cheating wife and second chances

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idk

Judsonia, AR

#1 May 25, 2012
Wife cheated on me for a few years and it just came out.... She swears to never do it again and blames it on me for never being there. Is there any rhyme to reason with her.
ss

Searcy, AR

#2 May 25, 2012
idk wrote:
Wife cheated on me for a few years and it just came out.... She swears to never do it again and blames it on me for never being there. Is there any rhyme to reason with her.
none!! And theirs no working it out. If she cheated once she will again so prepare yourself ifyour silly enough to keep her
no way

Euless, TX

#3 May 25, 2012
idk wrote:
Wife cheated on me for a few years and it just came out.... She swears to never do it again and blames it on me for never being there. Is there any rhyme to reason with her.
no it will happen again leave while u still can
Guest

Dallas, TX

#4 May 25, 2012
Give her a chance to make amends. Do you have children with her? No reason to throw your family's future away for something so trivial.
Guest

Euless, TX

#5 May 25, 2012
Look bro no matter how u try n reason with yourself u might as well just give it up. I was once in your shoes my wife did the same thing once a cheater always a cheater. We tried to make things work only to split up a year later plus u loose all trust its your decision to decide your future. How many other things is she hiding from you if she is just now telling you about something that happend two years ago. If u think there may be hope for your marriage then go for it but take time to do whats right for yourself. If you think u can trust her again give it time for her to show you she cares. It doesnt matter if you were gone alot i assume you were off working to support your family that doesnt give her any reason to cheat if u let her get away with this chances are she will do it again. I knw this seams like the end but things will get better if u think that you are obligated to be with her you are wrong. The only thing that allows you to get out of a marriage in gods eyes are adultry. Im not trying to tell you what you should do only sharing my experience w you.
ss

Searcy, AR

#6 May 25, 2012
Guest wrote:
Give her a chance to make amends. Do you have children with her? No reason to throw your family's future away for something so trivial.
sleeping with another person is not trivial!! Its breaking vows! The very vows that brought u together as husband and wife
Guest

Dallas, TX

#7 May 25, 2012
ss wrote:
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sleeping with another person is not trivial!! Its breaking vows! The very vows that brought u together as husband and wife
"For better or worse" is the only vow she broke.
ss

Searcy, AR

#9 May 25, 2012
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>"For better or worse" is the only vow she broke.
Cleave only to her
Guest

Dallas, TX

#11 May 25, 2012
ss wrote:
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Cleave only to her
Are you implying the original poster worships the Almighty?
idk

Judsonia, AR

#12 May 25, 2012
Yes we have a child and she means the world to me I hate to put her through something like this because she truly is daddy's lil girl. If I'm to give up that shows her I never tried to make it work so I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Guest

Dallas, TX

#13 May 25, 2012
idk wrote:
Yes we have a child and she means the world to me I hate to put her through something like this because she truly is daddy's lil girl. If I'm to give up that shows her I never tried to make it work so I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Kiss your wife tonight and tell her things will only get better.

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#14 May 25, 2012
Just have no regrets whatever you decide.

“and how does this effect you?”

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#15 May 25, 2012
idk wrote:
Wife cheated on me for a few years and it just came out.... She swears to never do it again and blames it on me for never being there. Is there any rhyme to reason with her.
if she is blaming you for the cheating, then she isn't owning up to her mistakes. I may be wrong but it doesn't sound to me like she's sincere. I do believe that on rare occasions someone who cheats will not do it again, but they have to admit they did something wrong and not you!

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