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Anonymous
Berlin, CT
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Your lucky I don't know you cause i would personally give you a piece of mind. What do you people who are writing all this bullsh*t really expect right now? Its kind of too late don't you think. What point are you all trying to make? These kids are dead. Say that they need to higher the driving age or something. Don't sit their and think of horrible things to say...have some compassion. Nobody has even achknowledged the death of Anthony's sister. Everybody is too busy putting Anthony and his family down. You people are obviously not church goers either cause in church we learn to forgive. It really saddens me as too how many ignorant people exist in this world. Lisa wrote: The road is a little bit safer now. Whenever a maniac on a motor cycle or an idiot in a car decides to drive crazy, there isn't any sympathy from me when they wrap it around a tree, but I feel for the innocent girl in the back seat of the car that wasn't related to the ant.
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Willy Wonka
Berlin, CT
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Hi Lisa from Danbury.......Your heartless and miserable and your husband probably left you...if you were married.. and if you are married and your husband agrees he's a retard... and if your not married we all know why. You want some chocolate... it will help you be less of a b*tch.
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Dean DeVirgilio
Phoenix, AZ
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Corey their cousin wrote: first off he only totaled the honda before this no it wasnt his first accident. the other cars werent his fault. im sick and tired of people puting him and his parents down. im sure most of you people fucked up before so ley off Corey, I agree that these people should not be putting our family down like that. I was so heartbroke when I heard about this tragedy and I feel sorry for all of us.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Corey their cousin wrote: first off he only totaled the honda before this no it wasnt his first accident. the other cars werent his fault. im sick and tired of people puting him and his parents down. im sure most of you people fucked up before so ley off Yes Corey, we've all screwed up...but not like this luckily. We know it wasn't his first accident and that's what makes this even worse...6 months earlier he totalled and split in half his Honda while going 90mph drunk at the age of 16 and he almost killed himself and his friend...to most of us...this would be a major wake up call and we would have learned from it and changed our ways. Anthony had a second chance at life, I wish he had taken it.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Willy Wonka wrote: Hi Lisa from Danbury.......Your heartless and miserable and your husband probably left you...if you were married.. and if you are married and your husband agrees he's a retard... and if your not married we all know why. You want some chocolate... it will help you be less of a b*tch. I guess you're one of the idiots that Lisa is talking about then...did she hit a nerve idiot?? It's people like you that we don't feel sorry for when something happens because you've shown how ignorant you really are. stay off the road and go to school.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Anonymous wrote: Your lucky I don't know you cause i would personally give you a piece of mind. What do you people who are writing all this bullsh*t really expect right now? Its kind of too late don't you think. What point are you all trying to make? These kids are dead. Say that they need to higher the driving age or something. Don't sit their and think of horrible things to say...have some compassion. Nobody has even achknowledged the death of Anthony's sister. Everybody is too busy putting Anthony and his family down. You people are obviously not church goers either cause in church we learn to forgive. It really saddens me as too how many ignorant people exist in this world. <quoted text> Yes, as you say they need to "higher" the driving age or raise it actually. People have compassion for the kids that have died in this accident, especially for the ones that weren't speeding at 65mph-70mph in a 40mph zone. That's asking for trouble. They set speed limits for a reason, due to the safety of the road...first of all...it's a residential road, that is how some of his classmates/friends saw how fast he was going, since they were standing outside of the house right by the road. Yes, you've proven how many ignorant people exist in the world...and you go to church? I highly doubt it...don't preach to me about church either...when you can't trust a priest, you can't trust anybody!!! So, don't even start your preaching. I know of plenty "church goers" that are worse than anybody else...why do you think they go to church?? for forgiveness!! I'd be carefull if I was you about giving anybody a piece of mind, I don't think you'd have much left!! You might need the little piece of mind you have one day. There are plenty of people that can preach the bible, but don't have a bit of common sense!!
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Green VR6 Wolcott wrote: This is a terrible time for everyone, this isn't the time to blame anyone, especially the parents, there trying to deal with the loss of not 1 kid but both, the only 2 they had, Like any parent they want to make their kids happy, Anthony most likely promised he would slow down convincing his father of getting him the WRX. MAY GOD be with the families and friends, REST IN PEACE "teens" When it comes down to it...we can't give our kids everything just to make them "happy". Even if your son promises to slow down, you don't give him a car that the speedometer goes up to 210mph. He had a history of speeding and driving intoxicated. What about the poor Correa family that is dealing with the loss of their daughter who never gave them these problems? Their grief is no less considering they lost 1 child and not 2.
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Disbelief
Walpole, MA
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100% right. Where were Anthony's parents? I know they are grieving, but if they did the right thing prior to the accident, this never would have occurred. My heart goes out to the girl's parents. Car wrecks, speeding tickets, DUI...when was Anthony going to pay the consequences. Obviously he did, but so did the the young lady and her parents. This was a PREVENTABLE ACCIDENT. Shameful wrote: Of all the people grieving over this my deepest sympathies go out to the parents of the girl who was riding in the back seat. She was certainly the most innocent of them all and although she probably knew that Anthony was a reckless and very dangerous driver, at 14 nothing is cooler than getting a ride home in a car rather than the bus and she took a chance. I'm sorry to say I do not have anything warm and fuzzy to say to Anthony's parents. They were as reckless as he by enabling him to have the chance to wreak the havoc he did upon the entire town of Wolcott. Just what did they not understand about his total disregard for safety, the law, or respect of other human beings? After nearly killing himself and another teenager while driving drunk they once again unleashed him upon the driving and pedestrian public in a high performance automobile so he could rack up a couple of more speeding tickets. This kid was SCREAMING for help and instead of throwing him a lifeline they threw him an anchor. Shameful, totally shameful.
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someone
East Hartford, CT
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i really feel sorry for all the parents that lost their kids, its a horrible thing that has happened. No parents are perfect, we all try to keep are kids happy,and some make mistakes. My heart goes out to the families and friends. May god be with you.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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happiness comes and goes...instead of trying to make the teens happy by giving them whatever they want...focus on their health and safety instead. I'd rather say NO to my child and have them mad at me, but still alive. They'll get over being mad.
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In the sticks
Newington, CT
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Anonymous wrote: I just got my license last Friday and have already learned a valuable lesson. I learned that speeding doesn't get you anywhere much faster and can be deadly and I will try to take my time when driving. I also learned not to ride in cars with friends if they are newly licensees or have bad driving records because you never know what will happen. I have a friend who has never been arrested for DUI or got speeding tickets but still drives like a maniac. I would never want to be hurt because of his mistake. I knew Anthony a long time ago and can't believe this happened. I'm not defending him or his parents but I think everyone should lay off of them for a while. His parents have to live with the loss of their son and daughter and their lack of punishment on the matter. The funeral was yesterday and I think they have enough to deal with right now. Thamara's family also has to deal with the death of their daughter. Her sister, for the rest of her life, will have to think about what happened. Right before the accident, Thamara's sister called Thamara and told her she would pick her up. Thamara said she had to go and then hung up. Then the accident happened. Basically, I think everyone should take it easy on everyone involved because they are already dealing with so much. When my daughter got her license, I gave her a letter from Dear Abby. The letter was written by the ghost of the teen age driver who was killed in a car accident. The teenager spoke of looking down on her parents and friend and seeing the unbelieveable pain that she was putting them through. When you are driving, think of the pain that will be visited on those that are left behind. Best wishes, live a very long life.
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former wolcott resident
Cromwell, CT
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wolcott mom wrote: Well, the parents should give a sh*t about the residents opinions...they put their son on the road to drive with us and our children...and he shouldn't have been. He had no right driving erraticlly on the roads where I live and I drive my car with my children in it. He had no right! If you want to drive like that...get on a race track, not the roads where I live. It couldn't have happened to anyone...only the people who give their kids car after car after car when they've proven by accidents, tickets, a DUI etc.. that the child isn't mature enough to handle the responsibility of a 3,000 pound piece of machinery that can be used as a weapon. That's who it happens to...I guess we might be hearing about your childrens accidents next if you don't change your thinking and if you approve of this behavior and you're calling us ignorant? You're correct that parents can't control EVERYTHING that their kids do, but they don't have to turn their head and look the other way and enable them to make bad decisions. That kid wouldn't have had another car without his parents help. That was their chance to step up and say NO. The accident never would have happened without the car right? <quoted text> I absolutely agree with you 100%. I visited the cemetary yesterday where the 3 teens are buried (and where my mom is) and I saw the parents and sister of the girl in the back seat. They were standing at the grave of their child and I cannot get the image of them at their daughters gravesite out of my mind! I feel very angry that this happened to these girls. Anger at the parents of Anthony for allowing this to happen to two innocent girls. If my teenage daughter or son slammed into a tree drunk and seriously injured himself and nearly killed their friend, the last thing i would have done is buy them a new car 6 months later.( a race car!!!!) Wolcott is a much safer place without him on the road! To bad he took 2 innocent lives with him!
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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I drove through the cemetary with my children, the day of the funeral, only later on and it was difficult seeing the fresh flowers on the ground knowing that was where the kids were buried. It made it even more real and upsetting for me. I'm glad that I didn't see Tham's parents there, because I would have probably lost it. I might have even gone up to them to express my sadness for them and my anger too for what happened to them. I still can't believe this happened, but if people keep making excuses, it will keep on happening.
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Anonymous
Richmond, VA
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Do you think your better then me just because you have better grammar skills, because your not. All i have been trying to say is that these parents need time to grieve for their children and you have been doing nothing but judging them. Well let me tell you something... only one person can judge...and only one person can decide who's wrong and who's right and thats GOD. wolcott mom wrote: <quoted text> Yes, as you say they need to "higher" the driving age or raise it actually. People have compassion for the kids that have died in this accident, especially for the ones that weren't speeding at 65mph-70mph in a 40mph zone. That's asking for trouble. They set speed limits for a reason, due to the safety of the road...first of all...it's a residential road, that is how some of his classmates/friends saw how fast he was going, since they were standing outside of the house right by the road. Yes, you've proven how many ignorant people exist in the world...and you go to church? I highly doubt it...don't preach to me about church either...when you can't trust a priest, you can't trust anybody!!! So, don't even start your preaching. I know of plenty "church goers" that are worse than anybody else...why do you think they go to church?? for forgiveness!! I'd be carefull if I was you about giving anybody a piece of mind, I don't think you'd have much left!! You might need the little piece of mind you have one day. There are plenty of people that can preach the bible, but don't have a bit of common sense!!
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Anonymous wrote: Do you think your better then me just because you have better grammar skills, because your not. All i have been trying to say is that these parents need time to grieve for their children and you have been doing nothing but judging them. Well let me tell you something... only one person can judge...and only one person can decide who's wrong and who's right and thats GOD. <quoted text> Yes, my grammar is better than yours, I learned in school...you can too. I didn't say that I'm better than you, I don't know you.
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tweedle
East Hartford, CT
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For your information.......I am a 26 year old woman who is working on her masters in child psychology. Is there any other insults you would like to throw at me since you obviously think you know everything? wolcott mom wrote: <quoted text> Yes, my grammar is better than yours, I learned in school...you can too. I didn't say that I'm better than you, I don't know you.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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tweedle wrote: For your information.......I am a 26 year old woman who is working on her masters in child psychology. Is there any other insults you would like to throw at me since you obviously think you know everything? <quoted text> I never would have guessed. Well, you are more than qualified then to speak on this matter. Do you have children?
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Anonymous
East Hartford, CT
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Yes... I do have children. I have a 9 year old daughter and I just had a baby boy 6 months ago. I am a single mother and I work hard to see my children happy.. to see them smiling every day brightens mine. I would do anything for them. I would except their every flaw. You see, no matter what your feelings are, your children are your life....your blood. If your children had done something like this, I know you would not turn your back on them and you wouldn't appreciate people criticizing or judging them or your family. I'm sure these parents know that they might have made a mistake but right now they can only mourn their loss and the loss of the other family. They lost their only 2 children. Can you just sit down for one second and think of how these parents feel.
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Anonymous
East Hartford, CT
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The message above was in reply to the "wolcott mom" comment.
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wolcott mom
Wolcott, CT
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Anonymous wrote: Yes... I do have children. I have a 9 year old daughter and I just had a baby boy 6 months ago. I am a single mother and I work hard to see my children happy.. to see them smiling every day brightens mine. I would do anything for them. I would except their every flaw. You see, no matter what your feelings are, your children are your life....your blood. If your children had done something like this, I know you would not turn your back on them and you wouldn't appreciate people criticizing or judging them or your family. I'm sure these parents know that they might have made a mistake but right now they can only mourn their loss and the loss of the other family. They lost their only 2 children. Can you just sit down for one second and think of how these parents feel. Wow, you're 26 with a 9 year old?? and you're single with a 6 month old too? If I was you...I wouldn't be judging people. I might not have had a child when I was 17 years old, nor am I single with a 6 month old, you sound much more qualified than I am. Thanks for clarifying that.
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