Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex

Rockytopzz wrote:

The bathhouse culture that we knew of had spas in the building for gays and straight alike.

well, shitfire... i didn't know that you could call going to a bathhouse / spa(?)a 'culture'. i mean, where is the music, the literature. where is the art and the fine food and wine. i mean, if i were to take part in a 'culture' i would want some culture if you understadn what i'm saying.

what you're talking about isn't really a 'culture' anyway. it's just a bunch of people who liked to get laid in the water in the dark... which really isn't a bad sensation, but not good enough for every day. also, i prefer to see who i'm sticking my willy into and maybe have a light snack and some coffee afterward.

Oh God only if my friend could love me back...we have the most intense relationship physically / intellectually but spiritually he seems a bit absent from realizing he can have any feelings for me...maybe im just his FF or too available and convenient for him to have lasted over a year...but he's 28 and if i say that i love him the only response is "i'm not gay" *crushed*.

dances with weebles wrote:

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well, shitfire... i didn't know that you could call going to a bathhouse / spa(?)a 'culture'. i mean, where is the music, the literature. where is the art and the fine food and wine. i mean, if i were to take part in a 'culture' i would want some culture if you understadn what i'm saying.
what you're talking about isn't really a 'culture' anyway. it's just a bunch of people who liked to get laid in the water in the dark... which really isn't a bad sensation, but not good enough for every day. also, i prefer to see who i'm sticking my willy into and maybe have a light snack and some coffee afterward.

A culture does nto have to be old or particularily refined. IT is basically a way of behaviour based on a set of beliefs. it helps to define how a particular group should act. SO, the bathouses are part of the "gay" culture.

franko wrote:

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A culture does nto have to be old or particularily refined. IT is basically a way of behaviour based on a set of beliefs. it helps to define how a particular group should act. SO, the bathouses are part of the "gay" culture.

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franko wrote:

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A culture does nto have to be old or particularily refined. IT is basically a way of behaviour based on a set of beliefs. it helps to define how a particular group should act. SO, the bathouses are part of the "gay" culture.

No - that would be only some gay men - and no gay women at all. Going to any kind of club is not part of a belief system and is not part of the rules of being gay. Where do you get this rubbish from?

since the genetic make up of men (XY) includes the female defining X gene it is only logical that most if not all men are also attracted to other men just like most females are (who under the majority of cases are solely XX). I don't understand why so many people feel so threathnened or frightened by what other men or women do? If you don't want to do it, don't! I'd like to see the outburst and opposing that gay people get shown towards unequal relationships of abusive, young vs. old etc.

I am a bi male & I enjoy having sex with another guy at times .I enjoy all that a gay guy has to offer.

where do straight men go to find other straight men who want to keep the privacy and have sex but both parties live straight lives im looking for that i live and will always live as a straight man but want a side boyfriend who feels just like me cause the only one i want to know about it is me and the other man now a day when you go to sites you always have to put your email in and i dont want know one to find out help me find that

is anyone going to reply and help me out and hopefully in the tristate area

mr x wrote:

where do straight men go to find other straight men who want to keep the privacy and have sex but both parties live straight lives im looking for that i live and will always live as a straight man but want a side boyfriend who feels just like me cause the only one i want to know about it is me and the other man now a day when you go to sites you always have to put your email in and i dont want know one to find out help me find that

get therapy you are CONFUSED, living a double life will catch up to you sooner or later..

Gia wrote:

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get therapy you are CONFUSED, living a double life will catch up to you sooner or later..

gia... it is not confused, nor is it confusing for a straight man to want gay sex from time to time. there is no therapy needed, so please play nice.

mr x wrote:

is anyone going to reply and help me out and hopefully in the tristate area

i would imagine that the best place ot find someone is in real life, not online... this isn't a dating service, either.

dances with weebles wrote:

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gia... it is not confused, nor is it confusing for a straight man to want gay sex from time to time. there is no therapy needed, so please play nice.

He strolling weebles

for gia or anyone who feels they are above all and think they have the right to judge anyone. i know very clear who i am and not confused about anything with my identity or my life . you only live once and until your 6ft under you'll know if there is another . do you pay my bills do you work for me do you provide for me or those i provide for ? i think not so i am the only one that judges me.if you live an honest life and hurt no one and repect those around you then one has every right to live and enjoy the way they choose to cause no matter what anyone says at the end of the day i go home to me i take care of me and i hope that others stay true themselves cause i do and i dont have to explain my self to anyone .i only responded to let others know to live your life cause its you who have to answer to yourself. and for the rest of you save your judgement and your rightess bullshit for your self

mr x wrote:

for gia or anyone who feels they are above all and think they have the right to judge anyone. i know very clear who i am and not confused about anything with my identity or my life .

Therapy is not a negative approach, and if you want to have a "side" sexual thing with men that is YOUR choice.

mr x wrote:

you only live once and until your 6ft under you'll know if there is another . do you pay my bills do you work for me do you provide for me or those i provide for ?

Does your wife/gf know about your side adventures? if not then I have no respect for you, that makes a liar nothing more.

mr x wrote:

i think not so i am the only one that judges me.if you live an honest life and hurt no one and repect those around you then one has every right to live and enjoy the way they choose to cause no matter what anyone says at the end of the day i go home to me i take care of me and i hope that others stay true themselves cause i do and i dont have to explain my self to anyone .

I agree, now the question is DOES your GF/Wife know ?

mr x wrote:

i only responded to let others know to live your life cause its you who have to answer to yourself. and for the rest of you save your judgement and your rightess bullshit for your self

Yea living life to the fullest is what life is about. We agree. Without HURTING others.

CSI wrote:

Lady do you have a husband? If so I really feel sorry for him. You are hell on wheels. Is this what you do all day just sit at the computer and pick and pick and pick. Isn't there some kinda housework you should do or something?

CSI: You must be the "keeper" of the forum, you want to dictate to me who to post to, how , when , and now you think you know my personal schedule..... you must be getting desperate. It must erk you that I see you for what you really are. Toodles.

Maz - formerly Mazrat wrote:

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No - that would be only some gay men - and no gay women at all. Going to any kind of club is not part of a belief system and is not part of the rules of being gay. Where do you get this rubbish from?

It's amazing how easy it is to point at one group at go "Ah-HA!- see, gay men go to bathhouses and have sex with each other" and yet seem to overlook the THOUSANDS of heterosexual SWINGERS CLUBS and ORGANIZATIONS throughout the WORLD!

Go to google and type in Swing club and your state. Then type in Gay Bathhouse and type in your state! HUGE difference in numbers.

Here in Tampa there are 2 bath houses and 6 swing clubs. They do the same thing in both. Strangers meet for consensual sex.

SO, don't pick the spec out of my eye when you have a tree in your own!

I'm 39 and for years have craved to have gay sex but just hav'nt done anything about it untill now, just dont know where to start and how to make a move

anyone in france?? or anyone want to talk please get intouch

CSI wrote:

Lady do you have a husband? If so I really feel sorry for him. You are hell on wheels. Is this what you do all day just sit at the computer and pick and pick and pick. Isn't there some kinda housework you should do or something?

CSI wrote:

You were told once to get your nose out of my business. Talk about a troll. You have the biggest set of hooks out I have ever seen. Computer jabbing even before coffee. I never said any one was stupid however, I will go out on a limb a say you are a trouble maker.

CSI wrote:

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Ah yes! one of those people who just has to have the last word. I will post what I feel is best for me and you just have to tolerate it. You do not own the forum or the discussion. Which I believe is point and counter point. Check and balances, debate absent of malice. You stated you were from South America, I guess all this new found freedom is a bit much for you to understand. It will come to you in time. We do things a bit differntly in a free society. Like love thy neighbor and do un to others as you would have them do un to you. I will pray for you.

CSI wrote:

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I fail to see what this type of nit picking does, except to infalme the situation and break down the context of the entire statement. I ask why are we dening happeness to Americans at all. We all need to get down off the high horses and find a practicle workable solution for this problem.

CSI wrote:

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Oh I get it, a tag team of desperate home wreckers.

CSI wrote:

They seem to muliply like rabbits. Finger pointers and name callers.

CSI wrote:

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Are you out of your mind lady. Leave me alone. The one that claims civil rights wants to surpress mine. You one sick tooty! Stop trying to pick a fight with me.

CSI wrote:

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If you are done thowing up on me, I would like to got take a shower. Is that ok with you?

Can you say HYPOCRITE?
hypocrite
n.

One who, professing virtues that he does not respect, secures the advantage of seeming to be what he depises.

I think you are not ON the high horse, you are right behind it .... maybe what you think is THROWUP is the horsehit that you spew.
Have a nice day