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Since: Dec 09
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You should go back and check. I think they just might have removed a few of yours. And as luck would have it, the post they removed of mine is back. It pays to complain to them. Let me quote you. "You need help, cause the last time I checked "you all wasn't" even talking about the story". It appears you need help with your command of the English language and your inability to communicate. Best of luck to you. And what does your post have to do with the story?
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wow
Chicago, IL
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I think your all nuts I hope your iin a better place B I will miss you o your story stinks
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“A work in progress”
Since: Nov 09
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What a sick man. I think a lot of woman have this fear when going through a divorce and cops never take them seriously. File a restraining order, HA like that will stop them. They are real threatened with a piece of paper, yeah right! If they have a gun and their minds made up it's over!
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Rebecca Mitchell
Cuyahoga Falls, OH
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Pitypat wrote: <quoted text> It isn't that we don't care about the kids. Twist it all you want. The point was that this forum isn't for people do set up trust funds, etc. It is for commenting on the story. If you are so concerned about these people, why are you wasting your time posting on here. You should be grieving and helping the family grieve. If I lost someone close to me, the last place I would be is online chatting in a forum. Go to the funeral home website. They offer places for condolences there. For your information, I did write on the funeral home web-site. I only commented about the trust fund because someone wanted to help the kids and that is how they can do it. I am grieving and I have opened my house to his son and his mother, plus fed them and have been a listening ear for her and hugs and kisses for him!! I will be at calling hours tomorrow to give my condolences to Derricks family. Being a online chatting forum makes me allowed to say what I want as well as you to say what you want, it doesn't mean we have to agree, but me being close to Derricks 2 children makes me stick up for them. No its not a story this is real life you may be reading it but there are people living it, its real, we that are living it care about these children, they lost fathers and a mother.
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Thelocal
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pistoff wrote: <quoted text> I have apparently been impersonated on this one. Happens from time to time. People want to be me, I guess. I would give you cold hearted, however I am nothing but factual. As far as you seeing my comments, if you pay attention, it would go more like this; sadly this happened, the bright spot is that he finished with taking himself out. Condolences to family members of all. No body is impersonating you. If that were the case, you would have done did changed your name. You probably don't want to be thrown out by the moderator. Common sense would tell you that if someone stole your name then change it. Duh!
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Since: Nov 09
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Thelocal wrote: <quoted text> No body is impersonating you. If that were the case, you would have done did changed your name. You probably don't want to be thrown out by the moderator. Common sense would tell you that if someone stole your name then change it. Duh! No, someone was impersonating him. And what is done did? He registered. Then someone started using his old name. Why are we bothering trying to explain this to you....you are narrow minded.
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Since: Dec 09
Cleveland, OH
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Thelocal wrote: <quoted text> No body is impersonating you. If that were the case, you would have done did changed your name. You probably don't want to be thrown out by the moderator. Common sense would tell you that if someone stole your name then change it. Duh! I won't change my name just because someone seeks to get in on my cleverness. It was my original moniker, and I'm staying, If you can't tell the difference, it's your problem. You may now go back to amusing yourself with thoughts of what other people should be doing. Have fun!
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Just a Memory
Xenia, OH
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I was dating Derrick before he and Brandy became an item. Last I saw him was November. We had a stupid fight and I never spoke to him again...and now I had to stand over a casket to tell him I loved him still as much as he loved me. I realized that day, life is so precious...often a cliche? Maybe. But I shouldn't of been apologizing to him as he is laying in a casket or holding his fragile cold hand that had such a warm touch when he would brush the hair from my face to kiss me. I am so distraught ove rthis and I feel terrible. Often times I look at his pictures and I know he cared for and loved my kids. My oldest misses him and still talks to him. And you know, it's not about if ppl in his life liked me or not, it's about the laughter and conversations we had behind closed doors...the times he would tickle me and rub my back...I miss him dearly and Derrick if you are over my shoulder reading this I love you as much as I did the day you asked me to marry you and I fought with you over DUMB SHIT..and I miss you terribly.
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Since: Nov 09
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Just a Memory wrote: I was dating Derrick before he and Brandy became an item. Last I saw him was November. We had a stupid fight and I never spoke to him again...and now I had to stand over a casket to tell him I loved him still as much as he loved me. I realized that day, life is so precious...often a cliche? Maybe. But I shouldn't of been apologizing to him as he is laying in a casket or holding his fragile cold hand that had such a warm touch when he would brush the hair from my face to kiss me. I am so distraught ove rthis and I feel terrible. Often times I look at his pictures and I know he cared for and loved my kids. My oldest misses him and still talks to him. And you know, it's not about if ppl in his life liked me or not, it's about the laughter and conversations we had behind closed doors...the times he would tickle me and rub my back...I miss him dearly and Derrick if you are over my shoulder reading this I love you as much as I did the day you asked me to marry you and I fought with you over DUMB ****..and I miss you terribly. I guess he didn't feel the same way if he hooked up with someone else. YOu need to post this at the funeral home website if you don't want anyone to comment on it. I am sorry for your loss. We say and do things all the time that we wish we could take back.
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Just a Memory
Xenia, OH
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For your information he called me and wanted me to go away with him in the Army...and told me he still loved me and wanted to take me out to buy a ring right then...he did love me...you weren't there during our intimate conversations...how dare you dring hate to people during their mourning process...did you even know him? For your information, his mother hugged me she knew what we had shared...stay out of my comments...me writing about him is the only link I have left to him...let me grieve the only way I can....jerk!
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Just a Memory wrote: For your information he called me and wanted me to go away with him in the Army...and told me he still loved me and wanted to take me out to buy a ring right then...he did love me...you weren't there during our intimate conversations...how dare you dring hate to people during their mourning process...did you even know him? For your information, his mother hugged me she knew what we had shared...stay out of my comments...me writing about him is the only link I have left to him...let me grieve the only way I can....jerk! You are posting this on a PUBLIC forum. We will comment. Write it in a journal then. And I wouldn't want to be anywhere near you when you have your intimate conversations. You keep telling yourself all of this. He hooked up with someone else. Yikes. Why is it you women are so blind? You keep posting in here and we will comment.
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Since: Dec 09
Cleveland, OH
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Just a Memory wrote: For your information he called me and wanted me to go away with him in the Army...and told me he still loved me and wanted to take me out to buy a ring right then...he did love me...you weren't there during our intimate conversations...how dare you dring hate to people during their mourning process...did you even know him? For your information, his mother hugged me she knew what we had shared...stay out of my comments...me writing about him is the only link I have left to him...let me grieve the only way I can....jerk! I'm sure you're the only woman he ever said those things to. Is there any mystery whi in your community there are so many baby mamas without men (husbands even)? Perhaps it's because you believe every talking p*nis that comes in your direction.(no pun intended)
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Since: Nov 09
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Thanks. I just can't seem to get through to her. She has this strange idea that he loved only her. Obviously he didn't. And he died because of it. She needs to move on with her life and stop sleeping with everyone and making babies. Most guys don't really want a ready made family. She made her bed, she has to sleep in it. Wonder if we will be supporting her.
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“A work in progress”
Since: Nov 09
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Pitypat wrote: Thanks. I just can't seem to get through to her. She has this strange idea that he loved only her. Obviously he didn't. And he died because of it. She needs to move on with her life and stop sleeping with everyone and making babies. Most guys don't really want a ready made family. She made her bed, she has to sleep in it. Wonder if we will be supporting her. But she knew what they had!!! And so did all the other ladies he was banging...hopefully it's not AIDS! Why do women trust these guys? It's growing ever more popular to have 2 or 3 kids with all different baby daddies. Don't young girls today have any self respect anymore? I'll tell you one thing, it wont be one of my girls mourning over some guy like this. They will be taught to love themselves and the responsibility that comes with having sex with some guy who doesn't even want to marry you. Heck I found my poster child...Do you want to end up like this poor girl that wasn't even with the baby daddy when he died stuck to raise a kid on your own....I didn't think so! They'll have that to think about before just spreading their legs for any willing and random guy and not using protection!
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OOOPS sorry wrong forum...my bad... copy and pasting now.
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adored78 wrote: OOOPS sorry wrong forum...my bad... copy and pasting now. LOL. It was the right forum.
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a concerned citizen
Bloomfield Hills, MI
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still in shock wrote: I knew both Brandy and Matt. This situation has been building for years. I just wish someone would have been able to help him before it came to this. This is a case of a man who couldn't let go of the wife he loved, even though he didn't know how to love her the right way. He wasn't evil. He needed help, and never got it. The families of all three are in my prayers and I hope their son is able to have some sort of a normal life. you obviously didnt know him very well because he was as evil as they come, beat her then murdered her. a sex pretador with a long criminal history if that isnt evil i dont know what is.
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a concerned citizen
Bloomfield Hills, MI
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shocked wrote: <quoted text> excuse me did you KNOW Matt??? I doubt it by this comment. Matt was NOT a monster nor a child molester. Good people don't push and push and push someone until they feel this is the only way out. Like many have said you need to know both sides. Hmm Lets look at the facts in this case; 1) he had sex with a 15 year old girl that makes him a child molester in my book 2) Matt left Brandy for someone else (he had at least 3 girlfriends when he decided to leave what a nice guy) 3)He MURDERED 2 people and completely devastated his son's life even if he spared it So if this is not a monster what does it take to be a monster I would LOVE TO KNOW!!! Oh and for the record of all you gossip monger idiots, Matt was the only one who had a parole officer, Brandy did not!!
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candyman
Hilliard, OH
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from what i know matt was a sick mother fu****...their was no reason to kill anyone but himself. for someone who is soooo happy abt a divorce took two people not just oen but two people's lives becuase he was soooo happy huh.... is that how we show are happiness these days? going around shooting people. im glad matt is dead one less child rapest around to deal with. are justice system did fail matt should have never seen the light of day againe and let some homies in jail rape his ass. tow very wonderful people died for no reason who had lives to live and had family and children who now are without parents. one who said brandy,matt or derrick ever were perfect people becuase they are human but their if no justification to kill anyone for any reason and i hope matt burns in hell for what he did. the puss would not stnad up for his actions so he ended his own life which in fact he should have did us all a favor and ended just his life. matt is a evil man and the spon of the devil who never should have waled these streets and his family should have got him the help he needed.
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candyman
Hilliard, OH
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their needs to be laws change and a better grip on punishment. 13 days in jail is nothing but now derrick and bandy are dead becuase a evil man was set free. and some girl some were has to suffer becuase matt raped her too. yes brandy per say may have pushed matt at times but it's no reason to kill anyone. people push me all the time does that mean i can go around shooting them??? no.... matt was not fuckin happy with a divorce and he proved it by his action's, brandy showed she was ready to move on and be happy. everyone needs to stop defending a murder becuase that's what matt is a rapest and a murder he it's been convicted of both. god will make him pay and that's what matter's.
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