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michael beaver
East Brunswick, NJ
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shafer wrote: <quoted text>
MARTHA
I totally understand what you are saying. I take Ambien, I initiated the sex because I was on Ambien. Was it wrong that my husband continued to have sex with me knowing I was on this and would not remember? After two hours he knew. I feel violated another asstalker LOLOl dude what with people like you talkin out of your asses
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michael beaver
East Brunswick, NJ
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montee wrote: <quoted text>
WOW! This story is unbelievably similar to what has happened to a great friend of mine. The difference is that the daughter in this story is his biological daughter. It starts out by the 14 yr old and a friend putting porn pics on the web of themselves. But when she was caught, she talked her mom and dad into just keeping it between them and her friend's parents. Then it happens again! By this time, mom and dad are divorced and vistation is set up with his 2 daughters coming to spend a week, every other week.
Between the divorce and now problems with the 14yr old, the doc puts dad on ambien to help him sleep. To make things worse, the doc gives him antidepressants! The first night he takes the ambien and starts getting ready for bed. But friends unexpectantly drop by. Since he's under the impression that it's 'just a SLEEPING pill, how bad can it be? He figures he will just get tired. Since he's single now, friends dropping by is common. He begins hearing stories about him doing somewhat bizarre behavior that his friends witnessed. Harmless things, but still, not himself and whats worse, he doesnt recall doing anything out of character. Although he usally didnt plan to have friends there when he had the girls, it's something that isnt always in his control so the girls saw some of his odd behavior.
His 14 yr old begins to periodically say,'dad, did you take your sleeping pill? I'll get it for you." She did this more and more while there for their visitation week. Unfortunately, he just thought it was harmless, maybe her way of helping him out. He had no idea that anything else might be going on. They had been getting along ok so why should he think otherwise?
Then one day he comes home and finds his 14 yr old with the boy and they are in a compromising position. He losses it and sends the boy packing and tells his daughter that she will not be able to see the boy again but also that she's lost all of her priveledges until he can figure out what to do. Of course an arguement ensues and she is threatening him that she will do whatever she wants and he can't stop her! Each day they battled until the end of the week came and he took her back home to her mom. That was on a Friday. On Sat afternoon he hears a knock on the door. He looks out and sees it's the police but since he hasnt anything to worry about, he answers the door. They proceed to arrest him for sexual assault against his 14 yr old daughter!
He has lost everything, job as an architect, his home, land, all personal property and worst of all, his daughters! He sits in prison today. He does not recall ever doing anything inappropriate to her. They claim there are pics. However, he was shown 1 pic and he said it clearly is not him. He has begged to see the police report, the pictures or anything that will give him more information. But he gets nothing! All he can go by are the things he was told by his friends when they visited and when he was on Ambien, doing things that were totally out of character for him. To make matters worse, he spent 55k on a lawyer who was later found to be friends with his ex. Since he had no prior experience with the law, he had no choice but to trust his lawyer. What a mistake!
While he sits in prison, the 14 yr old is living a pleasant life doing anything she wants. Her mom doesnt put any restraints on her activities so she is very happy! She has her dad out of her life the way she wanted! Meanwhile, his life is ruined! But the worst part is that he is being tore apart inside because he doesnt even know if he did it! PLEASE~DON'T TAKE THIS DRUG! This could EASILY HAPPEN TO YOU! damn these people really love to talk out of thier asses alot i hope these other people that are reading thesef iney asstalking lies aint believen in them lol oh yeah i tooked ambien and a my fish jumped out of the tank and assraped me lucky i had spy cameras all over the house for proof LOLOLOLOLOL fucking liers
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michael beaver
East Brunswick, NJ
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this is a sad story let me get my hanky a 99 year old man tooked a half of a ambien he fell asleep with in 1 second he had like 1000 spy cameras all though the house and he said when he woked up 2 months later he got assraped nonstopped by king kong he said when he was watching the videos he was getting his assraped nonstopped and his ass was bloody and full of shit from king kong's big cock and he also got pregnanet by king kongs big cock so the old man when to the police and they caught king kong and they arrested him now hes in prison hes now known as the king rapist lol thats my asstalking story i like talking out of my ass like these other asstalker do just to get attention and have other people feel sorry for them and boo hoo hoo for them
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The Law Man
Wurtsboro, NY
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rape/rāp/Noun: 1.The crime, committed by a man or woman, of FORCING another person to have sexual intercourse with him or her, esp. by the threat or use of violence.
key word = FORCING. If you are asleep and get woken up by a sexual act being performed by your lover without saying stop and enticing it to go further, it is voluntary and not considered rape. If you feel taken advantage of by receiving an act of love by the person who is with you while under the effects of a drug and can't have trust in them, then you need to decide which is more important, your lover or the drug.
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A_holes111111
Omaha, NE
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go tell the police...its so fu_ed up...an u have no idea if youve never had this happen to u..an if youve done it to anyone without asking then I hope u do have it happen to u..only by bubba..without the ambien :)
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Geoff Winters
Mililani, HI
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Martha, on behalf of myself and some other guys out there, I am sorry to read that. If indeed your husband has been doing that, it is wrong, seeing as it's against your consent. However, instead of jumping to conclusions and putting all the blame on him, the question I have is "why did he feel he had to do this?" I made the mistake of slipping one to my wife one night when she complained of being tired. Nothing happened except sleep and the following day when she expressed how she felt she was dragging all morning I fessed up. Now, she and I are on different schedules and our rhythm and frequency we desire to be intimate is off as well. Ambien has become a means to allows her and I to spend time together and get our needs meet physically. On the ambien nights, I go coco for coco puffs and really enjoy the attention she gives me. On the non induced nights, she gets foot massages, scalp massages, pedicures, and all kinds of royal treatment from me. Sooo, I reiterate, your hubby's doing that without your consent, makes him a puts. Not getting to the base of why he feels he needs to do it this way, were you have no say, input or memory, that's just lazy. Sorry, but it is. If you ask and ask and he declines to say, than he's lazy and possibly scared about something between you. Good luck and God speed. Martha J wrote: Okay, you guys. You just confirmed what I suspected my ex-husband of doing -- slipping Ambien to me so we could have wild and crazy sex that I wouldn't remember, to satisfy his selfish sexual needs.
Don't get me wrong, I loved making love with my husband. But, when I found out that he was having sex with me while I wasn't able to remember was a severe blow to the trust in our marriage. Even when I explained this to me that I felt violated, he continued to do so.
I did have a prescription for Ambien and the first time he told me about us having sex that I didn't remember, I told him that I felt cheated and disrepected. I requested that he be the "Ambien Police," meaning that if he knew I took Ambien to not allow us to have sex together. I would tell him each night when I was taking my Ambien. I found out that he was still proceeding to have sex with me while in my Ambien state. I took to sleeping in another bedroom.
The sad part is that this pretty much destroyed our marriage. I learned to not trust him even when I stopped taking the Ambien myself so as to have total control over my body 24/7.
Abusing Ambien so you can have wild and crazy sex with your wife is totally wrong!!! It's called marital rape. It is also called dispect for your wife. It is also called not loving your wife. You are more in love with sex than you are with your wife.
Perhaps if you loved your wife, she would have wild and crazy sex with you without being doped up. Did you ever think that by disrespecting her and raping her would lead to her not wanting to have sex with you? Duh!!!!
Stop it already and show your wife how much you love and respect her by not abusing her via drugs for your own sexual pleasure.
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Loljjjj
Wray, CO
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Last guys funny very convincing :) but true asking your wife would b fine n could b fun..an I suggest video taping it for surw :) however there are A LOT of ppl being raped with this..yes guys too..
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Jim Beam
Owasso, OK
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Odd that you would wait until your marriage was over to stop takin it. Sounds like a cop out to me. Just something to blame for your escape. Martha J wrote: Okay, you guys. You just confirmed what I suspected my ex-husband of doing -- slipping Ambien to me so we could have wild and crazy sex that I wouldn't remember, to satisfy his selfish sexual needs.
Don't get me wrong, I loved making love with my husband. But, when I found out that he was having sex with me while I wasn't able to remember was a severe blow to the trust in our marriage. Even when I explained this to me that I felt violated, he continued to do so.
I did have a prescription for Ambien and the first time he told me about us having sex that I didn't remember, I told him that I felt cheated and disrepected. I requested that he be the "Ambien Police," meaning that if he knew I took Ambien to not allow us to have sex together. I would tell him each night when I was taking my Ambien. I found out that he was still proceeding to have sex with me while in my Ambien state. I took to sleeping in another bedroom.
The sad part is that this pretty much destroyed our marriage. I learned to not trust him even when I stopped taking the Ambien myself so as to have total control over my body 24/7.
Abusing Ambien so you can have wild and crazy sex with your wife is totally wrong!!! It's called marital rape. It is also called dispect for your wife. It is also called not loving your wife. You are more in love with sex than you are with your wife.
Perhaps if you loved your wife, she would have wild and crazy sex with you without being doped up. Did you ever think that by disrespecting her and raping her would lead to her not wanting to have sex with you? Duh!!!!
Stop it already and show your wife how much you love and respect her by not abusing her via drugs for your own sexual pleasure.
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wolfwife23
Knoxville, TN
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I was completely aware that anything was going on like that in my marriage until recently i found pictures and videos on my husband's laptop of him doing things to me. I know that he is my husband but i feel completely taken advantage of like I was raped by him. To me this is a scary thing to be used like that by my husband. If he had told me about it or asked if he could try that out I would not be upset. If he wouldve just asked me to do it with him instead of waiting till i thought i was asleep I wouldve willingly done it. I didn't know that anything like this had happened to anyone else till i found it on here. I am just very confused about this and not sure how to take it. I have not talked to my husband about it or told him i saw the pics and videos. I feel honestly like i was raped by him
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wolfwife23
Knoxville, TN
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My husband and I used to have great sex alot, and then one day he started saying no he didn't want to, I didn't know he was just getting it from me when i was sleeping until finding the pictures and videos. To me it is just sick, creepy, and selfish. I don't understand why he does that. Even though we are married I still feel like that is rape. He had bad anger problems and i am scared to confront him about it. I don't think that it is fair for him to get sexual satisfaction and deprive me of it. He has pictures and videos dating back a long time, and has never said anything to me about it.
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sleepless mommy
United States
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I've been taking ambien for a couple of months now. My dr. prescribed it to me because I have problems falling asleep and staying asleep. Well after a few nights of taking it my boyfriend said id do weird things and then want chocolate. He also said that we would have sex and that I was the one who was the one wanting it and starting it all. Id have no idea as to what he was talking about. It was upsetting knowing he knew that I would not remember anything about the sex but he would do it with me. I recently had a hysterectomy and am not supposed to have sex for 6 to weeks. My boyfriends knows I'm still not recovered from the surgery but he says we still have sex because I want it. This morning I woke upand my butt hurt bad. I asked him bout it and he swears he didn't do anything to me. He said he tried 2 times but stopped. I don't believe him because somethinge obviously had to have happened with me to have hurt as bad as I do right now. He knows I'm not supposed to have sex or anything else. The ambien is for me to to finally get some sleep. I feel so violated that he does things to me and me not remembering. I've told him its like I'm being rape. He said its not because I am the one insinuation. but I don't know I do it and know if I were awake I wouldn't want sex cause of the chances of tearing my stitches. I really don't know how to feel or know what to do about this. I need the ambien so I can get some sleep.
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sad dad
Tularosa, NM
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Tell him that you are not responsible for your own actions and you need for him to be responsible for you or otherwise a government agency will need to take the responsibility for you. If he cannot be trusted to care for you when you put yourself in this vulnerable and aggressive position, then maybe you need another boyfriend that will respect your real needs and ignore your apparent actions when you choose to take this personality altering drug. If you cannot find a boyfriend that can fit this order then, when you loose control of yourself again under the influence of the drug and are alone, you may find another abuser on the street and be abused again by some horrible man. And then there will likely be a government solution to your problem since there is no one else that can take responsibility for your actions for you. Good luck working it all out. I know personally that if I woke up with a sore butt, I would be alone and not take that particular drug again. Maybe there is another solution that does not require someone to take your responsibilities?
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JustMe
Horton, MI
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So you get aggressive and sexually molest your husband when you are on Ambien, and because he doesn't run away screaming and let you wander to a neighbor's house to screw him instead, he's a bad guy? The real problem is all these women who hate the idea of sleeping with their husbands. If you don't love him enough to sleep with him on a regular basis, do him a favor and file for divorce. He will end up MUCH happier in the long run. Those who say they did.... bravo for granting your exes a chance at happiness.
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Ambien Outrage
Cedar City, UT
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If you want to find the answers to these problems then google Ambien Outrage.
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enlightened
Molino, FL
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Judged:
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John Enlightened wrote: grow up chicks! What does it tell you when your HUSBAND has to drug you to have good sex? You can't remember it, so it didn't hurt you. Be glad your husband is at home having fun with YOU, instead of someone fun. I thimk u are a sick bastard...just bc men like u prefer to drug ur women when u want to have wild sex, when u didn't even consider asking...and who r u to judge that the women are fun only when drugged? Get a life and maybe oneday you'll grow a dick (with bals, too, YAY!!!) and if ur REALLY lucky, someone will want you.
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bailey
Maitland, FL
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i can totally relate. i have been woken up in middle of night by my husband while he was having free rein on both of my below the waist orafaces. he of course blames it on "hard liquour". he promised to quit drinking anything other than beer. i have been afraid to go to sleep when he is awake. i wait until he is sound asleep and snoring before i even attempt to get sleep. it sucks because i am so sleep deprived, i feel funny. his new thing now is, to place his member in my mouth while i am ambien sleeping. i am cant seem to stop him in the action, but am always mad at him for this. what is wrong with him? he is mad at me because i dont want sex with him. i feel disrespected/like just a piece of flesh to him. he says that he wont do it anymore, and i let my guard down and try to sleep. but, yet again, i wake up with my mouth full. WTF? is my marriage over?
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Wzrd1
Media, PA
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OK, there are a few factors here that REALLY need to be clarified.
First, zolpidem (aka Ambien) is WELL documented for sleep walking and other actions that are described here. The FDA even required a black box warning on it! EVERY physician in the land SHOULD know about the side effects, if they do not, find another physician who is competent!
Second, if you don't trust someone, whyinhell are you getting into bed with him?! ESPECIALLY when taking a sedative!
Third, some REALLY need marriage counseling badly. ESPECIALLY those with trust issues and balley in particular! Indeed, balley, I heartily recommend you run like hell from that man! If you are being abused at night by a drunken spouse, you need to get clear and either terminate the marriage or get him to accept counseling. That behavior is indicative of both anger issues and substance abuse issues and is potentially dangerous to the entire family.
One of the greatest problems we have in our society today is the lack of personal responsibility. When that fails, interpersonal responsibility fails. In short, decent behavior fails at the first opportunity, such as when under the influence of a drug by one's partner.
My wife over over 29 years takes some heavy duty sedatives to prevent her from awakening from pain, due to spinal issues that are not treatable any other way. She's never had cause to doubt that I'd do anything she wouldn't want done to her and I've not considered it. When she asked for something before she took her medication, mostly to satisfy me, I agreed. But, I never considered doing anything to her that she'd not agree to when she was not under the influence of her medication.
But then, that is interpersonal responsibility and even more importantly, honor.
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Anonymous
Miami, FL
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Holy shit im geting some Ambien and hiting the bars thx guys
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happymarried
Atlanta, GA
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I take Ambien as well and have nights of no memory or little memory of wild sex with my husband. I don't think anything is wrong with it, he's my HUSBAND! I love him and love to make him happy. I have woke him up on many nights for sex, and he was so exhausted could hardly remember what happened. He didn't flip out on me. If you can't remember it what is the big deal? It's not like a maniac broke in and rapped you. Sounds to me like a bunch of crazy, up tight control freaks. Here something to do, get off the meds if it bothers you so much.
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sad dad
Tularosa, NM
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Wow. Someone with actual common sense. It seems that common sense is rare these days.....not actually that common. You hit the nail on the head! happymarried wrote: I take Ambien as well and have nights of no memory or little memory of wild sex with my husband. I don't think anything is wrong with it, he's my HUSBAND! I love him and love to make him happy. I have woke him up on many nights for sex, and he was so exhausted could hardly remember what happened. He didn't flip out on me. If you can't remember it what is the big deal? It's not like a maniac broke in and rapped you. Sounds to me like a bunch of crazy, up tight control freaks. Here something to do, get off the meds if it bothers you so much.
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