A message to ladies that get cheated on

Ladies,

As a man, I can tell you we are sexual beings. While you're busy wondering how your emotional needs are going to be fulfilled, We're busy wondering when our sexual urge, desire, and physical need for sex will be fulfilled. I'm not putting your needs down, that's how you were created. I am telling you that us guys don't have that emotional need that you have, we have a very strong sexual desire that has to be met. Sexual desire for a man is just as important as your emotional desire. We cheat because we're basically animals, when you stop putting out and coming up with excuses not to have sex, we still have that physical need and desire that has to be fulfilled. Although we do love you, that love takes a back seat to our manhood and urge to be with a woman sexually and regularly. It's kind of like this, when you stop putting out, we stop putting up with you and get the wandering eye. The old saying that men usually think with the smaller head is very true, we prove that on a daily bases, that's probably how the saying was born. So it's like this ladies, we love you, we adore you, we cherish you, but we need you sexually all the time, not part time. You ladies are always saying you want us to understand you better, now I hope you understand us better!!

You sound like a creep.

I screw my significant other i never say no to him

To all you prickless chumps that cheat on their women:
Our sexual needs are stronger than yours. The reason we don't have sex with you when you want is because you've become totally unappealing to us. Not just in the Physical sense, even though you don't exercise, don't give a damn about yourself , and don't want anything more in life but what you have at the moment. All those times we asked you to help us clean the cellar out or do something with all your crap in the garage so maybe we can park our car in there too. Maybe say something kind to us, or do something special without telling the whole world. Take us to something that we like for a change.
When you don't follow through with anything big and small we keep a tally. As that tally grows we find you less and less attractive. You think it's little stuff, but since you seem to know us so well, maybe you can figure out that that we ask you to do those things to see what your reaction is, and how you respond and engage us.
If you were a better man to your wives and father to your children we would jump on you every chance we could. Instead you sit on your lazy butts, and scratch yourself, while being oblivious to the disappointment on our faces from empty promises and complete selfishness.
You go and cheat, we know you're doing it. What you don't know is we arent steppford wives. We have been imagining life without you. Sometimes alone, and this one will kill you, with the one guy that you hate. The man that is everything you aren't and more. In our minds, we've already packed our bags, and it may be tomorrow or a year from now but were leaving you and it's going to kill you. Think about that when you're in another bed tonight while we are keeping up a very good appearance- Your Wife

Lots of typos but the gals will get my drift. Back to work :)

The way it isnt wrote:

To all you prickless chumps that cheat on their women:
Our sexual needs are stronger than yours. The reason we don't have sex with you when you want is because you've become totally unappealing to us. Not just in the Physical sense, even though you don't exercise, don't give a damn about yourself , and don't want anything more in life but what you have at the moment. All those times we asked you to help us clean the cellar out or do something with all your crap in the garage so maybe we can park our car in there too. Maybe say something kind to us, or do something special without telling the whole world. Take us to something that we like for a change.
When you don't follow through with anything big and small we keep a tally. As that tally grows we find you less and less attractive. You think it's little stuff, but since you seem to know us so well, maybe you can figure out that that we ask you to do those things to see what your reaction is, and how you respond and engage us.
If you were a better man to your wives and father to your children we would jump on you every chance we could. Instead you sit on your lazy butts, and scratch yourself, while being oblivious to the disappointment on our faces from empty promises and complete selfishness.
You go and cheat, we know you're doing it. What you don't know is we arent steppford wives. We have been imagining life without you. Sometimes alone, and this one will kill you, with the one guy that you hate. The man that is everything you aren't and more. In our minds, we've already packed our bags, and it may be tomorrow or a year from now but were leaving you and it's going to kill you. Think about that when you're in another bed tonight while we are keeping up a very good appearance- Your Wife

Thank you for verifying everything I said in my post, your needs and emotional support. When you don't feel that happening, you close your legs like it's some kind of punishment, well guess what, it is!!! That's why we're in the other bed. We do, do things, we just don't want to be nagged to death about it! Everything doesn't have to revolve around your schedule. We're guys, we don't have a problem putting things off till tomorrow or next week or next month. You sometimes play to many games and hold back sex, well that's a game us guys don't put up with very long. Again, that's why we're in the other bed.

Youre missing her point . She's nagging to be engaged. To talk. She doesn't want you to go anywhere. Communication my man. Whatever your looking for in another woman is right in front of you. So simple

The way it isnt wrote:

To all you prickless chumps that cheat on their women:
Our sexual needs are stronger than yours. The reason we don't have sex with you when you want is because you've become totally unappealing to us. Not just in the Physical sense, even though you don't exercise, don't give a damn about yourself , and don't want anything more in life but what you have at the moment. All those times we asked you to help us clean the cellar out or do something with all your crap in the garage so maybe we can park our car in there too. Maybe say something kind to us, or do something special without telling the whole world. Take us to something that we like for a change.
When you don't follow through with anything big and small we keep a tally. As that tally grows we find you less and less attractive. You think it's little stuff, but since you seem to know us so well, maybe you can figure out that that we ask you to do those things to see what your reaction is, and how you respond and engage us.
If you were a better man to your wives and father to your children we would jump on you every chance we could. Instead you sit on your lazy butts, and scratch yourself, while being oblivious to the disappointment on our faces from empty promises and complete selfishness.
You go and cheat, we know you're doing it. What you don't know is we arent steppford wives. We have been imagining life without you. Sometimes alone, and this one will kill you, with the one guy that you hate. The man that is everything you aren't and more. In our minds, we've already packed our bags, and it may be tomorrow or a year from now but were leaving you and it's going to kill you. Think about that when you're in another bed tonight while we are keeping up a very good appearance- Your Wife

I think I love you!

(tr)eat your woman right

Dude Abides wrote:

Youre missing her point . She's nagging to be engaged. To talk. She doesn't want you to go anywhere. Communication my man. Whatever your looking for in another woman is right in front of you. So simple

Why go find some other woman Woman are all the same just come in diffent sizes

women are just objects

The way it isnt wrote:

To all you prickless chumps that cheat on their women:
Our sexual needs are stronger than yours. The reason we don't have sex with you when you want is because you've become totally unappealing to us. Not just in the Physical sense, even though you don't exercise, don't give a damn about yourself , and don't want anything more in life but what you have at the moment. All those times we asked you to help us clean the cellar out or do something with all your crap in the garage so maybe we can park our car in there too. Maybe say something kind to us, or do something special without telling the whole world. Take us to something that we like for a change.
When you don't follow through with anything big and small we keep a tally. As that tally grows we find you less and less attractive. You think it's little stuff, but since you seem to know us so well, maybe you can figure out that that we ask you to do those things to see what your reaction is, and how you respond and engage us.
If you were a better man to your wives and father to your children we would jump on you every chance we could. Instead you sit on your lazy butts, and scratch yourself, while being oblivious to the disappointment on our faces from empty promises and complete selfishness.
You go and cheat, we know you're doing it. What you don't know is we arent steppford wives. We have been imagining life without you. Sometimes alone, and this one will kill you, with the one guy that you hate. The man that is everything you aren't and more. In our minds, we've already packed our bags, and it may be tomorrow or a year from now but were leaving you and it's going to kill you. Think about that when you're in another bed tonight while we are keeping up a very good appearance- Your Wife

Absolutely brilliant.

WaitaMinute wrote:

<quoted text>Absolutely brilliant.

Not brilliant, an observation. just pieces of conversations that I've heard through out the years. I'm the other man. The one their wives flirt with. The one all you guys hate. Successful, ambitious, goofy.

"YES" sorry to disappoint you buddy, but I only like women. Especially the funny idependent beautiful ones, and ladies, you're all beautiful. Enjoy this great weather everyone.

Listen, it's a two way street guys. Take the time to understand a woman's emotional needs and you will feel like you died and went to heaven. Most of you Neanderthals haven't figured this out yet. Instead, it's always your wives and girlfriends that come looking for me to give them attention. In return, I have a full rotation of women for just about every night of the week. You call them nuts, but let me tell you something, I'm bagging some hot ones. I have become good friends with so many that I've developed an endless supply. So, here's the key if you want unlimited sex, take the time to explore her emotional side and embrace it. Focus on pleasuring her for a change instead of just blowing your load. Give her the most incredible and submissive oral sex that she has ever had. I'm not suggesting that you should give up your masculinity as a men, but show your feminine side every now and then in the bedroom and you will be loving life. Best of all, you don't have to be in top notch physical shape if you can make her laugh and smile. Just pay attention for a change and shut the sports off. Light a few candles. Give her a card in bed. Buy her a pretty rose from the convenient store. Do something different if you really want to make her come alive. No doubt men are often more sexual, but stop thinking about your needs and pay attention to hers first. You won't regret this advice. Also, teach your son's this. I believe this valuable information could save alot of marriages today. Enjoy!

The way it isnt wrote:

To all you prickless chumps that cheat on their women:
Our sexual needs are stronger than yours. The reason we don't have sex with you when you want is because you've become totally unappealing to us. Not just in the Physical sense, even though you don't exercise, don't give a damn about yourself , and don't want anything more in life but what you have at the moment. All those times we asked you to help us clean the cellar out or do something with all your crap in the garage so maybe we can park our car in there too. Maybe say something kind to us, or do something special without telling the whole world. Take us to something that we like for a change.
When you don't follow through with anything big and small we keep a tally. As that tally grows we find you less and less attractive. You think it's little stuff, but since you seem to know us so well, maybe you can figure out that that we ask you to do those things to see what your reaction is, and how you respond and engage us.
If you were a better man to your wives and father to your children we would jump on you every chance we could. Instead you sit on your lazy butts, and scratch yourself, while being oblivious to the disappointment on our faces from empty promises and complete selfishness.
You go and cheat, we know you're doing it. What you don't know is we arent steppford wives. We have been imagining life without you. Sometimes alone, and this one will kill you, with the one guy that you hate. The man that is everything you aren't and more. In our minds, we've already packed our bags, and it may be tomorrow or a year from now but were leaving you and it's going to kill you. Think about that when you're in another bed tonight while we are keeping up a very good appearance- Your Wife

Priceless!!!!

Dude Abides wrote:

Youre missing her point . She's nagging to be engaged. To talk. She doesn't want you to go anywhere. Communication my man. Whatever your looking for in another woman is right in front of you. So simple

Priceless!!!

endless supply wrote:

Listen, it's a two way street guys. Take the time to understand a woman's emotional needs and you will feel like you died and went to heaven. Most of you Neanderthals haven't figured this out yet. Instead, it's always your wives and girlfriends that come looking for me to give them attention. In return, I have a full rotation of women for just about every night of the week. You call them nuts, but let me tell you something, I'm bagging some hot ones. I have become good friends with so many that I've developed an endless supply. So, here's the key if you want unlimited sex, take the time to explore her emotional side and embrace it. Focus on pleasuring her for a change instead of just blowing your load. Give her the most incredible and submissive oral sex that she has ever had. I'm not suggesting that you should give up your masculinity as a men, but show your feminine side every now and then in the bedroom and you will be loving life. Best of all, you don't have to be in top notch physical shape if you can make her laugh and smile. Just pay attention for a change and shut the sports off. Light a few candles. Give her a card in bed. Buy her a pretty rose from the convenient store. Do something different if you really want to make her come alive. No doubt men are often more sexual, but stop thinking about your needs and pay attention to hers first. You won't regret this advice. Also, teach your son's this. I believe this valuable information could save alot of marriages today. Enjoy!

Does your arm hurt from patting yourself on the back?

Single Prof Female wrote:

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Does your arm hurt from patting yourself on the back?

What is there in that post that irks you? I'm thinking you lack these qualities; or you are selfish and only care about your "needs" its only when you put the icing on the cake that you get the full dessert!

Single Prof Female wrote:

<quoted text>Does your arm hurt from patting yourself on the back?

Unless you just hate men in general, stop ruining it for all the real men and women who strive for equal satisfaction. Needs are a two way street but common ground can be achieved if two people take the time to respect each others wants and desires. If I can help save one couple, how bad is that? Perhaps you should try the real thing for once and give up your plastic alternative. But then again, you're just as selfish as the men you criticize. You have to give something up to move forward. That's just how it works.

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