White Guys: Would you date a black girl? Elaborate

girl i love black womwn i would love to be ur man

Go boy... I don't care what color what color you are. My sisters need to be loved and respected, period. You do nto need my blessing, but you have it.

Onessa wrote:

I am an African American girl living in New York City, and as you know, in New York..."anything goes". But why not White guys with Black girls?
I would LOVE to date a guy out of my race. I a attacted to: white.black.asian.indian. and mixed. As long as I like your personality. But why is it so hard for a white guy to look at a black girl? Are the arbitrary steotypes so influencial that they miss out on something beautiful? What's going on?

I am 17, a white male (25% Spanish/latino, but no one can tell the difference...) I live in New Jersey (AKA Hell). Couple years ago, I liked a cute white girl. The year after I thought this Asian girl was pretty good too (Vietnamese). Then I fell flat on my face for, and got crushed by a latina (Columbian). Right now I'm good friends with a black girl, who might like me and I think another black girl is pretty cute. Now recently, this one girl started talking to me. She had features of an arabic, but had this speech pattern of either a Native American or South American (Like Puruvian or Incan) I went with the former because she has heterochromia blue/dark brown eyes. She tells me she's hispanic. So Arabic is the only race I haven't fallen for XD. But I'm more concerned with personality than looks. Beauty fades, the brain grows.

im a 20 white male i'll gladly date a black girl if i had the chance 2

i dont date black guys i mean theres nothing wrong with them but i would prefer a white guy

Yes black girls deserve better than the black men they are with who are most likely high on crack , got 10 kids and no job. Its true white men are more powerful than the thug down the corner pimpin a ho! we are classy and are still just as hung as any brother so dont get caught up in that myth either. I am a white guy looking to date a black woman just to show these players how weak they really are. go play b.ball some more down the projects guys cause your woman are soon to be mine..lol

dennis wrote:

white guys like black girls because young black girl are dum and they don't know the history of slavery !

what does slavery have to do with it? african and other countries with blacks, have not been effected by american slavery. my young black girl has a bachelors degree and is not at all dumb and i'd love her even if she was!

brendan wrote:

id date a black girl if she had the right personality

but they are ..........well i am i just be a little scaredto approach them

Beatyoudown wrote:

Yes black girls deserve better than the black men they are with who are most likely high on crack , got 10 kids and no job. Its true white men are more powerful than the thug down the corner pimpin a ho! we are classy and are still just as hung as any brother so dont get caught up in that myth either. I am a white guy looking to date a black woman just to show these players how weak they really are. go play b.ball some more down the projects guys cause your woman are soon to be mine..lol

i like thisz one

Of course I would date a black woman .I`m not into thick women or white women but a petite black lady sends me through the roof. Black women are so sexy and they seem more spiritual than white women. I`ll never date another white woman. Some day I`ll remarry and she will be black

I'm tired of some of you talking down on black men like they're all on crack and have kids and shit. These stereotypes are ridiculous. You'll have a black man that plays basketball and is still educated. I'm 16 and he's 14 and it pains me to know maybe one day my brother will be viewed as this.
STOP with the ignorance and close-mindedness.

mikeyswifey wrote:

Well i think alot of it is because they assume black women dont date white men. I am black and my boyfriend is white and it took him almost 7 months to approach me because someone told him I didnt date white men. I hadnt before him but i dont plan. But when he finally did we had an almost instant love connection. I love my boyfriend so much and this is the best relationship i have ever been in. Some people say things like he acts black which is so stupid. He acts like Mike he a lil ghetto but he from the ghetto just like me. to be honest im not half as ghetto as he is lol. I heard a guy on another post say he didnt date black women because of penis size well let me be the first to say all black men dont have large penises and in fact my white boyfriend has a bigger one then most of my exes infact he is the best lover i have ever had in my life. not only is the sex great he completes me. we are totally dedicated to one another. So heres my advice try it out you could end up happy like me.

Wow that is a beautiful story. Good for y'all

I grew up in Southern California - in Orange County, to be exact.. Ever seen that show, "The OC"? Well, only a couple of cities in south OC are anything like that.. but the attitude in that show - that elitist, "I'm White=I'm Superior" is, unfortunately, an attitude you will get from White people in MANY OC cities.. even in MANY LA (nearby Los Angeles) cities..

It's sad. I don't associate with people who harbor racist sentiments. Sometimes, having been surrounded by White people while growing up, I have been surprised to find that a good friend or even a GIRLFRIEND held some gnarly racist views..and every time, there is NO logical, rational, nor even understandable reason for their racist views.. they were just bred into them by their parents, or by their own elitist personalities looking for someone to step on (you know these ones, those people who love to spout racist jokes because it makes them laugh harder than usual, knowing they're saying something 'wrong'). It's always that fallacy of thought within their minds: that because of the many minorities that live in poor conditions, with so much crime, they think that "they all must be that way".

Anyone with a brain that is unhindered by stereotype; that is not subject to being easily influenced into accepting racist views by the media, parents, friends, etc.. is a person who has a healthy mind, and a healthy, open respect for everyone. Racist people are almost always FOLLOWERS or DRONES. Even the ones on top usually cite some previous racist's views as being the source and inspiration for their own - it is never an original, true-to-the-person thing.

I am of mixed race - half White, half Indian, though most see me as White. I have never dated a Black girl, unfortunately, but not because I don't want to. The thing is..most Black girls that I see in my scene, my circles, my life altogether - are either very securely anchored into dating within their own race, which accounts for MOST of them; OR they could be into things/music/whatever that totally fits with me; but those cases are quite rare, and the girl is usually taken, as she would be considered to be as such.. rare, hard to find, and to be snatched up quickly before the wolves come around.

At the risk of sounding egotistical (which I am the opposite of) I will say that I am, and my guy-friends are, good-looking guys - White, Latinos, Jews, etc.. The majority of us would date a Black girl..the same rules would apply to her as any other girl - there must be physical attraction, personality attraction, and that "spark"..

I apologize for the length of the book I just wrote.

Hi Onessa. I love black women. I am married to a beautiful black women and we've been married for three years. Where I am from I see alot of interratial couples, black girls with white guys and vice versa. If you see a single white guy that you like you should go talk to him and ask him out. Who knows maybe in a year or two you'll get married

I don't know, personally my eyes make me a little near-sighted. Also the black skin makes it more difficult to distinguish facial features, and harder to see beauty. I live in LA and there are too many ghetto black girls, they are rude, yet I also heard the ones in LA are distinct like that. Also I am Armenian, the culture is typically very anti-assimilationist, meaning it is easier to understand Armenian girls, and not so much others. They have distinct bodily features, and healthy pink-to-healthy-brown skin range.(too dark and I think "dirty", to pale I think "sick".

i meant we DONT BLEACH our skins lmaooooo

Black girls are amazing! I'm white but they don't seem interested in me, but I wish they were. They seem to only go after ghetto guys or guys that act like badasses even though they aren't. But trust me there are white guys out there that would love to have a black girl.

jason wrote:

Black girls are amazing! I'm white but they don't seem interested in me, but I wish they were. They seem to only go after ghetto guys or guys that act like badasses even though they aren't. But trust me there are white guys out there that would love to have a black girl.

Jason, I know what you mean. I hated the badasses, because4 it was an act. We even had them in college. A wanna-b-thug headed to calculus. If you see a lady and you are attracted; walk up to her and tell her how you feel. Black ladies hate 'punk ass men'. You will have to stand up and be a man and let her know how you feel; period. Good Luck! I prefer West Africans and Afro Caribbean’s personally.

Yes they would. If beyone or kerri washington ask an WM out for a day, he'll say yes.

Onessa wrote:

I am an African American girl living in New York City, and as you know, in New York..."anything goes". But why not White guys with Black girls?
I would LOVE to date a guy out of my race. I a attacted to: white.black.asian.indian. and mixed. As long as I like your personality. But why is it so hard for a white guy to look at a black girl? Are the arbitrary steotypes so influencial that they miss out on something beautiful? What's going on?

Believe me there's guys of every race all around you but you don't see it. Why I don't know. If you want to date them then ask them out. It's that simple