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Since: Oct 11

Sparta, TN

#1 Apr 23, 2012
Ok, so there is this woman who I am really attracted to. She is very nice and we can have conversation. Her Facebook profile lists her status as "it complicated" but her husband lives at the house. she once told me that he was there to help with the kids because she works at night. She meets me for a drink and some chat sometime on her way to work and we have got together several times for more intimate times. I just found out that her husband doesn't know she is seeing me. She says it is because he is having health issues and she don't want to aggravate those issues right now. Am I a fool for believing her and should I just walk away while I still can?
unknown

Sparta, TN

#2 Apr 23, 2012
Dude, she is totally playing you. I'm a woman and that whole excuse sounds weak to me. Your being played like a fool. Walk away now while you still have your pride. She is essentially cheating on her husband with you, just imagine who she is cheating on you with....
Sparta

Mcminnville, TN

#3 Apr 23, 2012
Max Stevens wrote:
Ok, so there is this woman who I am really attracted to. She is very nice and we can have conversation. Her Facebook profile lists her status as "it complicated" but her husband lives at the house. she once told me that he was there to help with the kids because she works at night. She meets me for a drink and some chat sometime on her way to work and we have got together several times for more intimate times. I just found out that her husband doesn't know she is seeing me. She says it is because he is having health issues and she don't want to aggravate those issues right now. Am I a fool for believing her and should I just walk away while I still can?
You are getting laid and no pressure? He's getting the drama and you're getting the honey? What's the problem again?
Blueberry Pie

Mcminnville, TN

#6 Apr 23, 2012
To answer your question, yes you are a fool for believing her.
Comic Relief

Beechgrove, TN

#7 Apr 23, 2012
Anyone have Jerry Springer's number? C'mon I know someone in Sparta has a direct line to his production company. Do they pay a finders fee?
jba

Cookeville, TN

#8 Apr 24, 2012
Remember you are playing with fire and so is she.Bullets do not have eyes.Danger DANGER!!!!!!!!!!
sam

Spencer, TN

#9 Apr 24, 2012
its a good way to end up DEAD!!!the husband will find out,sooner or later.
Max Stevens wrote:
Ok, so there is this woman who I am really attracted to. She is very nice and we can have conversation. Her Facebook profile lists her status as "it complicated" but her husband lives at the house. she once told me that he was there to help with the kids because she works at night. She meets me for a drink and some chat sometime on her way to work and we have got together several times for more intimate times. I just found out that her husband doesn't know she is seeing me. She says it is because he is having health issues and she don't want to aggravate those issues right now. Am I a fool for believing her and should I just walk away while I still can?

Since: Oct 11

Sparta, TN

#10 Apr 24, 2012
Well what a day it has been for this old man! The woman that has been telling me how much she likes me and wishes the husband wasn't ill so she could kick him out has had herself a setback. Seems that she found out that HE has been talking to a old girlfriend and thinking about leaving her! She has been livid all day. Can you believe that she had the nerve to call ME and want to cry on my shoulder about how he has a girlfriend. This group is insane! I am giving up on White Co. women and going back to dating from Nashville. Jerry Springer indeed!
ehh

Manchester, TN

#11 Apr 24, 2012
Dude.... go ahead and tap it a few more times. Time for you to play her. Then disapear and go back to nashville. It's all a game anyways. get what you can and leave. the ball is in your court.

Since: Apr 12

Spencer, TN

#12 Apr 24, 2012
Don't give up on women in Sparta just stop dating married women... You can't really think that your actions are above reproach?! You're not that stupid surely. Find a woman that is single either by choice, divorce or widowed. But find a woman who isn't living with, married, or committed to another man. This mess isn't her fault it's yours. You chose to get involved. Now you should choose to walk away. If she cares that he may be leaving she doesn't want to end it.

Since: Oct 11

Sparta, TN

#13 Apr 25, 2012
Pieces of peace wrote:
Don't give up on women in Sparta just stop dating married women... You can't really think that your actions are above reproach?! You're not that stupid surely. Find a woman that is single either by choice, divorce or widowed. But find a woman who isn't living with, married, or committed to another man. This mess isn't her fault it's yours. You chose to get involved. Now you should choose to walk away. If she cares that he may be leaving she doesn't want to end it.
I started out just talking to her. Her husband had some depression and pill problems which caused him to be removed from the home and put into rehab. When he got out he chose to not go home...he left the family. This woman and I were mere friends up until she told me flat out that the marriage was over. I met her daughter and her daughter boyfriend and even had dinner with them. I did know the husband came back but there is issues with home ownership and childcare needs. I did not call the husband to ask if they were seperated, but I talk by phone and text to the woman all the time and there was no restrictions on when I could call her. Also, the daughter knew we were dating which made me think that all was on the up and up. Who cheats with the knowledge of their teen kid? I resent being called stupid when you don't know all the facts. One thing is for certain now though, you can bet that a woman will not get the benefit of the doubt from me again.
Well

Mcminnville, TN

#14 Apr 25, 2012
Max Stevens wrote:
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I started out just talking to her. Her husband had some depression and pill problems which caused him to be removed from the home and put into rehab. When he got out he chose to not go home...he left the family. This woman and I were mere friends up until she told me flat out that the marriage was over. I met her daughter and her daughter boyfriend and even had dinner with them. I did know the husband came back but there is issues with home ownership and childcare needs. I did not call the husband to ask if they were seperated, but I talk by phone and text to the woman all the time and there was no restrictions on when I could call her. Also, the daughter knew we were dating which made me think that all was on the up and up. Who cheats with the knowledge of their teen kid? I resent being called stupid when you don't know all the facts. One thing is for certain now though, you can bet that a woman will not get the benefit of the doubt from me again.
You are STUPID for putting it on topix in the first place... what a bozo
Amazing

United States

#15 Apr 25, 2012
Max Stevens wrote:
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I started out just talking to her. Her husband had some depression and pill problems which caused him to be removed from the home and put into rehab. When he got out he chose to not go home...he left the family. This woman and I were mere friends up until she told me flat out that the marriage was over. I met her daughter and her daughter boyfriend and even had dinner with them. I did know the husband came back but there is issues with home ownership and childcare needs. I did not call the husband to ask if they were seperated, but I talk by phone and text to the woman all the time and there was no restrictions on when I could call her. Also, the daughter knew we were dating which made me think that all was on the up and up. Who cheats with the knowledge of their teen kid? I resent being called stupid when you don't know all the facts. One thing is for certain now though, you can bet that a woman will not get the benefit of the doubt from me again.
there should be a clue in all of this for you... if her daughter didn't bat an eye to it just think how common it is for her. What a wonderful freaking parent she is.
what

Sparta, TN

#16 Apr 25, 2012
Don't you all know this is hogwash? This story isn't true, this nut is just feeding ya'll a line of hogwash, trying to be a comedian
wow

Cookeville, TN

#17 Apr 25, 2012
Keep on tappin it if she gonna cheat and youre cheatin with her keep gettin laid ...guess what...the husbands problly got him a fine piece on the side himself and the lucky lady the husbands screwing prolly banging a few more on the side...half of everyone in your situation wins but sadly they aint winning a venarial disease...

Since: Oct 11

Sparta, TN

#18 Apr 26, 2012
I am thankful that the opinons posted on Topix do not reflect the majority of the opinion of White Co.! I will not "keep on tappin it" as you so delictely put it--because for me it was more than a sexual relationship. This woman had shared her heart with me (or so I thought) we had made plans for our future (or so I thought) we had even discussed our ideas on parenting and how we would cope with having an ex husband in our lives. I bought a ring to give her and was planning how to propose marriage to her. She is still texting me and leaving messages on my voice mail about how I misunderstood her reaction to the husband g/f. I have not replied and I won't reply. I strongly suspect that one of the posters on this thread is her--trying to make everyone think this isn't true--because in a message she left for me she said I said too much and gave clues to who she is and her in-laws are going to read this. My thought to that is GOOD--mybe they will see you for the person you are and maybe they will try to help your poor husband. YOU are probly what caused him to have depression problems. Men out there pay attention to this and don't let what happen to me happen to you!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#19 Apr 26, 2012
what wrote:
Don't you all know this is hogwash? This story isn't true, this nut is just feeding ya'll a line of hogwash, trying to be a comedian
I think you are right on about this. Who would believe such an obviously made up story? Some people have nothing better to do with there time!

Since: Apr 12

Spencer, TN

#20 Apr 26, 2012
Funny thing is the wife is cheating with you and the husband is cheating with some openly hidden piece. Sad sad people. So selfish and self-centered they don't care who they hurt. Just look at the thread just sayin or however openly hidden and her little bastard(thats his screen name not me name calling) listed it. So tired of seeing children thinking they know how to play house. And by children I mean anyone who acts like a five year old with a favorite toy until they get a new toy.
Wow

Sparta, TN

#21 Apr 26, 2012
Wow!

Since: Apr 12

Cookeville, TN

#22 Apr 27, 2012
yeah, wow! I think I know who this is about.

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