Dead Beat Dad in Waxhaw, NC

Hello everyone. I am a single mother here in Minnesota and I was letting you all know that there is a man in Waxhaw by the name of Timothy Mascarenas, has a wife named Terese Mascarenas, and they have a young son. But I was letting you know that Tim is a dead beat father because he refuses to own up to his responsibilities here in Minnesota, he has another son who is 13 years old and he decided not to have any contact with him. That has been since May of 2001. He currently owes child support to the tune of over $12,000. He has been sending $10/month (I suppose to show he is sending something). I hope people that know him read this because he is not the man that you all think he is. He has everything in the wife's name so they cannot go after him. He works under her business too so they cannot withhold child support payments. Just letting you all know that it takes two to create someone and he should help support his son he left behind here in Minnesota.

Maybe you should have thought about that before you cheated on him! Ha ha

I was with him way before her thank you. I met him in 1992. He met her in 2000. He had his son way before he met her. He has just chosen not to be a part of his son's life.

This is not about these two parents as much as it is about the children. Are the children's needs being met? Are his wants, and the desires of his new wife more important than the needs of his children? The devastation of being abandoned, not only physically, but of withdrawing all financial support will most likely affect them deeply now and as adults. Do they ask themselves questions like, "what is so wrong with me that my dad could just leave completely?" How will this affect their ability to believe that anyone can be trusted when their own father rejects them? He will be their father forever. He WILL leave an impact...just what will it be? It is never too late to do the right thing. While he may suffer momentary financial discomfort, he will gain much more than he loses. Please...demonstrate integrity to these children, and be a real father to them in as far as you are able. Love them in very real ways by putting their needs before your own. There is not a price you can place on that.

My son's needs are being met only by myself. He sometimes wants to call his dad, one time he did on Father's Day to wish him a happy Father's day and you know what he told our son? He told him that he had the wrong number, so he hung up and called back telling his dad that that was him (he knows his voice) And his father told him again he had the wrong number. It will come back and haunt him one day (his father that is) My son is doing okay. It has been almost 7 years since they saw or talked with each other. Now in April his dad is supposed to have his day in court, but that is only if they can locate him and serve him. My wish for him is to come around and start being the father he once was for 6 years before he left him. He used to be a great dad, that was until he met his new wife, then he changed and didn't want anything to do with his son.

What is wrong with you! You must be very bitter about something. I am a normal mother just stating something about an ex of mine and you have to use that kind of language. Grow up!! There are thousand of dead beat dads and mothers out there and I am only trying to get the courts to make him pay for what he has created. He doesn't see his son at all so guess what? He will have to pay!! If he saw his kid that might be a whole different story but he has chosen not to have any contact with him so I am going to make sure he has to support him just as much as I am. There is no need for comments like the one you made.

CAN I HIT IT? Oh wait nevermind you cost 2 much!lol

So, if anyone out there knows who this man is, do not let him do any work for you. He says he hasn't made any income at all this year. Can you believe that he says that he stays home with his other kid 12-16 hours a day while his wife is out petsitting? Sometimes 7 days a week. What a crock, but hey, the courts believed him and lowered his monthy support. He is a handiman/home inspector. He lies and he is a deadbeat father! Owes almost $14,000 in back support. Do not let this man work for you, you will be aiding in his lies!!

Wow you still at that same old act! Stop misleading everyone, he said you were a Ho and that you gave him HIV and that that kid was not his so whats up!

WELL-- If that is the case why are you sleeping with him. Any father, regardless of the mother that doesn't pay his support is a dead beat. It is not a slag or slanderous term. It is the definition Child Support Services uses for parents that do not support their children when court ordered to do so.

Who is sleeping with him, hopefully just his wife. I have not seen him since 2002. Now I just found out that he is in JAIL!! That is priceless in my book. What comes around goes around and it is his time to pay. He should have been paying ever since, this would not have happened if he was abiding by the ruling. He can live in North Carolina in a 6 bedroom home (which is now for sale) He says he isn't working and that his wife is only a pet sitter. He is a certified home inspector and apparently they can afford new furniture and they can afford to put a new fenced in yard on their 1/2 acre they have but cannot afford to send any money to his son. His son doesn't even know who he is anymore, it's been over 1/2 his life since he had any contact with him. That is 7 years that he has missed out on and it has been 7 wonderful year watching him turn into a teenager.

Well at least he is away from your yeast infected ass! Oh and he still isnt paying you shit now so whats up? lol

FYI..........I got the bail money that he had to pay to get out of jail. Maybe now he will start paying on a regular basis. I am sure he didn't like being in the clink. If he don't pay he ends up back in there. Finally the system is beginning to work!

Monzie, you have spent 7 years watching someone who left you while putting your child through it all. I'm sorry he left and does not care about you or his child, but it's time to move on. Why in the world would you track down and spy on him to the point of knowing when he buys furniture. It seems that you are having contact with him and that you are still doing things for him like paying his bail. Do you honestly think that if you bail him out of jail he'll see the light? It's not right for what he is doing, but you will never get the money he owes you if you never let him pay for his mistakes.

I do not care about him at all. And you have it all wrong. He had to come up with the money to get out of jail and I recieved that money that he had to pay to get out of jail. He is just as much a part of my sons life as I am and if I have to continue to find him to make him pay I will. I have 5 years left of this. How do you think my son feels when I have to tell him such negative things about his dad? I am very open to him and tell him everything. If he wants to go out and find him when he is 18 he can, then he will know the truth about him. His father needs to own up to his responsibilities he left behind and if I can help in anyway to make him pay to help raise his son I will. But thanks for your thoughts.

Sparks wrote:

Monzie, you have spent 7 years watching someone who left you while putting your child through it all. I'm sorry he left and does not care about you or his child, but it's time to move on. Why in the world would you track down and spy on him to the point of knowing when he buys furniture. It seems that you are having contact with him and that you are still doing things for him like paying his bail. Do you honestly think that if you bail him out of jail he'll see the light? It's not right for what he is doing, but you will never get the money he owes you if you never let him pay for his mistakes.

Seems like SHE cant let him go. This is the type of woman who goes to court for an order of protection and then allows the guy back in the home.

Wouldn't you all agree that a man who helped bring a child into this world should help raise that child? I do not give a damn about this man and haven't for about 10 years! Haven't even seen him for as many. Thank the Lord. He is an ass! I am with a wonderful man who has accepted the fact I have other children. Unlike the ex who's wife could NOT handle it and that is why he left. Who in their right mind would pick a woman over their own son is mind boggling. The only thing I wish for is for my son's father is to grow up and be a MAN for once!

monzie wrote:

Wouldn't you all agree that a man who helped bring a child into this world should help raise that child? I do not give a damn about this man and haven't for about 10 years! Haven't even seen him for as many. Thank the Lord. He is an ass! I am with a wonderful man who has accepted the fact I have other children. Unlike the ex who's wife could NOT handle it and that is why he left. Who in their right mind would pick a woman over their own son is mind boggling. The only thing I wish for is for my son's father is to grow up and be a MAN for once!

Be very grateful that your new husband is so accepting of your children, he is a special person. Did you ever dicusses with him your need to keep your ex in your life? If you have a financially stable home why not let it go. Your sons development is crucial here, not your ego! If your present husband is a good father he could sit down one-on-one with your son and talk about his feelings. He will need to hear that he is special to many people in his life, and that needs to come from the most important adult male in his life, your husband. Keep your son far away from any mental health professional, especially if any are assigned to his school. Once that is started you can count on him being medicated which leads to bigger problems.