Justin Harris

BTW my comments had nothing to do with the boy who died. I am sorry for the family. I didn't mean to suggest he had -----oh crap-I apologize and realize I shoulda made a new forum to discuss the subject in.
Excuse my callousness as I was just typing away through forums and wasn't thinking tacticly.

Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry for the loss of your friends. Everyone needs to be heard and be understood of their feelings. Everyone hurts.

It makes me sick to hear when people are posting negative and evil comments. People have their own opinions of another, but they do they really need to make our family suffer? Get help now before you end up making your family suffer from your actions. You are on the right path to self destruction. With all your negativity, do you really have friends that listen to you or do they just hear you blab? You must have so much pain in your life, you need to make others feel the way you do. Sounds like they live in a glass house, but like New England weather it changes by the minute. You just never know what sets people off. Sorry, but I still hurt daily for the loss of my beloved nephew. He did no wrong to my family, only good things! You must not have known him. If they have something to say, I am willing to listen, but not in this forum. So, please come forward instead of hiding behind a computer forum post and speak your mind. I am willing to listen. My heart goes out to you and I will say a prayer! My God watch over you. Our family is living daily with this tragic event and do not need to hear it.

KPTK wrote:

It makes me sick to hear when people are posting negative and evil comments. People have their own opinions of another, but they do they really need to make our family suffer? Get help now before you end up making your family suffer from your actions. You are on the right path to self destruction. With all your negativity, do you really have friends that listen to you or do they just hear you blab? You must have so much pain in your life, you need to make others feel the way you do. Sounds like they live in a glass house, but like New England weather it changes by the minute. You just never know what sets people off. Sorry, but I still hurt daily for the loss of my beloved nephew. He did no wrong to my family, only good things! You must not have known him. If they have something to say, I am willing to listen, but not in this forum. So, please come forward instead of hiding behind a computer forum post and speak your mind. I am willing to listen. My heart goes out to you and I will say a prayer! My God watch over you. Our family is living daily with this tragic event and do not need to hear it.

I agree with you and again apologize for my cyniscism as it was misplaced. These blogs are a way for us all to be cynical and discover other's ideas and thought's. I appreciate the sentiment about your god but it's wasted on someone like me. I believe this god stands in the way of reality which is badly needed in such cases. Were I to say,. lose my son, I would think clearly about my loss and, ofcourse, be also devestated like you but to me; I see the inclusion of deities in my grief to be insulting to the deceased. My family comes first and then maybe my country. Nothing exists to be above them.
You may feel this is an attack but I truly feel this to be the virtuos truth and to me it's meant to help. As far as 'hiding behind computers' goes, well that's not really purposeful and many of us would just as soon yell at each other but this forces us (thankfully) to take turns.
Sooo...whether you are made angry or challenged by all this, I hope it's taken your mind off your grief briefly, atleast. I'll check back as I cruise through forums again to see if you've responded.
One more thing before I go...you probably don't understand how it is to have no 'higher power' but the will to act on a situation rather than 'give it to god' is what makes the world work. Religion slows it all down.

You have your right and you presented it in a tactful way. Thank you for expressing yourself. My post was not directed to you. It is to all the others that posted disrespectful things about my nephew for his family to read. THAT HURTS AND WHAT DID WE DO TO DESERVE IT?

KPTK wrote:

You have your right and you presented it in a tactful way. Thank you for expressing yourself. My post was not directed to you. It is to all the others that posted disrespectful things about my nephew for his family to read. THAT HURTS AND WHAT DID WE DO TO DESERVE IT?

I often wonder how life might have been enriched by the fallen young. The love expressed in this forum tells me that this Justin left a whole in the world. I wish healing for you all...
Farewell
(Now back to my endless attack on the ignorant views of everyone else hehe)