Family, police seek help finding missing Idaho City man

Why did Paula accept Christmas Presents from Steve if he was stalking her?I sure wouldn't have if it was me!

ok church girls of Idaho city...all of you are so innocent....yeah right...I know Paula was still there on New Years because I spoke to her myself or did she forget that when she hung up on me...you see the thing is that you all don't know shit about my husband or myself so stop trying to act like we're the bad guys...as I said I don't give a flying hoot what Paula does in life as long as I find my brother...she can rot in hell for all I care because that's where she's gonna end up. As for that agent that is keeping and eye on her well they must not being doing such a good job because everyone knows where she goes. It's called the meth house and dont think for a minute that you scare me by saying that everything is on camera...big deal...that doesn't faze me one bit. So as her sister of God you need to first learn how to spell and then get the balls to come see me in person so I can put you in place as well...you all think this is going away but it's not...so tell you sister of the church that everytime she steps in there she must feel the church shake below her feet because of all the lies..she should have called me when and if she had the problems with my brother and I would have flew out there in a heartbeat to pick him up...so as I said before just help me find my brother and I will leave all your asses alone.

Mikey,
I really wish you had stopped the guy just to make sure it was my brother but we all know how close of a family we are no matter what happens and Steve has yet to be heard...I wish I could believe that he was alive but Steve would never leave his shoes and jackets and guns behind that was his life savings and Paula has given all his stuff away and we even found a pair of Steve's shoes in her dumpster...so what does that tell you....anyway just keep an eye open and maybe from your mouth to Gods ears he is alive....but I already know he's in heaven......no matter what these people say.

Dear Idaho Moutain girl I appreciate everything you do for me and my family...people like you deserve the best in life.....and I love you for everything you do.....thank you for everything.

How does this work?

I would like to begin by saying we are truly sorry that Steve is still missing. No family should have to go through this kind of pain and suffering.

Now, I would like to say a few things I am sure Maria does not want to hear but need to be said. My husband Mike Dauber has served faithfully 11 years of service in the US Amy Infantry. His most recent active duty tour brought him home 100% disabled, a Purple Heart in process, a very serious brain injury, and multiple other serious injuries (neck, back, nerve damage in his elbows, knees, ankles, feet), not to mention the numerous surgeries he has had to have. Mike has difficulties with basic daily living activities and is hardly able to lift up his young son. Believe me when I say, as a nurse, I somewhat know what you are going through with your brother (maybe not completely, but somewhat).

I first met Steve shortly before he decided to leave a job in Montana without telling Mike and leaving all of his belongings at the residence they were sharing. He did not contact Mike until a couple of days later when he got back to Chicago when he told Mike to do whatever with what was left. So this is not the first time he has left his belongings behind.

The "Low lifes he was living with..." that you so kindly referred to previously invited Steve to live with us as he told us over the phone numerous times that he was having a hard time breathing due to his incident and lung issues and Chicago smog. He also stated he wanted a change of life style as he was tired of looking over his shoulder every where he went. What was this about? Certainly wasn't due to Mike or Larry was it.
Mike and our family were nothing but generous and accommodating to Steve. We gave him and place to stay rent free, then offered him a room in our house in the cold months, free sewer and water, didn't charge him for phone (sometimes he did have a phone card), let him use our vehicles when he didn't have one, gave him rides, fed him (he did buy some food but mostly ate with us), bought him clothes and winter boots for Idaho weather, and bought him other things he needed. We did this out of the goodness of our hearts. We loved Steve and never asked for it back. Nor would we have ever.

During the hunting season sometime Mike and I had some very close friends up that were hunting and having dinner with us. Steve and Paula were there but in a different room. I was with Steve and Paula, Mike was with our other guests. We had 3 children with Steve and Paula and I. Steve and Paula were having a normal, calm conversation and Steve went off. I will not say what was said and what happened after that until after Steve is said as he is not here to defend himself. But let me tell you, Steve did have a violent and anger side. Sometime after this Paula talked to him about breaking off the relationship (I was there, they talked in my kitchen as she was afraid) but he continued to follow her.

When Steve started sleeping with a loaded and cocked pistol I began to get worried. He also had his body armor at his bed side. This did not worry me so much except my children slept in the next bedroom and used the same bathroom across the hall. Any noise Steve heard he would jump up and point his pistol. I know for a fact he would never intentionally hurt my children. He was always very good to my children. In fact, he would play with them and give them hugs. But the fact of the matter is, accidents can happen, and my children do get up in the middle of the night. I was not sure where exactly Steve's state of mind was so I told Mike I did not want Steve staying at the house anymore. My daughter had stated that the day before he went running up to the front window and then out the back door with his gun in his hand and it scared her. The next night while I was at work Mike saw someone come and pick Steve up in a vehicle.

Mike very generously offered to help pay for Steve's move back to Chicago or wherever. Steve refused it. Mike did not yell at Steve to leave, he asked him to leave. I would like to say that even though we love and miss Steve, he was not our "roommate". "Roommates" help with the cost of living. Just a little side note.

In regards to Paula and meth-I give you my word, as a woman, a nurse, a mother, whatever you want-she is clean. She has been getting tested. Please quit calling her names and being rude to her. She did not do anything to cause your brother to go missing. She does not have your brother in hiding. Her father is extremely ill and does not have the capability to pull off what you are accusing him of. Really and truly. These guys are good friends of mine. I would and have trusted them with my childrens lives. If you truely don't care what Paula does in her life, then please, quit harrassing her and her family. Stop talking badly about her. She is trying her best right now to give her son the best life she can and to raise him the best way she can and all you are doing is impeading on them. Your life may be at a stand still, that doesn't mean you have to put everyone elses lives at a stand still. Please stop trying to play God with her life.

One more thing about Paula. She did not throw away all of his belongings. If you found anything in her trash it was probably something that he left unwelcomly and she didn't want as a reminder. All of his other belongings that he left were left in our storage and then moved to the storage facility where you eventually picked it up. You know that. Please don't make false accusations against Paula again. And by the way, we kept his belongings in our storage free of charge and then moved it to another facility free of charge--Your Welcome.

Maybe this has answered some questions for you. Maybe you can answer some questions for me.
1. Who has been breaking out all the security lights on our property?
2. Who has been breaking into the houses on our property?
3. I know someone tried to follow me to work last weekend. Nice try.
4. We also know someone tried to follow one of the residence on the property down. What was that about?
5. There are an awful lot of threats being made on some of these blogs. Might want to be careful.

One last thing. Mikey is not the only person to have seen Steve in the Boise/Meridian area since his "disappearance". And yes, they have talked to the police. What more can I say than maybe there is a very small chance he doesn't want to be found.

Nice little story,very touching,but I don't buy it.You forget we know that Mike has killed before.What about that?

all of steves things were not put into storage they were stolen and we know who stole them.So please don't act so innocent,as far as threatning paula there is no threat.She feels threatened because she is guilty,maybe she didn't pull the trigger but she has knowledge of what happened.

I know Mike. I don't know Steve. I served with Mike in Iraq and I know that when we were taking fire or being hit by IEDs, Mike was always more concerned with looking after his teammates then he was in trying to return fire at the bad guys. That, to anyone with a head that can reason, should be enough to tell you that Mike's priorities in life are in helping people, not hurting them. Mike was always the one who made sure we always had extra food, toys, school supplies, water and stuffed animals to hand out to Iraqi kids EVERYTIME we went on patrol.

...and IDMTNGIRL, I don't give a good goddamn if you "buy that nice little story" because you weren't there sweating and bleeding and dieing with us. Your uninformed opinions count for less then nothing so why don't you just go back to doing what you do best? The drug dealers will love you for it.