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Missouri child-support law change touches many issues

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brandi United States	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2236 Jul 16, 2008 and just to add my opnion on the above..I DONT WANT my ex's wifes $$$..they're not her kids..I WANT HIS.
brandi United States	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2237 Jul 16, 2008 brandi wrote: im the spouse of a father of five in MO. we live in another state and i can tell you, missouri is one of the toughest on support. my state sits back and does nothing for my children (2) from my ex..and in the meantime, MO. takes us to the cleaners. granted, he had these kids and he should take care of them, but theres just something i have to say..a whole lot of women in your state live on public aid. when are THE MOTHERS responsible for their kids?? its ok for them to have everything paid for by the state and then the man pays the state back all she has collected?? trust me, im on the other end..raising MY two kids, IVE DONE WITHOUT ANYONES HELP. if i was to need it, id expect to help pay it back. you hear about men not supporting their kids...there's women that dont either..get off public aid and get a job..WE (all of us taxpayers) would like to stay home and raise our kids, but WE have to work. YOU SHOULD TOO. thanks for hearing me out. just to add my opnion if the new wife should pay MY support for my ex..NO WAY.. not her kids..not her job, then he's getting off the hook again. over the years, ive paid so much of my money for my current spouses support to MO, all it leaves is a bad taste in my mouth...i would never expect that of anyone else
YouBet Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2238 Jul 16, 2008 Susan in Texas wrote: <quoted text> Hi Germany, The state does NOT consider the income of the NCPs current spouse, if remarried. It only counts the CP and NCP and then divide it up by percentages. there you go, read brandi, seems ur not so smart or else u jist take the other road no matter where it takes you
Susan in Texas Forney, TX	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2239 Jul 16, 2008 Judged: 1 1 YouBet wrote: <quoted text> there you go, read brandi, seems ur not so smart or else u jist take the other road no matter where it takes you Vote2008, actually, I am smart. I'm pretty sure she was implying that she has to help her husband with bills, etc and money will come out of a joint account to pay for child support. I am sure Brandi can attest that they do not count her income in Missouri. She said her husband pays 28% of his income. Nice Try...
Question Bonn, Germany	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2240 Jul 16, 2008 Judged: 1 YouBet wrote: <quoted text> there you go, read brandi, seems ur not so smart or else u jist take the other road no matter where it takes you Are you real? You must be a character of some sort! Nobody can be that stupid... How can you tell someone they are not so smart, when your whole sentence is riddled with idiotic mistakes? Lets go over this one more time. there = There (beginning of sentence) read Brandi = where is the rest of the sentence? UR = you are U = you jist = just # For your information, you speak but nothing comes out! What other road? Where does the first one lead?
YouBet Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2241 Jul 17, 2008 Susan in Texas wrote: <quoted text> Vote2008, actually, I am smart. I'm pretty sure she was implying that she has to help her husband with bills, etc and money will come out of a joint account to pay for child support. I am sure Brandi can attest that they do not count her income in Missouri. She said her husband pays 28% of his income. Nice Try... man u r some grp! rn't u the 1 that played at being some other person back there? are you sure bandi can attest to that? talk about vote, u shd look a ur self
YouBet Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2242 Jul 17, 2008 wld the real vote2008 please stand up?
VOTE2008 Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2243 Jul 17, 2008 Judged: 1 YouBet wrote: wld the real vote2008 please stand up? hot dog, momma, i'm VOTE2008!

Question Bonn, Germany	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2244 Jul 17, 2008 YouBet wrote: <quoted text> man u r some grp! rn't u the 1 that played at being some other person back there? are you sure bandi can attest to that? talk about vote, u shd look a ur self What?
Playful Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2245 Jul 17, 2008 Question wrote: <quoted text> What? u trying to lite up the room? they got no lights over there in germany?
YouBet Uniontown, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2246 Jul 17, 2008 brandi wrote: <quoted text> just to add my opnion if the new wife should pay MY support for my ex..NO WAY.. not her kids..not her job, then he's getting off the hook again. over the years, ive paid so much of my money for my current spouses support to MO, all it leaves is a bad taste in my mouth...i would never expect that of anyone else can u tell me if MO took ur money too? r u saying u paid bills cuase his $$ went to pay his ex-wife? or r u saying u paid bills & he pd chld support?
Question Bonn, Germany	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2247 Jul 17, 2008 Playful wrote: <quoted text> u trying to lite up the room? they got no lights over there in germany? What are you trying to say? Your riddles make no sense!!
Question Bonn, Germany	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2248 Jul 17, 2008 YouBet wrote: <quoted text> man u r some grp! rn't u the 1 that played at being some other person back there? are you sure bandi can attest to that? talk about vote, u shd look a ur self Are you illiterate?
Supertek “You cant win if you dont play ” Joined: May 2, 2007 Comments: 434 Crystal River, FL ISP Location: Okahumpka, FL	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2249 Jul 17, 2008 Judged: 1 YouBet wrote: <quoted text> there you go, read brandi, seems ur not so smart or else u jist take the other road no matter where it takes you Damn Vote, I almost had a grudging respect for you even if I didn't agree with your viewpoint. I did think the cow jokes were getting old but that aside, I could have agreed to disagree with you on an intellectual level. Now you pull this Sybil weirdness and I have to wonder if perhaps you really aren't as together as you would have us believe.
Central MO Dad Englewood, NJ	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2250 Jul 17, 2008 Judged: 2 I dont get why the system treats even the good dads like they are deadbeats. If you pay and call them for questions or anything they talk down to you so bad. And if there is a full joint 50/50 custody why does anyone have to pay. It is basically the same as alimony, If I can provide for my child the other parent has the same opportunity also, so its not really 50/50. Its called getting screwed
wtf Rose Bud, AR	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2251 Jul 18, 2008 i agree with you c mo dad
disgusted Rothville, MO	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2252 Jul 18, 2008 Judged: 1 1 wtf wrote: i agree with you c mo dad I agree! I just recently sent letters to the state Reps, senate, and congressman regarding the CSE, and told them they need to look into that whole system...and also about NCP's paying support past the age 18. I think its wrong, and I let the people in position to do something know about it! If you people agree, then you should let them know how you feel, maybe if enough of us speak up to the right people...they might start listening. I figure it's worth trying. What do you all think?
GoForIt Mora, MO	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2253 Jul 19, 2008 disgusted wrote: <quoted text> I agree! I just recently sent letters to the state Reps, senate, and congressman regarding the CSE, and told them they need to look into that whole system...and also about NCP's paying support past the age 18. I think its wrong, and I let the people in position to do something know about it! If you people agree, then you should let them know how you feel, maybe if enough of us speak up to the right people...they might start listening. I figure it's worth trying. What do you all think? I have been meaning to do the very same thing myself Disgusted. We should all write to these same people. From the things I have seen happening to some of my friends & co-workers the CSE operates like this...'Guilty until proven innocent'. I know NCP's (male & female) that have had their wages garnished for 'back child support' just because the CP told CSE that they weren't paying (even though they were) and it took them several months, a couple of them took over a year, to get their money back. Of course it cost them alot of money in attorney fees to clear their name but, the CSE system here isn't right!
GoForIt Mora, MO	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2254 Jul 19, 2008 By the way Disgusted, who did you write to & at what address did you send your letter to?
disgusted Stewartsville, MO	Reply » \| Report Abuse \| Judge it! \| #2255 Jul 19, 2008 GoForIt wrote: By the way Disgusted, who did you write to & at what address did you send your letter to? I e-mailed them, hopefully they get it.If I don't get a reply of some kind, I found their fax numbers on their web sites, and I will send a fax. I did get a receipt from a couple offices saying they received my letter. I feel very strongly about this. One place you can go is governor.mo.gov . My son requested a payment report from CSE and when we looked it over, they had charged him twice in some months, and when we called them..they could'nt explain. They will send it to the field office and see if they can fix it! I think they should send a report to the paying parent at least quarterly. You don't get one unless you request it. This was'nt the first mistake they made, but they don't like to admit it.I strongly urge people to write to our goverment people. I will do some research and post some websites. Thanks for your interest.

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