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Pay it forward; Good Samaritans revealed

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#22
Apr 28, 2008
 
Sounds like Oprah's Big Give. Good lesson for the teens.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
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"We gave the guy a 20 dollar bill that was working there and told him the next person to come through there that orders pizza, just put that towards their bill, and reaction was just... what?,"
That's exactly what my response was/is...I think it was nice of them to help people pay for their gas, medication, groceries etc. But c'mon, wasting that $20.00 to help pay for someones pizza order??? If they can afford to order Pizza out then I don't think they are hurting toooo much money wise, at least I know the only time I order Pizza is when all the other bills are paid and I have some extra "spending money" to enjoy.
BUT, it's their money, just glad they don't work for the welfare office and hand out taxpayer funds so people can order pizza.
The tax collector in the Bible was not a poor man either. But Jesus went to his house anyway despite the critics. Jesus' love is not just for the poor. It is for everyone rich and poor. The actions of these teenagers was to tell people that they are loved. It doesn't matter who you, what you have been, or what you have done.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
friend wrote:
Sounds like Oprah's Big Give. Good lesson for the teens.
Now, Oprah is the one who should keep it anonymous. But I really believe it is really a marketing thing for her.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
Scott wrote:
I wasn't critizing them and already mentioned it was their money to do with as they wished. It just struck me as odd that they would help pay for someones carry out pizza when it would be A LOT cheaper to either make your own pizza at home or buy one or two of the frozen variety. Just saying that people able to afford to order pizza out most likely aren't "hurting" as much as others.
For example: I would have hit some local grocery stores and target the ones in poorer neighborhoods and talk to the cashiers or other employees to see if they knew of any regular customers that were on a tight budget or appeared to be on a tight budget having to skimp on what groceries they purchased etc. Then quietly target those people, especially the ones with kids to feed so they could have a little more food for a change.
You can usually tell if someone is financially challenged even if it's short term. I was at one of our local gas stations 2-3 years ago and filled up my tank and was inside paying for it (and buying some lotto). There was a lady who pulled up to the pumps in a very old, rather beaten up station wagon with two young kids in the backseat. I felt so sorry for them, you could immeadietly tell they were very poor. The poor lady looked pretty worn out too.
Anyways, she came in to pay for her gas upfront and handed the cashier a whopping $2.00, I knew she was hurting and it also looked like she wasn't eating very well. The clerk felt bad for the woman too because she knew like me that $2.00 worth of gas in that huge, old station wagon wouldn't last her for but a few miles.
I asked the clerk to set her pump for $40.00, the lady looked at me stunned and thanked me over and over, I told her she was more than welcome and to have a good day as I headed back to work.
Geesh, I thought about her/them for days afterwards and wondered if they were ok, if they actually had some place to stay/eat or if they were living out of the station wagon etc.
You see, I (we) were in a similar situation when I was a kid. At that time there were 5 of us kids plus my struggling mother and we had to live out of the car for a couple of months sleeping at roadside parks or the city park when we first arrived in New Mexico. My Mother worked her butt off at Levi Strauss during the day while we kids were in school then we would all meet back at the city park at the end of the day for baloney sandwiches for dinner.
Anyways, a very nice Police Sargeant got wind of our situation and contacted a real estate place in town and they found an inexpensive home for us to move into, once the story hit the newspaper, food, household goods and some money donations came in. I'll NEVER forget that Sargeant and all of the generous strangers who helped us out at a very dire time in our lives.
It was so nice being able to sleep in beds once again instead of the car floorboards and trunk (opened of course). Anyways, I'm especially sensitive to people like that who are trying their best to keep things together but just need a helping hand to get them over the hump a little easier.
Bless you for the gift you gave to that woman who needed it at that time.

However "hurting" comes in different forms. And sometimes a stranger doing a nice thing even if it is something you didn't need as much as the next guy is just a little something to say, "You are not alone. Someone loves you." Who are you to say that a poor person is hurting more than a rich person. Anyone who has heard the news on Britney Spears or Linsey Lohan could argue with you on that one. Money doesn't buy happiness. But a small unexpected gift, especially when you think you don't deserve it can mean so much. Their gift to these people is not any less than your gift if is was given in love.
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#27
Apr 28, 2008
 
My goodness. Charity it seems is also judged. Too bad. We do not wear the shoes others are in, even the pizza order may have been for people who are together because of a death in the family or a family member could be in critical condition in the hospital. Only God knows and if the money is prayed over, HE puts it to the best use. It is not for us to question His plans and ways.
Many good deeds are done without recognition and maybe this is a way God is working to encourage others to be generous with all He has given us. Accept His way and let go of it.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
I say way to go to the kids who did this. However, shame on wood tv for not letting these kids remain anonymous when they requested it in the first place. Sometimes, things should just be left alone.

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Apr 28, 2008
 
the youth director wrote:
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We thought about remaining anonymous. We really did. But in the end, we want to be known as a church that desperately tries to be the church. We want to be known as a church that doesn't just believe in going to church, but believes in being the church. And so we felt it was important to let people know who we are... not in an attempt to grab 15 seconds in the spotlight, but rather just to say to our neighbors and our community that hey, we love you. We plan on continuing to love you... for no reason other than that we share life here together. Hopefully others find that refreshing and may want to join us in that.
Does not matter, I say BRAVO! Those teens that you have are awesome! Such a breath of fresh air. Im sure people will be talking about this for awhile. I feel for the ones struggling now too. Bless all of you for helping!!
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#31
Apr 28, 2008
 
First of all, Kudo's to the Minister of the church for giving these young adults the opportunity to experience the gift of giving. Hopefully it will last their lifetimes.

Secondly, I hope we adults take this lesson to heart and join in the experience in our daily lives. Money is not the only way of providing those in need with help. Simple tasks are equally important. Just do what you are able to do to place a smile on a stranger's face everyday, and you will sleep better every night!
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Apr 28, 2008
 
I doubt that gasoline and fast food make a difference in any positive way. These youths should have taken the idea of paying it forward and applied it to something positive in society.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
CCC wrote:
"We thought about remaining anonymous. We really did. But in the end, we want to be known as a church that desperately tries to be the church. We want to be known as a church that doesn't just believe in going to church, but believes in being the church. And so we felt it was important to let people know who we are." You would have been found by your behavior, not your bragging about your behavior. TRUE charity is anonymous...even the bible says that...
You are a nitpicker! You should be happy for what they did. Not critical. Nice to see a story of a good thing instead of the evil stuff for a change! GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!!!
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Apr 28, 2008
 
cristin wrote:
I doubt that gasoline and fast food make a difference in any positive way. These youths should have taken the idea of paying it forward and applied it to something positive in society.
Well, if you could've seen the reactions of the people in line, you would know that it did make a difference in a positive way. But... it should be noted, for anyone who cares, that this was a start for our group. We are working on becoming a group of young people who make this a lifestyle- not a special one week thing, or just a check off of one of our little Christian checklists. We really want to begin to live this out. So we started small... and we'll continue to try to love and serve each day in opportunities that come our way. I think if our teens can learn to see the world with new eyes and adopt love and service as a part of their lifestyle, then this will really be something. Please know that in the future we are hoping to develop meaningful relationships with those we serve. We are hoping to create some ministry partnerships with those in need. And if you have any ideas, feel free to pass them along to me.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
I think the "Anonymous" theme is a minor point. What is important is that this group stepped up and tried to make a difference. I give them a lot of credit and encourage others to follow their lead. "CCC" what have you done lately?
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Apr 28, 2008
 
I am a little disgusted that people are sitting here judging these kids for what they did. They didn't stay anonymous, they shouldn't have paid for someone's pizza, they shouldn't have helped people that probably could have afforded it. You are missing the point. These kids did something that most people don't even THINK of doing...helping someone else. Whether they needed it or not, they still helped. I applaud them, and maybe this will get other youth groups and kids organizations thinking along the same line. Then, like a domino effect, it will make other people think. I know it has me thinking "what could I do to help?".

How about, instead of sitting here telling these kids all the things they did "wrong", you should get out and do something that YOU think should be done?
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Apr 28, 2008
 
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"Anyone who has heard the news on Britney Spears or Linsey Lohan could argue with you on that one."
Forgive me for saying this, but I have zero sympathy for people like them or the wealthy in general, unlike the unfortunate people those people have all the money/priviledge to be able to afford the best help/care available in the world to make their situations better.
They have plenty of money to buy the material things that people think are so important. But that does not cover the important things. Again, you put way too much emphasis on the money. I never lived in a car like your family but my family lived under the poverty level and every year we lived under the fear of losing our house because my widowed mother could not pay the taxes. One year, someone from our church made an anonymous donation to our family to help out. I will never forget that. It did help for that one year and it was another example of God's love. Having said that, with all the things I had to live without, the one thing that really counted was that my Mom loved me and she showed me God's love (something I question regarding those wealthier examples I gave). Knowing we are loved makes the hard times just a little easier regardless of our financial status. I think I lived a far richer life as a child than those wealthier people and I think you did, too. I would never trade my life for theirs.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
Scott wrote:
"We gave the guy a 20 dollar bill that was working there and told him the next person to come through there that orders pizza, just put that towards their bill, and reaction was just... what?,"
That's exactly what my response was/is...I think it was nice of them to help people pay for their gas, medication, groceries etc. But c'mon, wasting that $20.00 to help pay for someones pizza order??? If they can afford to order Pizza out then I don't think they are hurting toooo much money wise, at least I know the only time I order Pizza is when all the other bills are paid and I have some extra "spending money" to enjoy.
BUT, it's their money, just glad they don't work for the welfare office and hand out taxpayer funds so people can order pizza.
Oh give them a break you ole fart. They are kids! Kids think of Pizza. And your government does just that. Hand out money to spend how they want.
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Apr 28, 2008
 
jeepie wrote:
<quoted text> You are a nitpicker! You should be happy for what they did. Not critical. Nice to see a story of a good thing instead of the evil stuff for a change! GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!!!
cristin, you obviously have never been in the position of having to go and put just a couple of dollars worth of gas in your car to get you to work in hopes that you can earn enough in tips to afford gas the next day to do it all over again. I have. Gasoline is a necessitity in today's society and these kids have done a wonderful thing!

Ever since my husband and I have reached the point of not living paycheck to paycheck, we try to pay something forward at least once per month. I have a long way to go before I even approach paying forward all of the kind and wonderful things that others did for me while I was struggling. And once I get there, I'll keep going.

God Bless these kids and their leaders who provided the opportunity for them!
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Apr 28, 2008
 
cristin wrote:
I doubt that gasoline and fast food make a difference in any positive way. These youths should have taken the idea of paying it forward and applied it to something positive in society.
Sorry, this should have been posted as this...

cristin, you obviously have never been in the position of having to go and put just a couple of dollars worth of gas in your car to get you to work in hopes that you can earn enough in tips to afford gas the next day to do it all over again. I have. Gasoline is a necessitity in today's society and these kids have done a wonderful thing!

Ever since my husband and I have reached the point of not living paycheck to paycheck, we try to pay something forward at least once per month. I have a long way to go before I even approach paying forward all of the kind and wonderful things that others did for me while I was struggling. And once I get there, I'll keep going.

God Bless these kids and their leaders who provided the opportunity for them!
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#42
Apr 28, 2008
 
I wish I could give each one of these teens and their youth leaders a hug. I am so proud of each of you. It's very easy to focus on the bad, but these random acts of kindness you did makes every normal person feel good. It is a wonderful start, more than most people would do. Hopefully this plants the seed in these youths hearts and they continue to commit these random acts of kindness all through their lives.
I choose to ignore the petty comments and focus on the good.
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#43
Apr 28, 2008
 
It was not just about helping the "poor", it was about showing God's love for ALL others.
Wonder what CCC would be saying if one of these awesome teens touched his/her life???? Maybe not as judgemental but there are all kinds in this world.
God Bless EVERYONE!
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Apr 28, 2008
 
So many teens these days are getting recognized for doing awlful things.. I think its great that these kids went out and did these deeds... even the pizza... nice is nice.... why knock it, just because they revealed themselves... come on, give them a break!
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