3 glasses wine = wet bed

even 3 glasses of wine near bed time and i wet my bed. yeah i know simple solution dont drink, but really is that normal at such a low volume of alcohol? im 34 and only drink at weekends around 2 bottles wine between fri-sat night. its only started in the last few yrs and i wonder why now?

also, i have adhd and wet my bed till i was 15 with occasional daytime accidents, so i guess im more prone to bed wetting. i wonder if alcohol induced bedwetting is more common later on in people with adhd?

Don’t know about adhd, but based on my experience an individual who wet the bed as a child is prone to it later in life after drinking. And, if you’re like me, this year it’s three glasses of wine, next year it’ll be somewhat less, and in time it’ll happen without alcohol.

WBx wrote:

Don’t know about adhd, but based on my experience an individual who wet the bed as a child is prone to it later in life after drinking. And, if you’re like me, this year it’s three glasses of wine, next year it’ll be somewhat less, and in time it’ll happen without alcohol.

thanks, yeah most guys ive spoken too who have wet the bed with alcohol were also bedwetters when they were kids/teens. i thought i got rid of my bedwetting and its been a shock to wake up wet.

i sometimes wet my bed with natural sleep enhancers like valerian root and melatonin, so i dont think its just alcohol. so i either dont sleep well and wake up dry but tired or i take pills/alcohol to sleep and wake up wet. doh

Hi I have the same problem I like to have drink at weekends and find that I have to change my nappy during the night when during the week I don't have to change until morning. I have been bed wetter off on on my whole life. My name is steve I'm 32 from Newcastle.x

34wet wrote:

i sometimes wet my bed with natural sleep enhancers like valerian root and melatonin, so i dont think its just alcohol. so i either dont sleep well and wake up dry but tired or i take pills/alcohol to sleep and wake up wet. doh

You must get a good nights sleep so you can work the next day.
Ecept the present situation and take a simple remidy just as many of us had don, it's back into a nappy at night.
That will keep everthing dry so no washing to do and give you a good nights sleep.
Don't know if you have a wife but hopefully she will be suportive as she wount like being inthe same bed as you if your wet.
Hope this helps, ask any questions you like as I'm always on here, Dean.
I'm 20 yo male bed wetter.

You have to go back to diapers and rubber pants first because over time it going to get worse and more frequte second make and appointment with your doctor and ask to be referedd to a urologist good luck been there bought that tee shirt and yes still wear diapers and rubber pants 24/7 but better then everybody knowing that i wet

kingbw wrote:

You have to go back to diapers and rubber pants first because over time it going to get worse and more frequte second make and appointment with your doctor and ask to be referedd to a urologist good luck been there bought that tee shirt and yes still wear diapers and rubber pants 24/7 but better then everybody knowing that i wet

Disposables are better as you don't have to hang any thing out to dry and the neabors can't see.
You can easerly dispose of the used nappies.
Good advice about the Dr.
Dean.

disposable pullups are the best at least for me

kingbw wrote:

disposable pullups are the best at least for me

pullups leak on me as they non't hold enough to gog through the night.
i think justin likes them, lol.
Dean.

I phoned around and found an an asda pharmacy with senset diapers in stock, so i went and got a pack. geez was so embarrassed. tried pullups b4 but havent worn nappies since I was 9 and feel sick/nervous about it. always had a pvc bed sheet incase, but will see how the nappies go tonight.

34wet wrote:

I phoned around and found an an asda pharmacy with senset diapers in stock, so i went and got a pack. geez was so embarrassed. tried pullups b4 but havent worn nappies since I was 9 and feel sick/nervous about it. always had a pvc bed sheet incase, but will see how the nappies go tonight.

You’ll be fine. Not every, but most nights I wear protection. And, to be safe, I always take precautions when sleeping away from home. Works for me. On the other side, in removing the hassle I’m convinced nappies have increased the frequency of my bed-wetting. Good luck.

34wet wrote:

I phoned around and found an an asda pharmacy with senset diapers in stock, so i went and got a pack. geez was so embarrassed. tried pullups b4 but havent worn nappies since I was 9 and feel sick/nervous about it. always had a pvc bed sheet incase, but will see how the nappies go tonight.

Hi 34wet, hope they worked for you and you had a good nights sleep.
Just throw that nappy away in the mornin g and get on with your life, ther is far more people the same as you than you will ever know so don't feel ashamed but just doing the senerble thing.
Dean.

WBx wrote:

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You’ll be fine. Not every, but most nights I wear protection. And, to be safe, I always take precautions when sleeping away from home. Works for me. On the other side, in removing the hassle I’m convinced nappies have increased the frequency of my bed-wetting. Good luck.

I agree WBx that wearing a nappy at night will encourage lazyness but if you are haveing regular accidents then this is the only, and sencerble, answer to a problem.
You feel safe and there are no embarresing times when you have to go to stay else where.
You sound a intelegent person, hope you stay and talk to us all on here.
Dean.

Hi 34wet I used to have the same problem just without the adhd I had a few drinks not that many I wasn't wasted but I wet the bed the next day I used to wet the bed as a child as well Now I have stopped all together so yes wearing a nappy MIGHT be good to keep you dry but always remember you don't have to accept it getting worse you might get better speak to a dr

34wet wrote:

i sometimes wet my bed with natural sleep enhancers like valerian root and melatonin, so i dont think its just alcohol. so i either dont sleep well and wake up dry but tired or i take pills/alcohol to sleep and wake up wet. doh

I'd rather wet the bed and get a good nights sleep which is just what I usually do. Alcohol always has that effect. The more beer I drink the wetter the bed in the morning but it doesn't worry me.

WBx wrote:

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You’ll be fine. Not every, but most nights I wear protection. And, to be safe, I always take precautions when sleeping away from home. Works for me. On the other side, in removing the hassle I’m convinced nappies have increased the frequency of my bed-wetting. Good luck.

hi. i wet more when i wear a nappy. i think its because i dont think about wetting the bed and go off into a much deeper sleep when iv got a nappy on. if i dont put a nappy on i sleep much lighter and dont get a good nights sleep and still wet but not as much. i think your right nappy wearing increases wetting. its a bit of a vicious circle. anyone else think the same

Steve wrote:

<quoted text>I'd rather wet the bed and get a good nights sleep which is just what I usually do. Alcohol always has that effect. The more beer I drink the wetter the bed in the morning but it doesn't worry me.

hi steve. i think alcohol can increase wetting because u sleep much deeper and dont wake up in time. the worst thing is when iv had a good drink i cant b bothered to pin a nappy on and wake up soaked but i still wet quite a bit when i dont have a drink. cheers steve

graham wrote:

<quoted text>hi. i wet more when i wear a nappy. i think its because i dont think about wetting the bed and go off into a much deeper sleep when iv got a nappy on. if i dont put a nappy on i sleep much lighter and dont get a good nights sleep and still wet but not as much. i think your right nappy wearing increases wetting. its a bit of a vicious circle. anyone else think the same

Ialways wet more when wearing a nappy> I think this is because I am more relaxed. I also find if I keep one on during the day I am more likely to wet without realising so I don't wear during the day very often as I would soon end up totally incontient and although I enjoy my bedwetting I am not ready for uncontrolled daytime wetting just yet.