Laguna Hills High School

kayleigh wrote:

ATTN JASHA'S CLOSE FRIENDS
TOMORROW NIGHT (Mothers Day):
We're getting together at the trees to have a little candlelight/moment of silence for Jasha as it will be Cosibellas first mothers day without her son. Please brings candles that you can take home or leave for us to bring home for other gatherings because the neighbors will complain if anything is left overnight. My brother, myself and Ela are heading up there around 8, so we'll see you all then.

Dearest Kayleigh ~
What a beautiful thought for Jasha's mum. I am sure ALL will be respectful of the neighborhood.

Cosibella could certainly use a boost, a positive reinforcement that she is a wonderful mother to Jasha, Ela and Ariel. Some out their in the blog world have posted their opinions about Cosibella as a mother. I would ask… have any of you, that are posting these hurtful words, ever lost a child? How about a sibling? Until you do, you have NO room to speak. As the pain is so unbearable you can hardly breath. This statement comes from a very personal place. With that said, do you truly believe that this mother would allow one of her children to be in harms way. I think not, I know not.

Where for god sakes is your compassion. Some profess to be Christians but their words are not that of Jesus Christ, merely their own agenda. For my lord and savior is a forgiving man.

Again I employ each of you to keep your eye on the ball and not be distracted or respond to idle hear say, non fact, get your goat conversation. It serves no purpose but to get the back of your neck hair raised.(Which on the other hand can be good because then you need to groom it).

I wish each of you well.

With love for Jasha, his Mum, sisters and family

My thoughts and prayers go out to Cosibella now more than ever. As a mom, I cannot fathom the pain she is going through, especially on Mother's Day.

Please, Christian Mom, this is not the time to criticize Cosibella. Unless you have walked in her shoes, you have no right to opine in such a derrogative way.

There is only one person that we should be critical of and that is Louis. Cosibella and her children are victims. Now more than ever we need to show those three love and support. I'm sure in due time Cosibella will come around, but you cannot come on here and blast her as you have been; it is not helping. Yes, I know, you spoke of "tough love" and I am a huge proponent of that, but this is not a situation where "tough love" is going to help.

kayleigh wrote:

ATTN JASHA'S CLOSE FRIENDS
TOMORROW NIGHT (Mothers Day):
We're getting together at the trees to have a little candlelight/moment of silence for Jasha as it will be Cosibellas first mothers day without her son. Please brings candles that you can take home or leave for us to bring home for other gatherings because the neighbors will complain if anything is left overnight. My brother, myself and Ela are heading up there around 8, so we'll see you all then.

Kayleigh, You are truly an Angel and such a blessing to have in the world! Thank you for being who you are. This will, indeed, be a very difficult time for Cosibella and your support for her and the girls says so much.

JNC wrote:

My thoughts and prayers go out to Cosibella now more than ever. As a mom, I cannot fathom the pain she is going through, especially on Mother's Day.
Please, Christian Mom, this is not the time to criticize Cosibella. Unless you have walked in her shoes, you have no right to opine in such a derrogative way.
There is only one person that we should be critical of and that is Louis. Cosibella and her children are victims. Now more than ever we need to show those three love and support. I'm sure in due time Cosibella will come around, but you cannot come on here and blast her as you have been; it is not helping. Yes, I know, you spoke of "tough love" and I am a huge proponent of that, but this is not a situation where "tough love" is going to help.

Very well said. Thank you!

I know other parents who knew Jasha too and they were saying it is not just Louix but the Mother's fault-Cosibella that this happened. They thought it before I even did. Right after it happened they were already saying it was the mother too. That she needed to be watching out for him more.

In some ways I think she is even worse than him for subjecting her kids to that insanity.

I kept going back and forth: do I feel bad and sorry for her and then I would think: man she really was not tuned in to Jasha and for her to go along with Louix and I just can't buy that.

I think before I talk and everything I said I'm glad I said it.

I don't hide behind a phony face and act happy like Louix when it is not. I don't laugh like Louix and Cosibella were when they should have been crying-that is just not right. I am upfront and honest not secretive like Louix is with those disciples.

The SECRETS are what PROPAGATE these problems.

There times to keep quiet and times when you need to really be communicating and talking a lot.

This is a time when I think the community needs to be talking. This guy is doing evil stuff and Cosibella is backing him up and that doesn't make her a "victim".

Jasha had many friends. One of the most popular kids at the High School. A great kid like that can't just be forgotten like nothing happened like it was "no big deal" as it appears Louix wants it to be.

I don't always agree with what Christian Mom says, however, I do agree that is the Mom's fault as much as Louix's.

It it the responsibility of the parent to protect the child and make sure they are kept safe. I am sure that Cosibella is suffering greatly, however, she subjected him to the lifestyle of Louix and made the choice to follow...NOT Jasha. Her son's demise, whether he was murdered by Louix, or took his own life because of Louix, was due to her choice to follow Louix.

Unfortunately for her, it was a high price to pay for her choices.

JNC wrote:

My thoughts and prayers go out to Cosibella now more than ever. As a mom, I cannot fathom the pain she is going through, especially on Mother's Day.
Please, Christian Mom, this is not the time to criticize Cosibella. Unless you have walked in her shoes, you have no right to opine in such a derrogative way.
There is only one person that we should be critical of and that is Louis. Cosibella and her children are victims. Now more than ever we need to show those three love and support. I'm sure in due time Cosibella will come around, but you cannot come on here and blast her as you have been; it is not helping. Yes, I know, you spoke of "tough love" and I am a huge proponent of that, but this is not a situation where "tough love" is going to help.

Supporting her has not helped her to get out. When something doesn't work you try something else. Making it more comfortable for her doesn't appear to be helping. Being too nice appears to be making the situation worse and making her and Louis think what they are doing is okay.

I know Cosibella seems like a really nice person but you forget that she is involved with very twisted and dangerous cult. In supporting her you are supporting that cult.

In the long run the more loving thing to her is to not support that.

Instead of just "making her feel good" now we need to think about the long run.

This is part of the problem.

You are feeling sorry for a cult leader-she is part of it.

CHRISTIAN MON: Giving Cosibella a hug and letting her know that we feel her lose and some of us can relate to this as it has happened in our family. So we know the deep pain she is feeling. Even though I do not agree with her choice of life style, blaming her for all that has happened will not bring Jasha back.

Remember CHRISTIAN MOM what goes around comes around. So get ready.

"christian mom" i think that it is stupid for you to even try and point fingers at cosibella. obviously you werent at the memorial service for jasha where cosibella couldnt stop crying out for jasha in pain. she lost her son. i think that you shouldnt state your negative opinon about the mother who brought beautiful jasha into this world.

So you like having a cult right on your own street?

You aren't part of the cult are you?

I think some of your neighbors do not like having that cult on your street.

Did you know that Jasha did not like that cult either?

Did you know that Cosibella was supportive of that cult?

How old are you? Does your mom know your on a forum?

Do you even know what a cult is and how very dangerous it can be?

March wrote:

"christian mom" i think that it is stupid for you to even try and point fingers at cosibella. obviously you werent at the memorial service for jasha where cosibella couldnt stop crying out for jasha in pain. she lost her son. i think that you shouldnt state your negative opinon about the mother who brought beautiful jasha into this world.

I didn't at the beginning until I realized she was not quite as brainwashed as a lot of you think. I think she is just about as bad as Louix.

Yes, Jasha was great.

kayleigh wrote:

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hahahahahahhahahahahahahahahah hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahah you're RETARDED.
how about you show your face on our street and see the reaction you get.

So you like having a cult on your street?

A lot of the neighbors do not like having a cult there.

Cosibella is involved in the cult and Jasha hated it. Did you like Jasha?

How old are you and does your mom know you're on a forum and is that okay with her?

CHRISTIAN MOM for your information in case you didn't know this as you seem to be VERY NARROW minded. You cannot pick and choose your neighbors.

Christian Mom--

is your real life name Mary Henderson? are you the one harassing Ela by e-mailing her constantly and asking her out of line questions?

Christian Mom wrote:

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So you like having a cult on your street?
A lot of the neighbors do not like having a cult there.
Cosibella is involved in the cult and Jasha hated it. Did you like Jasha?
How old are you and does your mom know you're on a forum and is that okay with her?

Do i like Jasha? Weird how you ask because he was always at my house as my brother and him have been best friends since the day he moved here from AUS. Funny how you know 'so much' about our street. Only if you knew the things that were really going on. I am a grown adult, and don't need permission from anybody. I stand up for what I believe in and I believe you're an immoral Christian who doesn't stand in the light of my lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Who are you to judge the life anybody lives? God has taught me to accept everybody for who they are. Why don't you show your face and we can talk like mature adults.

CHRISTIAN MOM prefers to post her opinions and fuel a fire. If she was intent on giving Cosibella a piece of her mind she would have shown up at the scheduled gathering on Sunday evening. No she prefers just to sit at her computer where she is unknown to all. Like a sore that festers it is not healthy to be all consumed by something that you have no control over.

kayleigh wrote:

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Do i like Jasha? Weird how you ask because he was always at my house as my brother and him have been best friends since the day he moved here from AUS. Funny how you know 'so much' about our street. Only if you knew the things that were really going on. I am a grown adult, and don't need permission from anybody. I stand up for what I believe in and I believe you're an immoral Christian who doesn't stand in the light of my lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Who are you to judge the life anybody lives? God has taught me to accept everybody for who they are. Why don't you show your face and we can talk like mature adults.

Wow, you don't seem like an adult.

I judge no one but if there is something evil going on like a cult that effects kids I know I have to step up especially if a child died from that house. It looks unsafe. I believe that is what God would think is right. Discern what is right and wrong for the kids

I know a lot of the kids that knew Jasha. None of them think Louis is right and Cosibella is going along with his weird stuff. Have you read his websites? Do you think they are okay? I don't.

Read them if you haven't already and see what your living next to.

How many on your street think that cult is okay? I would not want it on my street.

Did you know that Louis has a very immoral past? you feel like it was right for your brother to go over and play at a house where the step-dad was bisexual, had drug involvement and did porn movies? I don't think that is where kids should be.

How many people on your street like having that cult there?

Who is your brother? We might know him.

Are you in the cult too?

Lurker wrote:

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I hope that you never experience the loss of a child, you have no idea how deep the grief is for a mother. Cosibella is most likely in a great deal of pain and constant posts belittling her only benefits you, as I assume you feel so much better every time you post your high and mighty better than all attitude.

It only supports Louix in his evil by supporting her now.

We need some high and mighty to overcome the "Louix-monster." he has quite the over-sized ego.

Yes, I know she and Ela are pain. And a lot of other people.

you have yet to answer my question... are you mary henderson??

CHRISTIAN MOM hope you are sitting down when you read my post as I don't want you to hurt yourself if you faint. Here goes all 23 houses on the block belong to Louie's cult. All one big HAPPY family.