Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex

I guess I'm just bi oral. I love giving oral sex to men and women. No reciprocation wanted.

TampaBob wrote:

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It's amazing how easy it is to point at one group at go "Ah-HA!- see, gay men go to bathhouses and have sex with each other" and yet seem to overlook the THOUSANDS of heterosexual SWINGERS CLUBS and ORGANIZATIONS throughout the WORLD!
Go to google and type in Swing club and your state. Then type in Gay Bathhouse and type in your state! HUGE difference in numbers.
Here in Tampa there are 2 bath houses and 6 swing clubs. They do the same thing in both. Strangers meet for consensual sex.
SO, don't pick the spec out of my eye when you have a tree in your own!

If you read the original post I was pointing out that going to 'gay bathhouses' was not part of a 'belief system' and was not part of the rules for being gay.

I don't care what swingers of any kind do (as long as it is well away from me)- I just get annoyed when I get tarred with the same brush just because I happen to love someone of the same gender. Not that difficult is it?

Any aggressive men need a submissive guy to suck them? Atlanta

Just An Observer wrote:

O.K., maybe I'm missing something here. How can a person be straight, and be having sex with another person of the same sex????? You've lost me! Either you're straight, or you're not. 10% of these "straight" men are not really telling the truth, or trying to tweek the stigma!

These so-called 'straight' men are simply gays who are in the closet, and just refuse to come out. Plain and simple.

Mariya Kaladzhnikova wrote:

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These so-called 'straight' men are simply gays who are in the closet, and just refuse to come out. Plain and simple.

or they are of the third cateogry "BI sexual", which apparently outnumbers the gays two to one.

Good morning everyone, wake up and smell the steamed squrirrel.

I see only one problem here if the straight man is married and running out on his wife.
I believe that love is love and it should not matter on gender. If you have an attraction to the same sex go slowly and she how it feels. It may be a one time thing but who knows. I think curiosity is one thing, and I truly believe a man and what the hell is the straight or gay thing, a man is attracted to another man he and both are will then try. Stop catorgizing people. Love is love and nobody should be ashamed of it. Some straight men find gay men rather interesting, fascinated with them and truly interestd in them. Like I said it may work and not but at least you tried and it makes you no more less than who you are. Enjoy life, experience new things, and hopefully you will find that person that you can love and feel love. Stop worrying about the gender and love! Hell the Romans did it! I don't mean this as a joke either. It is life and we never know what might come upon us and if you gut instinct say yes, then go slowly.

Hi people.
Although I often refer to myself as queer ( a label that fits better than gay ), I've never really been too keen on labels in the first place. I don't believe people should be placed into catagories. People are not homo, hetero or bi sexual. People are just sexual. Often our expression of that sexuality is determined by outside forces. When people act according to what others expect rather than how they feel, they become frustrated and often homophobic (sometimes in the extreme).
In my own experience I've found that I can enjoy great sex with any other willing partner, male or female, provided there's no strings attached.
However in my personal life I have always related more intimately with like minded men.(ie; open and honest polygamists).
Throughout the years I worked as a male to male sex worker, a high percentage of my clients were "straight" men. Lots of stress in their lives through simply not being honest with themselves and their partners. All because they fear the repercussions of an intollerent community.
Be yourself, be honest and be happy. Screw the rest of the world, if they can't cope then they're the ones with the problem.

FRANK LOS ANGELES wrote:

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I'M MOST CURIOUS ABOUT A COMMENT LIKE THE ABOVE FROM SOMEONE LIVING IN A PLACE LIKE KETCHIKAN. I'M QUITE CURIOUS ABOUT LIVING IN A PLACE LIKE KTN WITH A POPULATION OF ABOUT 10,000 IN A BASICALLY REPUBLICAN STATE. COULD IT BE THAT THERE ARE GAY PEOPLE THERE, PERHAPS A LITTLE CLOSETED, WITH A FAIRLY NORMAL LIFE?????

i think im ready to try this if in hawthorne em ail me peterson_levester@yahoo.com

im looking for some one it dont hurt any one to do it at time

Contradictory of statement:
Gay = To have only seaxual practice with partner of the same sex (gender).
Strait = To have only sexual practice with partner of oposite sex (gender).
BiSexual (to swing both ways)= to have sexual practice regardles of the partners sex (gender).

STRAIT PEOPLE DO NOT PREFER TO HAVE SEX WITH OPOSITE GENDER, THAY HAVE SAX !!!ONLY!!! WITH OPOSITE GENDER.

See allso: Not all strait people are homophobic (ROFL)!

Just An Observer wrote:

O.K., maybe I'm missing something here. How can a person be straight, and be having sex with another person of the same sex????? You've lost me! Either you're straight, or you're not. 10% of these "straight" men are not really telling the truth, or trying to tweek the stigma!

being a homosexual is a yes or no decision you can't be both

being a bi-sexual is a yes or no decision period

being a heterosexual is a yes or no decision MAKE UP YOUR MIND !!!!

Darwin Award Official wrote:

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being a homosexual is a yes or no decision you can't be both
being a bi-sexual is a yes or no decision period
being a heterosexual is a yes or no decision MAKE UP YOUR MIND !!!!

Translation, please ?!!

Petra Von Kamp wrote:

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Translation, please ?!!

so...what's the problem???
too simple for you???
do you need a diagram???

it's like being pregnant....either you are or you're not

Darwin Award Official wrote:

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so...what's the problem???
too simple for you???
do you need a diagram???
it's like being pregnant....either you are or you're not

A pie chart would help ...

Straight men surely have gay sex.... I am gay & have sex with only staright men, till now i've has atleast 400 plus straight men.. MUAH

GETTIN SUKED BY GUYS wrote:

So here's the deal. I'm married, wife puts out once or twice a month. I have some choices here.
1. Jk off constantly ( which I do)
2. Get a female f*k buddy and put up with the female crap that always comes with a "no strings" relationship--man that's a joke...
3. Go onto craigslist or other web site, find a guy that will s**uck me dry, lick my a$$ and stimulate my prostate while he keeps his clothes on and looks for no recipication.
Am I gay? No. Just taking the easy road

You are SO gay and you are living a lie ...

GETTIN SUKED BY GUYS wrote:

So here's the deal. I'm married, wife puts out once or twice a month. I have some choices here.
1. Jk off constantly ( which I do)
2. Get a female f*k buddy and put up with the female crap that always comes with a "no strings" relationship--man that's a joke...
3. Go onto craigslist or other web site, find a guy that will s**uck me dry, lick my a$$ and stimulate my prostate while he keeps his clothes on and looks for no recipication.
Am I gay? No. Just taking the easy road

Don't kid yourself, you're on the downlow. No big deal just be honest about it.

Im not really sure what the point is exactly but ill tell you one thing is that to each their own and let gays be gays and what have you but clearly you can not sit there and say it is okay for dude who is married with or without kids or even involved with a female sexually to be going out behind her back screwing other men. What the hell is the justice there. I mean if each person is to take responsibility for their own life why is that this doesnt fall under the same catagorie as that the man who goes around screwing half the city knowing that he has aids is put on trial for murder right? Well this is like playing involintary russian roulette or something i dont want to be exposed to the nature of this sort of sick twisted game that these scared little sick punks play and ill tell you there are way mor than 10% of guys doing this this sort of thing i find it obscene partially because the women involved with the men that do this sort of thing are completely unsuspecting of it. Like that senetor dude you know that is true and his wife thinks nothing of it because i was like that once. But then when it gets laid out on the table in bold letters per say it is a eye and mind awaking that you never seen coming and ill tell you what it is a ticking time bomb because the rage that i have and will always have untill i find some way to let it go is more than enough to do damage to a whole bunch of people. Some of these guys are married and have been for 25 some odd years and have been secretly meeting with a dude to screw or whatever the whole time and the wife and kids of the militay personel are none the wiser. Its sick and wrong and any one who is going to say it is right will have there day to burn in hell right along the side of the sick mfs that contribute to the lifestyle they lead. some thing has to be done to stop this.