MALES: Are white women more attractive the Black Women?

I was reading something by Yazmarah that's so disturbing. He said that black women are on the bottom and they are generally unattractive and angry. He also said that white women are more softer, prettier and attractive than black women and that's the reason men run to white women. When I read that, I was so hurt because I'm a black woman, and to read something like about me is very hurtful. I'm so sick and tired of hearing people say that black women are ugly. Why, because we don't hae white skin, long, bouncy hair, and Caucasian features? I was devastated because I believe there are beautiful sistas. He also said that black women and white men are magnifying their insecurities and we're jealous of white women. So, I was wondering, what makes white women more attractive than us sistas? What physical attributes of white women attract black men to go after them? Please be honest.

(In the words of NL)

THAN (TYPO)

No Im mostly causasin and I believe an awesome, intelligent and driven Black Woman is just as attractive as a white, Hispanic, Asain etc. I wish people could just say we are all Americans, yet be grateful and also know our own familys history to how we got here today. AC

I agree this topic concerned me a lil the media is mostly made up of pretty white chicks every blue moon you will see a black chick.....and a dark black chick.....Forget it!!!!!

I am a white women and I think the reason guys find white girls more attractive is because we're not so loud and abnoxious or rude, and we don't intimidate them as much as most black girls do...and we have better speaking skills than most black people, so you can understand us alot better because we don't talk so fast and when we talk we complete the words we say like sista is really sister and it just kind of sounds like you guys slur your words together...thats my opinion and some of my guy friends because from my experience of being around black girls there all loud and I can't understand a word they are saying especially when there mad or trying to proove a point. I'm not saying there not intelligent they just sound very unintelligent.

haha wrote:

I am a white women and I think the reason guys find white girls more attractive is because we're not so loud and abnoxious or rude, and we don't intimidate them as much as most black girls do...and we have better speaking skills than most black people, so you can understand us alot better because we don't talk so fast and when we talk we complete the words we say like sista is really sister and it just kind of sounds like you guys slur your words together...thats my opinion and some of my guy friends because from my experience of being around black girls there all loud and I can't understand a word they are saying especially when there mad or trying to proove a point. I'm not saying there not intelligent they just sound very unintelligent.

I could have your man if I wanted baby...
I have no issues with getting a man white or black....Look at me...where's your picture?
The reason you are considered attractive is society plays you up to be more than you are...

This is the part where I could start calling you names however Why add insult to injury?

haha wrote:

I am a white women and I think the reason guys find white girls more attractive is because we're not so loud and abnoxious or rude, and we don't intimidate them as much as most black girls do...and we have better speaking skills than most black people, so you can understand us alot better because we don't talk so fast and when we talk we complete the words we say like sista is really sister and it just kind of sounds like you guys slur your words
together...thats my opinion and some of my guy friends because from my experience of being around black girls there all loud and I can't understand a word they are saying especially when there mad or trying to proove a point. I'm not saying there not intelligent they just sound very unintelligent.

gal you have got to be joking??? i have a white friend who speaks slang and talks quicker than me yet she is born in a high class family so there.

hell yes, black women are just ugly and unattractive. it doesn't matter what kind of white woman or girl you meet. they are just so freakin beautiful. omg, espeically when naked. also, they are just naturally beautiful. i've dated white females all my life and im only 19 and i'm lovin it. the way they act and talk and just the way they are is just hot!!!! I love white woman.

ckdafinest wrote:

hell yes, black women are just ugly and unattractive. it doesn't matter what kind of white woman or girl you meet. they are just so freakin beautiful. omg, espeically when naked. also, they are just naturally beautiful. i've dated white females all my life and im only 19 and i'm lovin it. the way they act and talk and just the way they are is just hot!!!! I love white woman.

19 huh, well that makes you an expert then! Everyone has preferences, frankly when I was 19 as long as they were equipped properly they were fair game to me. I've dated white women, black women, hispanic women, and currently married to an asian woman (I'm white). Everyone one of them was beautiful in their own way. While it's important to be with someone you feel sexually attracted to, race never was an issue for me I guess.

Cosmeticjunkiee wrote:

I was reading something by Yazmarah that's so disturbing. He said that black women are on the bottom and they are generally unattractive and angry. He also said that white women are more softer, prettier and attractive than black women and that's the reason men run to white women. When I read that, I was so hurt because I'm a black woman, and to read something like about me is very hurtful. I'm so sick and tired of hearing people say that black women are ugly. Why, because we don't hae white skin, long, bouncy hair, and Caucasian features? I was devastated because I believe there are beautiful sistas. He also said that black women and white men are magnifying their insecurities and we're jealous of white women. So, I was wondering, what makes white women more attractive than us sistas? What physical attributes of white women attract black men to go after them? Please be honest.
(In the words of NL)

I think it's because they're different... you know, grass being greener and whatnot. Why be insecure anyway? Find a man you can share a lifetime of moments with, isn't that what it's all about anyway? You can go through life being bitter about some supposed slight against you, or you could move on and realize that in the end things like this really don't matter, and while you're worrying about it you could be missing some really great men that even though they're not black or white or whatever they really put the juice in your jar.

Must a person ask the question that the answer everyone knows? Dark meat tastier in the chicken and turkey.

haha wrote:

I am a white women and I think the reason guys find white girls more attractive is because we're not so loud and abnoxious or rude, and we don't intimidate them as much as most black girls do...and we have better speaking skills than most black people, so you can understand us alot better because we don't talk so fast and when we talk we complete the words we say like sista is really sister and it just kind of sounds like you guys slur your words together...thats my opinion and some of my guy friends because from my experience of being around black girls there all loud and I can't understand a word they are saying especially when there mad or trying to proove a point. I'm not saying there not intelligent they just sound very unintelligent.

How many black in Waterloo, Iowa? I have driven one and never seen one--not even at popeye. You think a way of talk is only attractive but I know around world many people talk different and are lovely. You THINK you more attractive and that is your bigest problem.

Girl we black women are beautiful. Everyone of us black sistas are blessed by God and the sun because of our melanin.

Men run to white women because they're easy, but rest assure they come crawling back to black women in the end. I've seen this happen time and time again.

Our bodies do not fade in time. We grow more and more beautiful with each year that God blesses us. White women start aging rapidly at 25 yrs old. Hispanic women their bodies fade once they have that first baby.

Have confidence in yourself. There are plently of black men out there who are confident and are not afraid to be with black women. Don't waste your time worrying about the losers who go for easy targets (white women).

Flappity Yappity wrote:

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70% of black children are illegitimate, but white women are easy. Right; and O.J. is looking for the real killers...

I'm black and my parents are black. They've been married for 36 years and have 5 children together. I'm 19 yrs old so I'm not illegitamate and neither are my siblings.

Why would anyone even bring up this issue? All women are attractive in some way. You just have to know how to bring that something out! Oprah Winfrey and Monique(the comedian)are not typical 36-24-36 females yet they are incredibily attractive because they knows who they are, are very outgoing and self-assured!
Angela Jolie and Cathrine Zeta-Jones have that timeless beauty of yester-year as Sofia Loren and
Marilyn Monroe. So you see, attractiveness comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. It is a shame when we tend to group all members of a race together because of the shortcomings of a few. All black women are not loud and argumentative just as all white women are not soft, prettier or attractive than black women (ie Rosie O'donnell or Roseanne Barr).

No - ALL women are beautiful!!

Flappity Yappity wrote:

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What if she's a sweaty fat chick with missing teeth and hair on her feet?

Hmmm, how many missing teeth?

Of course your question doesn't specify race, which is my point. Race doesn't matter.

Well, I am a black man and dated black women for years. Through MY experiences, there are more trivial issues with dating a black woman than any other race. I think people say that white women, in this case, look better than black women not because of physical looks, byt attutude. You say that you know there are a lot of beautiful sistas, well, stop separating yourself from other women because it is not, first of all, the color of your skin that separates you. It is your attitude. Also, what type of men like the BIG ol' butt more than a beautiful face?

haha wrote:

I am a white women and I think the reason guys find white girls more attractive is because we're not so loud and abnoxious or rude, and we don't intimidate them as much as most black girls do...and we have better speaking skills than most black people, so you can understand us alot better because we don't talk so fast and when we talk we complete the words we say like sista is really sister and it just kind of sounds like you guys slur your words together...thats my opinion and some of my guy friends because from my experience of being around black girls there all loud and I can't understand a word they are saying especially when there mad or trying to proove a point. I'm not saying there not intelligent they just sound very unintelligent.

you are so ignorant. Get out and meet people before you can speak about the way people of a different nationality act. I bet you can count the number of black people you have met in your lifetime. People like you make me sad. It is america and you can say what you like but i have always felt that if what your going to say in uneducated, especially of a sensitive topic such as racism, keep your mouth shut until you actually have something to say. I understand your from the boondocks of america but re-evalute yourself sister and why you feel the way you do. We are all beautiful women.

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