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why
Orlando, FL
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you can
Somerset, KY
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If he is mine then you can have him
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“Hey Sadie...it's me, Speck”
Level 7
Since: Nov 11
Kingdome Come, Ky.
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Is this another thread about me?
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“Kiss This!”
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Since: Jan 09
KY Pineywoods
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Can she have you Musikologist? lol
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“Hey Sadie...it's me, Speck”
Level 7
Since: Nov 11
Kingdome Come, Ky.
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No, already taken, that's why she posted, lol.
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“Kiss This!”
Level 8
Since: Jan 09
KY Pineywoods
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Awww that poor woman. Shame on you Musikologist,you shouldn't be such a chick magnet!:D
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Im serious
Somerset, KY
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Tempting I'm sure, but Sorry, Its not "Musikologist".. Both him and I, are taken!:-((
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“Kiss This!”
Level 8
Since: Jan 09
KY Pineywoods
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All the good ones are taken.
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lol
Orlando, FL
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I'm in your situation. If he really wanted you then this thread wouldn't exist. Just as if mine really wanted me I wouldn't be commenting. Please don't fall into the same trap of ohhhhh I can't leave because of the kids...the finances...my family...it's not the right time...she doesn't fulfill my needs...etc. this list could go on and on and on. In reality, we are a disposable piece of flesh that the other person could easily replace. Just as we could easily replace them.
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Im serious
Somerset, KY
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lol wrote: I'm in your situation. If he really wanted you then this thread wouldn't exist. Just as if mine really wanted me I wouldn't be commenting.
Please don't fall into the same trap of ohhhhh I can't leave because of the kids...the finances...my family...it's not the right time...she doesn't fulfill my needs...etc. this list could go on and on and on.
In reality, we are a disposable piece of flesh that the other person could easily replace. Just as we could easily replace them. Yeah,,,, You make good points! We both are married (not to each other of course) I just cant stand the thought of tearing my son's Lives apart.(12 and 9) Disrupt what they consider-and should to be a "Great Life with mom and "dad"! Ughhhhh!!:-( I have NEVR been so over whelmed-confused in my life and Iam no "immature young woman" by any means!
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“Enjoying Life's Mishaps”
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Peeing, Farting, Pooping
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There's a post, "Ingredients In Beer May contribute To Altzheimers", that may help you to forget about him,.........
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Im serious
Somerset, KY
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LOL.. Yeah, maybe I need one of those!
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think it through
United States
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Im serious wrote: <quoted text>
Yeah,,,, You make good points! We both are married (not to each other of course) I just cant stand the thought of tearing my son's Lives apart.(12 and 9) Disrupt what they consider-and should to be a "Great Life with mom and "dad"! Ughhhhh!!:-( I have NEVR been so over whelmed-confused in my life and Iam no "immature young woman" by any means! If you are in or coming into your 30s then you are experiencing a biological change. Women start to experience something like what men experience at about age 18. I'm about 50 and I've seen this play out many times. Some women nearly loose their minds with lust around this age. Infatuation is very strong, but it's not love. The biology is so overwhelming that it takes an incredibly strong mind and spirit to think these things through. What is the most significant difference in your husband and the man that you're attracted to? This may sound rude, but you probably need to get a hold of your hormones and re-commit to your husband and family. I have a close family member that's always followed the kinds of feelings you're speaking of. She's hurt so many people so many times and is now in her 40s. She has a good job and money, but she takes meds to sleep, she takes anti-depressants, she smokes and drinks on top of that, neglects her two older teenagers and every other family member that truly cares about her so she can pursue the next man. She has a professional career, but trys to live for the moment. Probably takes 5 vacations a year. She has a little following of silly women that hold her up as some sort of example of feminist success, but don't know the path of self destruction that her close family knows that she's on. She's thown away every chance that she ever had at real love for the excitement of infatuation. I wrote all that so I could say, "Don't be this woman".
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think it through wrote: <quoted text>
If you are in or coming into your 30s then you are experiencing a biological change. Women start to experience something like what men experience at about age 18. I'm about 50 and I've seen this play out many times. Some women nearly loose their minds with lust around this age.
Infatuation is very strong, but it's not love.
The biology is so overwhelming that it takes an incredibly strong mind and spirit to think these things through.
What is the most significant difference in your husband and the man that you're attracted to?
This may sound rude, but you probably need to get a hold of your hormones and re-commit to your husband and family.
I have a close family member that's always followed the kinds of feelings you're speaking of. She's hurt so many people so many times and is now in her 40s. She has a good job and money, but she takes meds to sleep, she takes anti-depressants, she smokes and drinks on top of that, neglects her two older teenagers and every other family member that truly cares about her so she can pursue the next man. She has a professional career, but trys to live for the moment. Probably takes 5 vacations a year. She has a little following of silly women that hold her up as some sort of example of feminist success, but don't know the path of self destruction that her close family knows that she's on. She's thown away every chance that she ever had at real love for the excitement of infatuation.
I wrote all that so I could say, "Don't be this woman". Thanxs for the advice, but I have no desire to abandon my children and family responsibilities or destroy their lives and such for the sake of my being with another man. Its just hard .. I am 35 and I can tell you if this is some "mid-life crisis " I'm in, then sadly him and I both have been in it since we were both 17. Life just went on about its way, so we never persude our feelings..but now as of two yrs ago, we just aren't sure either one of us are married to the right people.:-( Thanxs for your thoughts
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Crazy
Orlando, FL
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Im in this same suitation. Im married, he is married, do we love each other no,do we want to leave our families no, do we enjoy are sexual relationship, yes most certainly. Thats our addiction. So confusing!!
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“Hey Sadie...it's me, Speck”
Level 7
Since: Nov 11
Kingdome Come, Ky.
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ladyinsomerset wrote: All the good ones are taken. Awwwww....thanks.
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owner of a broken heart
London, KY
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its sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along
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mmon
Somerset, KY
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you never belong to no one else. we arent lampshades.
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“Hey Sadie...it's me, Speck”
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Kingdome Come, Ky.
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owner of a broken heart wrote: its sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along I gave you props because you're on to something there. And I love that song, lol.
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“Hey Sadie...it's me, Speck”
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Kingdome Come, Ky.
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mmon wrote: you never belong to no one else. we arent lampshades. Ah, but only if we were lampshades? I guess me being topix trash and all, I wouldn't be a Tiffany lampshade, I'd be one of them ones with dead flies stuck on it, kinda the cheap kind, the kind bought at the Dollar General.
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