy plastic panties over their rubber ones but if they do not cooperate, then they need to know that strapping will result. My daughter is now completely dry day and night but is very aware of the stack of diapers and rubber panties near her bed.

jean when i was 16 i wore nappies plastic pants if i soild them my mum would put panties over them and make me sleep in them i always got nappy rash it hurts in the morning i was always dressed as a girl with a nappy on as punnishment

Thanks for all of your comments and think that a nappy would be the best way to deal with the problem. I am not sure what there reaction will be but i will explain to them that a wet or messy nappy is better than a wet or messy pair of nickers. Is it possible to get teen disposable diapers because they are both cheerleaders and would need something a lot thinner than cloth ones.so please reply with anything that would fit a 8 and 14 yr old that is disposible.

Mrs. Susan, if you find thinner diapers please let me know , because like
your daughters I am a cheerleader also. and it is real embarrassing with my
cloth diaper and rubber pants under my uniform!!!

Brandy Ann

susan plz tell me how u got on!!

Susan Just a suggestion but pull-on type of protection works great for me. It is thin and seems to protect without a bulge that would tell people they are wearing protection. Hope this is helpful.

But Mrs Jean & Mrs Susan I am 16 year old teenage girl do you think it's fare
for my mom & Daddy to spank me with the belt bare bottom if I wet or poop
my diapers and treat me like a 3 & 4 year old? I want to be poddy trained and
ware big panties but i can't make it to the poddy!!! I don't have control of my
bladder I go to a babysitter and she changes my diapers and the nurse at
school changes me . what can I do to go poddy, in the poddy and not my
diapers?

Brandy Ann

BrandyAnn, as you know I am a strict parent. But isn't is true that your parents simply want you to get control of your wetting and soiling? Don't they put diapers and rubber panties on you just to keep you clean and dry? You said your mom gave you a big hug when you made it to the toilet before you wet. I think they would agree not to punish you for wetting if you would agree to be dressed in diapers and rubber panties until you are dry. Although I am strict with my daughter, in my opinion, you should not be punished for wetting, but if you resist being dressed in diapers and rubber panties, then I would strap you on your bare bottom. If you really want to solve your problem, do as you are told and accept the need for you to wear rubber baby panties until you are dry. It will happen, and a boy friend will come along who doesn't care about your lack of control.

OK!! Mrs.Jean I will try to be good and listen to my mom. but sometimes it's
so hard but I try!!! and I will be in big girl panties

Thank-you Brandy Ann

My two girls have been wearing diapers for four/frive weeks now and not too much fuss has been made by my younger duaghter.But my older duaghter made more of a fuss but is now okay with it. They have both used the diapers for poop a couple of times and often have wet it. But they both return to school on wednesday and i am not sure what i should do about that any help is good and needed quickly thankyou!

Susan, in my opinion, girls the age of your daughters should be able to predict the need for pooping, and get to the washroom in time. Uncontrolled wetting, however, should be strictly dealt with. I would allow them to wear nylon panties under their skirts for school, but the minute they arrived home after school I would them into diapers and rubber baby panties. They should do their chores and homework, have their baths, and then again be put into diapers and rubber panties for bed. You should continue this routine until they are consistently dry. Any unwillingness to cooperate should be punished with a firm strapping on their bare bottoms.

I've been looking at posts here for like 2 weeks and I think some are all made up but i guess their are others who do have real problems like me so i guess it helps to write about them & maybe others can help or others are going thru the same thing. My mom is a control freak. I'm 13 & I still wet my bed every nite & never realy stopped. My mom puts cloth diapers (the kind you have to pin on) & plastic pants on me every nite. She wont let me put them on myself & says I cant take the responsability so she always does it. The last time I got upset & said i didnt want to wear diapers I got spanked. Sometimes I have accidents in the daytime if I get to excited or get real involved in something & then I forget & pee in my pants. I cant help it but my mom says I could stay dry if I really wanted to. So she also puts diapers & plastic pants on me when we go to see my cousins. its around a 2 hr drive and mom says I have to wear the daipers 'just in case' & she takes them off me when we get their but my cousins see i was wearing them. I saw that Jean got her daughter to stay dry. So do you think my mom is right or am I to big to wear diapers??

Susan wrote:

My two girls have been wearing diapers for four/frive weeks now and not too much fuss has been made by my younger duaghter.But my older duaghter made more of a fuss but is now okay with it. They have both used the diapers for poop a couple of times and often have wet it. But they both return to school on wednesday and i am not sure what i should do about that any help is good and needed quickly thankyou!

hi susan i have a pair of girls white with pink trim trainer pants 11-12yrs brand new in packet if you like i could send them to you for free,they might be more suitable for going back to school.

Have you tried the adult Depends? They are made to provide great protection and be very discreet

brandy ann wrote:

Mrs. Susan, if you find thinner diapers please let me know , because like
your daughters I am a cheerleader also. and it is real embarrassing with my
cloth diaper and rubber pants under my uniform!!!
Brandy Ann

i use tena slip maxi there great nappies and hold loads 1s n 2s , i wear them out all the time, noone ever notices them.

so do i wear tena slip nappies thay are grate for soiling i poo the bed and sleep in them i sometimes get nappy rash i wear them 24/7

Susan, I dont think ur daughters have a problem, i think they might have a fetsh, Paraphilic infantilism is a fetish in which u have the desire to be treated like a baby again and wear diapers... yadda yadda yadda, maybe ur girls felt like they wernt getting enough attentions so they started pooing them self, or maybe ur older dauhgter saw how u treated ur younger daughter when she had an accident and they both started to poo and wet themself because they felt theyd be closes and more "secure"... there are many posibilties but i think u should have a real good talk with them and get to the bottom of this cause i dont think its cause they cant control themself.

Just thought I would chime in on this. It might be an attention issue. But the other possibility is it might be that your kids (especially the older one) gets too preoccupied with what she is doing, holds off on her toilet needs far too long and can't make it to the toilet in time; Wii and other video games can get very involved and sometimes kids don't want to stop playing. Holding off a need for a bowel movement for long periods can lead to constipation issues later. And, although it is embarrassing to soil yourself, your child's body is getting the relief it needs... now they just need to do it in the the toilet rather than in their pants. Just my thoughts. Hope this helps.