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#1
Aug 9, 2012
 
If your ex is no longer with you and is with someone else then do yourself a favor and move on already!! Do they have to paint you a picture? They dont want to be with you!! Their priorities have changed and your not it anymore!! Their creating a life and planning their future with someone else for heavens sake!! Texting them for every piddly excuse is sad! They dont care anymore!!
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Aug 9, 2012
 
Why doesn't your man or woman just tell them this themself? If they aren't making an effort to get the ex to stop talking to them then apparently they also don't want them out of their life. If he/she has told them off then the next step if it continues is get your number, email, etc changed so they won't be able to contact. But it's not the ex's fault if the other ex also keeps in contact without complaining. You can't control everything. And jealousy is lame.
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Aug 9, 2012
 
Does your other have kids with the ex?
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#4
Aug 9, 2012
 
I was involved with someone that had a gf lik 4 months ago and he stil txts me
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#5
Aug 9, 2012
 
Some ex's are so miserable they can't let go so they continue to harass their ex and use their kids as a excuse
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Aug 9, 2012
 
Well wrote:
Why doesn't your man or woman just tell them this themself? If they aren't making an effort to get the ex to stop talking to them then apparently they also don't want them out of their life. If he/she has told them off then the next step if it continues is get your number, email, etc changed so they won't be able to contact. But it's not the ex's fault if the other ex also keeps in contact without complaining. You can't control everything. And jealousy is lame.
Exactly right on this call. Honey, make your man prove how much he cares for you by taking charge of this situation, make him prove it by changing his phone # and IF he truly cares about you he will do this for you to put you at ease. BUT, watch him close, look for signs that things are not as they should be with him. Do you have access to his phone or does he have a lock on it? If its locked make him give you the code, he should have nothing to hide from you and be more than willing to give you access at any time so you can see for yourself whats really being said. Does he keep his phone face down on the nightstand so you dont see it light up the room? Is it on silent mode? Does he spend long times on the toilet....texting perhaps? Did he come straight from this woman to you? Sweetie, some men are cowards and wont handle anything. Dont make plans with him, make ACTION. He left the other woman with a planned life? If he loves you make the future permanent talk about a more solid relationship, until you have a ring on your finger your plans with him mean no more than hers did. Sorry babe, just make sure youre not his next easy meal ticket/free ride. Some guys will tell you anything to secure a place to live. Look at him, is he old, what does he have? Make sure he has not lived from woman to woman his whole life. Does he whine about having a good past but it was taken from him or can he take responsibility for his past actions in relationships? How do his family members fee about him. This relationship is not about him, its about YOU. Make him prove everything to you, make him do something instead of plan cause plans are no more than talk if they never materialize. Now think if you were her how would you feel, Im sure most women would have felt as secure as you do right now. AND...were you seeing him/having sex with him when he belonged to her? We all know how that turns out. Sweetie, you have no more with this man than she did. Just be careful and take care of YOURSELF. Make him show you. There are truly dogs out there, watch out for the ones who have the most heartbreaking tales to tell. Make him grow a pair and show you how much he cares for you, dont settle for what he has to offer "right now". Watch him close, especially if he was involved with you when he belonged to her. Take care & good luck.
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Aug 9, 2012
 
hahaha wrote:
Does your other have kids with the ex?
Nope no kids thank god
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Aug 9, 2012
 
Well wrote:
Why doesn't your man or woman just tell them this themself? If they aren't making an effort to get the ex to stop talking to them then apparently they also don't want them out of their life. If he/she has told them off then the next step if it continues is get your number, email, etc changed so they won't be able to contact. But it's not the ex's fault if the other ex also keeps in contact without complaining. You can't control everything. And jealousy is lame.
effort has been made many times. Some people are too stupid though to figure out what 'leave me alone, stop texting me' really mean i guess cause its been said many times
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Aug 9, 2012
 
excuse wrote:
Some ex's are so miserable they can't let go so they continue to harass their ex and use their kids as a excuse
theirs no kids here in this case. The ex wont get a life and move on though. This ex's texts are unwanted and they have been told that many times
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Aug 9, 2012
 
really now wrote:
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theirs no kids here in this case. The ex wont get a life and move on though. This ex's texts are unwanted and they have been told that many times
You know for sure he has done this? If he is telling you he has, its only words...make him show you his reply text, if he wont most likely he has not been completly honest about the situation. IF HE CARES for you and loves you even respects you he will not hesitate to prove himself and SHOW you what he told her, telling you is nothing more than his words sweetie and if you were seeing him before they split, you can bet he had pacifying words for her when she was suspicious or found messages from you. For your own piece of mind make him let you see what he said & dont accept his excuses if he says he deleted them because most men dont (the arrogance of thinking theyre smart & you believe all they say). Pay attention kiddo and hopefully you wont begin to see things that hurt you. Your problem is not with another woman sweetie, its with a weak man who wont handle things for your sake cause obviously this is tearing you apart & if he truly cares he will show you he has tried and just wont "tell" you he did. Beware of a mans mind games too like turning you into a villian because you ask for proof he was handeling the matter, or if he gets angry with you & defensive to scare you into dropping the subject.
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#11
Aug 9, 2012
 
My ex told me to get lost. Go away he says. Don't try to fi.d your way back!
I live near Chicago anyway butt head!
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Aug 9, 2012
 
granny wrote:
<quoted text>You know for sure he has done this? If he is telling you he has, its only words...make him show you his reply text, if he wont most likely he has not been completly honest about the situation. IF HE CARES for you and loves you even respects you he will not hesitate to prove himself and SHOW you what he told her, telling you is nothing more than his words sweetie and if you were seeing him before they split, you can bet he had pacifying words for her when she was suspicious or found messages from you. For your own piece of mind make him let you see what he said & dont accept his excuses if he says he deleted them because most men dont (the arrogance of thinking theyre smart & you believe all they say). Pay attention kiddo and hopefully you wont begin to see things that hurt you. Your problem is not with another woman sweetie, its with a weak man who wont handle things for your sake cause obviously this is tearing you apart & if he truly cares he will show you he has tried and just wont "tell" you he did. Beware of a mans mind games too like turning you into a villian because you ask for proof he was handeling the matter, or if he gets angry with you & defensive to scare you into dropping the subject.
Yes, ive seen it with my own eyes many times. She just wont listen. Keeps finding excuses
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#13
Aug 9, 2012
 
Call her out. Ur on this terrible place bc u probably think she's on it too. Give her initials & make her really know who she is & what she's doing.

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#14
Aug 9, 2012
 
Maybe they are still really good friends? It does happen. No often but it's possible.
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Aug 10, 2012
 
Grow a back bone wrote:
Call her out. Ur on this terrible place bc u probably think she's on it too. Give her initials & make her really know who she is & what she's doing.
I have no reason to even slightly suspect shes on topix.(shes not that smart) To directly imply a persons name or to straight out give a persons name is a direct verbal attack on another and im not that immature. Would serve no purpose either.

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#16
Aug 10, 2012
 
So why even post the topic ? Me and my ex talk everyday and we are still friends possibly best friends and he has a girlfriend . It is possible maybe he wants to talk to her and just not telling u the whole story.
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Aug 12, 2012
 
Greenbrier wrote:
So why even post the topic ? Me and my ex talk everyday and we are still friends possibly best friends and he has a girlfriend . It is possible maybe he wants to talk to her and just not telling u the whole story.
He works out of our home and i get the phone records. Its her bothering him. He cant stand her and he dont want to be bothered by her and sure dont want to be friends. She represents a bad past for him which hes trying to change.
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#18
Aug 12, 2012
 
I like Granny :)
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#19
Aug 12, 2012
 
Change the F-ing phone number. Send a cease and desist order to her then file harassment when she breaks it. He obviously likes the attention because it seems he isn't trying too hard to stop her communications.
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#20
Aug 12, 2012
 
there always smarter than you think an always watching you never lettin go never giving you the closer you need ok iv text my ex she was a moron drugs an alchol were all she needed to sleep with any one else i didnt care i just wanted her it took the last seven months before she ever siad im sorry i hurt you im done a great weaght lifted i may never get over her but at lest i have closer an i can move on if i want. women are just as big on being dogs as men we are all adults just to sitting down an talking sometimes is better than being shuned forgoteen ya i brought flowers candy carried her kid around for her it didnt mean shit to her i was cast aside like trash have i text her since no like i said it was the confermaion i had been looking for she would never give you all sould be ashamed when you truely love someone you will go to great leaghts to prove it yes i am alone because i choose to be now people are hurtful an should have to live with themsevels before judging others ya i read her post like she reads mine i dont care lest im still alive an didnt get killed in the prosses yet we all need closer

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