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#41 Jun 16, 2012
Yea I agree. It does hurt in some ways because my son needs a father. However im kinda glad because I get to have all my sons time. Its not easy doing on my own but im doing the best I can between working for time and going to school full time to make a better life for me and my son.
hmm

Kingsport, TN

#42 Jul 25, 2012
hey excuses,
I have been in and out of court with my wife my child's whole life. he is about to be 1 year old now and i dont even know who he is. my wife made ridicules claims to the court so that she could get emergency custody. and had a restraining order put against me. the judge granted me 8 hours of visitation with my son unsupervised a week. And his mother has claimed that the order had been canceled even though i have gotten no paper work on it. and neither has my lawyer. the cops wont work with me, and our court date keeps getting pushed back. I dont want to get arrested by showing up and asking for my child at visitation time with a restraining order on me. so your statement "dads who say,she wont let me see my kid" "dont really want to see them. is bull sh!t because I would die for my son and would do any thing to spend time with him.
info

Kingsport, TN

#43 Jul 26, 2012
I think his name is jack marisic in town here get him he's a great one it dont matter what the ex says if its your visitation time the ex has to give you your time if the judge orders it or jack will have them put in jail no exceptions HE'S GREAT!
shocked citizen

White Pine, TN

#44 Jul 31, 2012
excuses wrote:
all you have to do is go to court and you WILL get visitation.
dads who say this, "she won't let me see my kid" don't REALLY want to see them. it's much easier to say that and think it makes you look good, but actually you look stupid for not going to court.
i have seen "men" who haven't seen their children in years (by choice) and whenever they finally decide they feel like being a parent...the judge lets them. quit making excuses and go to court. nobody believes that stupid sob story anymore
sounds easy butdo u kno what is costs to go to court over visition-why does the father have to pay for the attorney/court when heis not in the wrong?!?! what if u dont have any extra cash, then what??
Trith is

Philadelphia, PA

#45 Sep 21, 2012
excuses wrote:
all you have to do is go to court and you WILL get visitation.
dads who say this, "she won't let me see my kid" don't REALLY want to see them. it's much easier to say that and think it makes you look good, but actually you look stupid for not going to court.
i have seen "men" who haven't seen their children in years (by choice) and whenever they finally decide they feel like being a parent...the judge lets them. quit making excuses and go to court. nobody believes that stupid sob story anymore
That is what my daughters "donor" has been saying for years... The only "2" times he has been in her life, were when he dated a real woman. A woman who tried to teach and show him the right thing to do. My daughter doesn`t get to know her sister, didn`t have much time with her grandmother, cuz he convinced his family she was not his daughter. Believe me, due to him and his familys bull shit and verbal abouse I wish I had been with someone else..
Step mom

Duluth, GA

#46 Jan 31, 2013
Well my husband ex hasn't let him be apart of his daughters life since she was born. She turned two jan 29th this is his second birthday he missed out on. He even asked if he could come and se said no! He has asked many many times to see his daughter and she will say stuff like leave us alone we are fine the way we are without you. She has nothing for you and stupid stuff like that! How does she know what that child has for her daddy? Also she uses the Internet Facebook to ask for a babysitter almost every other week out of every week! Hello we r here to babysit but she will ask just anyone to watch the child. My husband has offered to babysit and give her money and she says no or ignores him. She will say I don't need your help! I wish the courts would give us custody of her and then have her see her every other weekend to see how it feels to go without seeing her child. This is not fair for fathers who wanna be apart of their child's life. It's hurting the child more than anything. We have everything documented and we go to court feb 4th we r so ready been way to long and ready to see our sweet baby and make up for lost time!!
well

Kingsport, TN

#47 Jan 31, 2013
Unfortunately you cannot make up for lost time, the effect that time lost will have on the child's relationship with the father is almost irrepairable
cnicely

Casper, WY

#49 Oct 10, 2013
I have tried for a year and a half to see my child. I had to eventually leave the state from all the abuse my wife was giving me. My marriage ended in an affair with my best friend... in front of my daughter...

When my wife got caught she turned into a person I didn't know existed. We divorced and my daughter became a pawn. I have tried to keep up contact... but my number gets blocked. I sent her videos every day.. but she never got them. I asked for visitation I was denied. I moved back home, took up residence was denied. I moved back East... did my best to keep contact but was blocked.

Now I moved back home... have taken up residence again.. but still denied. Well it's all coming to head now because I have an attorney and she is going to be held in contempt of court... but you would of thought I was punished for the affair.. come to think of it..

I wish I was the one that had the affair.. I could of swallowed my pride and said sorry... Crazy! Why are woman like this...
another side

Murfreesboro, TN

#50 Oct 11, 2013
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I know what it's like to deal with someone who has two different sides to them. I would have never dreamed that my husband would turn into the person that he is today (liar & cheat). He has no concern for anyone but himself. However, the only reason that I would ever keep our children from him, is if they were in danger or if he took them around people of poor moral character. A child deserves to know their parent, but it's the parents' responsibility to keep them safe. I sincerely hope that things get better for you.
cnicely wrote:
I have tried for a year and a half to see my child. I had to eventually leave the state from all the abuse my wife was giving me. My marriage ended in an affair with my best friend... in front of my daughter...

When my wife got caught she turned into a person I didn't know existed. We divorced and my daughter became a pawn. I have tried to keep up contact... but my number gets blocked. I sent her videos every day.. but she never got them. I asked for visitation I was denied. I moved back home, took up residence was denied. I moved back East... did my best to keep contact but was blocked.

Now I moved back home... have taken up residence again.. but still denied. Well it's all coming to head now because I have an attorney and she is going to be held in contempt of court... but you would of thought I was punished for the affair.. come to think of it..

I wish I was the one that had the affair.. I could of swallowed my pride and said sorry... Crazy! Why are woman like this...

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