Wife cheating on me while deployed.

So, I'm originally from Tipp, as is my wife. She still lives there, while I am in Baghdad serving our country. My parents caught her cheating in my apartment (on walnut) tonight, on the brand new bed I just bought her with her ex boyfriend, TOMMY, from Pleasant Hill. She's taken over 9.5K dollars in the last month, and might be pregnant come to find out. Just a heads up. Tiffany Bowlin Hardin Long (gee, should have taken a hint when her first military marriage didn't work) is a lying, cheating theif.

Sorry to hear this. Obviously we don't know each other, but I've been in your position. I will pray for this to be resolved. There are plenty of good and honest women out there.

Let me tell ya brother, I know what it's like. These girls nowdays just are not the same as the women who waited while our grandfathers fought the Japanese or Germans.

It's been this way for a long time, the clubs around the bases fill up every time a unit pulls out.

I just after 30 years of service to my beloved Marine Corps. I was married to a woman 9 years my junior for 18 years, and we have 3 children who are now 18, 16, and 10.

She was with me 18 of the 30, and is getting nearly 3k/month of my retirement, plus 25% of my earned income.

All of this for a woman who had a "crisis" on me with some hot shot real estate guy while I was serving my country, and dealing with the stress of having literally thousands of lives in my hands on a dailey basis!

As if it wasn't tragic enough, she never really kept the spark alive between me and my kids. My letters were seldom answered, phone calls not picked up...

I got home and found my kid's weren't even all that interested in me anymore. I've been deployed for 1/2 of my youngest daughters life, and the teenagers are pretty caught up in themselves.

All I can tell you is BE PATIENT, and continue on with your life doing the right thing. As for myself, I took a job overseas, my pay is sheltered from all taxes, and the prying eyes of any U.S. Court, so she get's NOTHING from a $350k/year salary. I hold a high level management position for a company that contracts with the DOD.

I'm a 48 year old man, but I've spent my life staying in top shape, always piled on the sunscreen, and can hold my own with men 10 years my junior. So now, I'VE FOUND A WOMAN 20 YEARS MY JUNIOR! who is a pediatrician! She also serves this country, providing medical care to Iraqi children. We both came home for a few months together.

As for my ex... the hot shot real estate guy went broke. They are packed into a 2 bedroom apartment, essentially living on my pension. Of course, she ditched him when the well went dry, serves him right for having the balls to get involved with a married woman whose husband is serving our nation!

I do provide for my oldest daughter's college education, and she lives comfortably in a small apartment, and we have begun to reconcile. She does not blame me a bit for what I did. The 16 year old is trouble/in trouble, and my little girl, well, I'm working on that, and hope one day that she will choose to come and live with me.

WOW!~ I am a wife of a deployed soldier...ANd can I say that not all of us are like her!!! Some wifes of soldiers are very devoted to their husbands....I AM ONE OF THEM!! I cant imagine what you are feeling in this situation! She aint even worthy of being called a woman!! I know TOMMY from pleasant hill. I know how he goes from woman to woman and uses them for EVERYTHING!! He is a mooch and a scavenger. To sum it all up, piece of shit! So dont feel bad, you actually got the better end of the deal!!

Reading this and all......for a fact this isn't a surprise and the truth is that there are great wives out there.
Well i am a Guy and i will be getting married to a US Army Captain in a few months (August) and i don't know i don't see much about men dealing or talking with their Deployed spouse i don't know if its the fear of long distance relationship but i Love my Fiance to death and i have been patiently waiting for her to get home which will be in a few week, its not easy trust me for either of us but when you make God the center of your relationship everything falls right into place and i mean all the spouse at home remember its not easy being out there i don't even want to imagine what its like it cant be good so be patient and understanding and stay Firm....

I am a wife and my husband is deployed. I must say, as well, I am more than faithful. I answer every phone call, letter, and email. Send packages weekly. I think that this is an unfortunate situation but this is not how all women are. I found out my husband was cheating on me the day after he deployed and even still I remained true to the vows we made before God. We talked about the matter and I have forgiven him and I know that things will work out in the end. Put God first and forgive her. I'm not saying stay with her but you will feel much better if you forgive her. Be blessed and know that you will find a great woman to hold you down.

man...i am a deployed soldier and i look up these kinds of things because im going through the situation as i wright. my wife used to tell me everything i wanted to hear before i left,made me think she was the most loyal wife for any husband.and not even 5 month into it she admitted to seeing someone new.i dont know what to think of it i leave for my r&r in a couple days and she wont let me come home.its the weak of our 1st year anniversary too. i just dont understand how low this guy shes seeing is...is it better to leave her alone? will she come running back later on?

im sick of this bs! not all us military wives cheat on our marines while deployed! im tired of being branded for others mistakes. ive never once cheated on my husband.

Brandon?
Give me a call... I still have the same cell number from SoCal... I'm still in Texas going to school...
Charles...

The Doc wrote:

So, I'm originally from Tipp, as is my wife. She still lives there, while I am in Baghdad serving our country. My parents caught her cheating in my apartment (on walnut) tonight, on the brand new bed I just bought her with her ex boyfriend, TOMMY, from Pleasant Hill. She's taken over 9.5K dollars in the last month, and might be pregnant come to find out. Just a heads up. Tiffany Bowlin Hardin Long (gee, should have taken a hint when her first military marriage didn't work) is a lying, cheating theif.

Jody never sleeps, my friend.

truewoman wrote:

I am a wife and my husband is deployed. I must say, as well, I am more than faithful. I answer every phone call, letter, and email. Send packages weekly. I think that this is an unfortunate situation but this is not how all women are. I found out my husband was cheating on me the day after he deployed and even still I remained true to the vows we made before God. We talked about the matter and I have forgiven him and I know that things will work out in the end. Put God first and forgive her. I'm not saying stay with her but you will feel much better if you forgive her. Be blessed and know that you will find a great woman to hold you down.

90% of the wives are good people. Rednecks are rednecks. I believe you call then briars up there.

Semper Fi wrote:

Let me tell ya brother, I know what it's like. These girls nowdays just are not the same as the women who waited while our grandfathers fought the Japanese or Germans.
It's been this way for a long time, the clubs around the bases fill up every time a unit pulls out.
I just after 30 years of service to my beloved Marine Corps. I was married to a woman 9 years my junior for 18 years, and we have 3 children who are now 18, 16, and 10.
She was with me 18 of the 30, and is getting nearly 3k/month of my retirement, plus 25% of my earned income.
All of this for a woman who had a "crisis" on me with some hot shot real estate guy while I was serving my country, and dealing with the stress of having literally thousands of lives in my hands on a dailey basis!
As if it wasn't tragic enough, she never really kept the spark alive between me and my kids. My letters were seldom answered, phone calls not picked up...
I got home and found my kid's weren't even all that interested in me anymore. I've been deployed for 1/2 of my youngest daughters life, and the teenagers are pretty caught up in themselves.
All I can tell you is BE PATIENT, and continue on with your life doing the right thing. As for myself, I took a job overseas, my pay is sheltered from all taxes, and the prying eyes of any U.S. Court, so she get's NOTHING from a $350k/year salary. I hold a high level management position for a company that contracts with the DOD.
I'm a 48 year old man, but I've spent my life staying in top shape, always piled on the sunscreen, and can hold my own with men 10 years my junior. So now, I'VE FOUND A WOMAN 20 YEARS MY JUNIOR! who is a pediatrician! She also serves this country, providing medical care to Iraqi children. We both came home for a few months together.
As for my ex... the hot shot real estate guy went broke. They are packed into a 2 bedroom apartment, essentially living on my pension. Of course, she ditched him when the well went dry, serves him right for having the balls to get involved with a married woman whose husband is serving our nation!
I do provide for my oldest daughter's college education, and she lives comfortably in a small apartment, and we have begun to reconcile. She does not blame me a bit for what I did. The 16 year old is trouble/in trouble, and my little girl, well, I'm working on that, and hope one day that she will choose to come and live with me.

Suck it up and reconnect with your kids. They're young, probably gonnabe OK when they grow up. Good advice: pick an older woman, the one you're with will be leaving anytime soon for a younger man. Viagra only prolongs the agony. Thanks for your service. It aint easy anymore.