Public breast-feeding controversy won't go away

joyfulmama wrote:

You said:
"I dont have a problem with breast at all, i can watch that when i have a taste for it like in stripclubs or whatever. "
And then:
"I dont go to stripclubs, and to show i'm not a hypocrit about this is that i dont watch anything vulgar on TV much less do i wanna see someone breastfeeding"
The style and word usage is too similar to be someone immitating you, you are just trying to save face.

Republican Sean wrote:

Liberals have taken the meaning of breasfeeding up to a whole new different level. They take a case where a child missed 4 hrs plight of food even at home and make it comparable to a child that has to waite maybe less than an hour for feeding time all because the mom wants to be considerate while out in public. To me this is silly, liberals will run a paint brush to both sides of these cases like as if a childs rights to eat is being denied all because good manners and proper etiquette is involved. Being out and about doing your outdoor excursions while having a screaming hungry child wanting to eat can always waite. Two hours of missed feeding time will not kill the child in any given time. The liberal mindset has taken this issue way to far where its not even about breastfeeding anymore as to how they wanna make people think that this is about a hungry child. Talk about manipulation, our liberal society has made it seem that its mandatory to feed your child even if it means being in public without thinking what some may feel. Using discretion and working a way around by not being in a situation where you would subject yourself to the general public would not hinder feeding time for the child. This is how silly our society educates people that feeding time has to be ASAP no matter where your at

joyfulmama wrote:

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Making a baby wait 2 hours to eat can have serious consequences, especially for a very young one. Going that long without nourishment can cause a dangerous drop in blood sugar....You know I am tired of wasting my time on you. You are an idiot with no common decency at all. You are a liar and an hypocrite. You are not worth the time to discuss this issue because you will not see reason.

Republican Sean wrote:

<quoted text>Thats right i dont have a problem with breast at all when i have a taste for it where it maybe acceptable and appropriate. But to an extent it should not be exposed anywhere if there maybe children around or anyone else for that matter out shopping. When i said i dont watch anything vulgar, i meant i dont make a habit out of it, maybe once in the while but not all the time. As for breastfeeding, thats something that is needed for the children. But breastfeeding in public is very rarely needed unless your not making any effort into anything but out for an excuse to be out and about with your child. To breastfeed publicly is an inconveniet time to do it and is really not needed to put yourself in that situation in time or place. I know there are other ways around to avoide being put in certain situations where there are people around and its not so hard to follow those steps. Society wants to glorify breastfeeding in public due to breast exposure for the ones who dont think about discretions. Up until that point it reaches to an extent where it shouldnt be imposed on others who have no choice but to be subjected to it. Just like a dirty movie , you can always find your remotes to switch the channel or have settings in a remote. In stripclubs there are exit doors if you feel it gets a little vulgar and to much explicit scences you dont wish to see. So yeah there are lots of responsibilitys to everything we do and have to take into account for some of these things

Republican Sean wrote:

<quoted text>Gosh its just a debate, i am sorry if your getting all bent out of shape like this. I think we can get along without all the religion and politics. I mean seriously i understand where your coming from and no need to feel like your beating a dead horse arguing with me. It sinks into my head when you were discusing religion about the breastfeeding issue. I known you for a year now, so lets not go off seperately. We can always agree and disagree you know what i am saying?? Like i said its just a debate, you come in here like i do and we both post our veiw

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sean wrote:

As a Conservative that i am, i would love to see public breastfeeding be prohibited in all 50 states. Mothers should learn to not bring it out in public an order to disrespect other peoples feelings and compforts due to this SELFISH immature behaviour. I mean whats so hard to prepare a bottle with pumped breastmilk a head of time before planning your excursions

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joyfulmama wrote:

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Making a baby wait 2 hours to eat can have serious consequences, especially for a very young one. Going that long without nourishment can cause a dangerous drop in blood sugar....You know I am tired of wasting my time on you. You are an idiot with no common decency at all. You are a liar and an hypocrite. You are not worth the time to discuss this issue because you will not see reason.

Bill Hargett -mr manners- wrote:

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I AGREE!
I never heard of anything so vulgar and tasteless as a woman that has her boobs sucked on in public by her own offspring. It should be considered by law as lewd conduct.
It ranks the same as those half-naked sluts that hang down on the street corners at night.
Next thing you will see is a female pulled off onto the shoulder of the road squating and urinating like a stinking house cat.

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Bill Hargett -mr manners- wrote:

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It sure would not take you 2 hrs to find a secluded spot to get your breast sucked on. In fact you ought to stay at home and have it done instead of making a public trashy display of yourself. If you do have to go somewhere then load up some milk in bottles with your breast pump. It should not stretch them very much unless you have flabby and wilted unheathly skin.
And by your posting you sound like a very hostile person, I think you should post your address so child protective services can come investigate you to see if you are a fit mother. Your children might be safer in a foster home.

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LungCapacity wrote:

Just want to clarify that last point I made about American becoming a crummy place. I dont want any breastfeeding mothers to think I was referring to them. I was actuallt referring to the jerks who are too freaking lazy to turn their heads when they see it. If you go to Walmart to shop and happen to see a woman feeding her child, just try and remember the reason why you went to Walmart. To SHOP. Do your shopping and keep your fat mouths shut and monid your own business. You cannot the fight you started against mothers. I am a husband and a dad both. And I would personally kick any mans ass who picked a fight with a woman over her own baby. And thers plenty more dads out there who would do the same. So !@#$ you and all the other hypocrits who CANT win for losing.

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LungCapacity wrote:

There is definitely a sexual side to breastfeeding. After all a man doesnt hesitate to put his mouth on a womans nipple when having sex. So its only normal to get turned on when seeing breastfeeding in public. But, at the same time, its also a woman's right to feed her baby anywhere she sees fit.
If you wanna complain about indecency, look around at all the teenage girls who wear next to nothing in public, just waiting to get raped. THAT is indecent. That gets a guy more turned on than any breastfeeding expo ever could.
My wife is pretty modest and said she wouldnt actually want to feed the baby in public unless it's inconspicuous and she covers her boob and the baby, so its not very noticeable. But she wouldnt just plop a boob out for all to see. I have seen some women plop a big boob out right in Walmart while pushing a buggy and a toddler size child was latching on and playing around like it was a toy. Actually funny because you dont often see it. But, sometimes you just have to see things from their perspective. But thats the biggest downfall of America these days. Its an increasing number of self absorbed people who have no empathy and just cannot see the other persons side of things. What a crummy place America is becoming.

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LungCapacity wrote:

Just want to clarify that last point I made about American becoming a crummy place. I dont want any breastfeeding mothers to think I was referring to them. I was actuallt referring to the jerks who are too freaking lazy to turn their heads when they see it. If you go to Walmart to shop and happen to see a woman feeding her child, just try and remember the reason why you went to Walmart. To SHOP. Do your shopping and keep your fat mouths shut and monid your own business. You cannot the fight you started against mothers. I am a husband and a dad both. And I would personally kick any mans ass who picked a fight with a woman over her own baby. And thers plenty more dads out there who would do the same. So !@#$ you and all the other hypocrits who CANT win for losing.

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LungCapacity wrote:

Just want to clarify that last point I made about American becoming a crummy place. I dont want any breastfeeding mothers to think I was referring to them. I was actuallt referring to the jerks who are too freaking lazy to turn their heads when they see it. If you go to Walmart to shop and happen to see a woman feeding her child, just try and remember the reason why you went to Walmart. To SHOP. Do your shopping and keep your fat mouths shut and monid your own business. You cannot the fight you started against mothers. I am a husband and a dad both. And I would personally kick any mans ass who picked a fight with a woman over her own baby. And thers plenty more dads out there who would do the same. So !@#$ you and all the other hypocrits who CANT win for losing.