Family Court System is a Crock

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educated wrote:

The only time Family Court works for Child Support is when the absentee parent lives in NYS, has a steady job, and his wages can be attached to pay the Court Ordered Child Support.
Any diviation from this, Family Court can not and will not do a damn thing to enforce Child Support payments. I know of a case where the father moved to Arizonia and works under the table off the books making very good money. He has avoided making child support payments now for the past 21 years for TWO children!!!!
ALL women raising up children on their own should realize that it will end up where she will be the responsible one to support her children as no one can depend upon Family Court to help her.

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Melissa wrote:

Leon is not an option. I am a woman and do not agree that this is a man/woman thing. This is a system that derives a benefit for it's dysfunctional continuation.
How many judges are there in Oneida County that are tied to this system?
How many administrators?
How many CPS people? What is their budget?
How many police dedicated to Family Court?
How many lawyers?
How many families?
How much $$ is spent by "clients" each month/year to go through the system?
Who are the agencies that people are referred to? Where does their funding come from?
This cost to society has to be huge! There has to be a better way than this corrupt system?
Who is exposing this stuff beyond TOPIX,,,which goes nowhere?

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EVERY POLLACK IN NY wrote:

lEON kOZIOL CANT EVEN PAY HIS CHILDREN'S SUPPORT PAYMENTS. EVER NOTICE THE STUPIDEST PERSON IS HIS OWN ATTORNEY? hE THINKS HIS SHIT DOESNT STINK....BUT WE ALL KNOW FULL OF SHIT HE IS. LMAO
. nOW HE THINKS HES A MOVIE STAR POSTING HIS STUPID GAY RANTINGS ON YOU TUBE. WHAT AN AZZHOLE, EVER NOTICE THE REAL KOOKS FROM UTICA THINK THEY ARE SMARTER THAN YOU, CAN'T WORK A REAL JOB..KNOW EVERYTHING THERE IS ABOUT JERKING OFF THEGAY PARTNER. hE THINKS HIS GF IS A SHE MALE SO THAT MAKES HE/SHE WORTH MARRYING. i DONT ADVISE YOU TO MARRY THIS FAG, HE WONT SUPPORT YOU AFTER HE KNOCKS YOU UP, LORD KNOW THIS...SO DO ALL THE PEOPLE OF ONEIDA COUNTY! Will somebody run this turd burgalor out of town...PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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educated wrote:

The only time Family Court works for Child Support is when the absentee parent lives in NYS, has a steady job, and his wages can be attached to pay the Court Ordered Child Support.
Any diviation from this, Family Court can not and will not do a damn thing to enforce Child Support payments. I know of a case where the father moved to Arizonia and works under the table off the books making very good money. He has avoided making child support payments now for the past 21 years for TWO children!!!!
ALL women raising up children on their own should realize that it will end up where she will be the responsible one to support her children as no one can depend upon Family Court to help her.

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its stupid wrote:

<quoted text>You should be more worried about your children not knowing their father. YOu sound like my mother complaining to me about not getting enough money for me from my dad.

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Why do you think your mother wanted money from your father in the first place? It wasn't selfishness. It was to put a roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food on the table. Why should the mother be left with the sole burden of providing for the children when it should be an equal thing? I am sorry to say it but if a man refuses to help support his child it shows a lack of caring on his part. Did your mother refuse to support you but want to be in your life anyway? Where would you be then? If your mother was complaining it was probably because of how hard it was to provide for you needs and wants all on her own without help. I don't think that society should have to pick up the slack on fathers that don't want to take care of their responsibilities in the form of food stamps, etc. Not saying your mother had to accept help, but it happens a lot. If your father went to jail then you can be sure it was because he had a way to provide for you and just refused to do it. The only reason for that would be out of spite to make your mother's life harder (and that is truly selfish and mean) or because he didn't care enough about you to sacrifice what he wanted to do for himself with the money. Real parents(like your mother) do what it takes and make sacrifices for their children's well being and happiness. I hope this was a fake post because it is really sad that any child would make excuses and feel sorry for a father that refused to take care of them when he was well able and gave their mother (that did take care of them) such a hard time.

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Hoo Boy wrote:

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That non supporting parent will be totaly screwed when it comes time to collect social security. He will live in poverty in his retirement years. What goes around comes around.

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its stupid wrote:

<quoted text>You should be more worried about your children not knowing their father. YOu sound like my mother complaining to me about not getting enough money for me from my dad.

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its stupid wrote:

<quoted text>You don’t know what you’re talking about. My mother and father had two or three court battles over me, my father won the first and my mother won second or second two, not sure. I love both my parents so I will NEVER see it the way you do. If I lived with my dad I would love my mom the same, Idc if she gave my dad a dollar (according them both she didn’t when I was young living with my dad)  Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom for everything she did for me but she is my mom. And I know she wanted me dearly because she fought for me in court. That doesn’t change how I feel about my dad. Maybe he’s making up for lost time, but as an adult I can count on my dad for anything and he is the first person I call when I have a need. I got 2 brothers that I now know but I never knew growing up because of the rift the money caused. Yes, I would’ve wanted the extra money in the house but it wasn’t worth the problems. I still got a car as a teenager while my brothers living with my dad walked to school. I guess we all see what we want. I know I am not alone. Most of my friends who had similar life experiences feel the same way. Every one of us will choose a parent over money. I now have 2 and no amount of money in the world could make me happier. Even my mother is softening her position now that she’s aged a little. I hope you do too because it’s supposed to be about the children not your lifestyle or struggles. If you’re like my mom you fought for the right to have those struggles. I’m glad she did, but live life afterward and be thankful for what we have. My words would be unchanged if it were my dad. I’m not stupid for thinking different than you. I would say you’re stupid for letting money affect your happiness. The happiness of material things don’t last long and most of these single mothers need to hear that message. The energy spent trying to obtain funds should be spent ensuring a child has a father in their life because if they’re anything like me it means so much more than money.