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New Canaan police ID man in standoff-suicide

Full story: NewsTimes.com

New Canaan police have released the name of a man who they say killed himself after assaulting his ex-wife and barricading himself in her house while officers tried to negotiate with him.

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JacquesAse

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Maybe he went Cucco for Coco Puffs
Sally G

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Nov 11, 2008
 
"Police say 46-year-old Pasquale Cucco of Stamford killed himself during the 90-minute standoff Friday. Police have not said how he died."

Which is it? They don't know or he killed himself?
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Nov 11, 2008
 
Sally G wrote:
"Police say 46-year-old Pasquale Cucco of Stamford killed himself during the 90-minute standoff Friday. Police have not said how he died."
Which is it? They don't know or he killed himself?
Both, its called "double speak" ...its like giving up your liberty for freedom, doublespeak.

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Maybe he went Cucco for Coco Puffs
Awww, I wanted to say that...
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Pat was a good person.. Very good friend to me i will never forget him he will always be in my prayers.... If you knew the real story you would see why.... HUGS&KISSES TO YOU PAT!!!!!
LOVE YA,
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Stratford, CT

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Nov 11, 2008
 
rest in peace ,my dear , dear ,friend!!!!
Friend of Cucco Family

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Nov 13, 2008
 
You are beyond stupid for even having the nerve to print such an insensitive remark. Get a life.
Friend of Cucco Family

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Nov 13, 2008
 
JacquesAse wrote:
Maybe he went Cucco for Coco Puffs
You're a complete idiot who is totally insensitive.
Friend of Cucco Family

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Awww, I wanted to say that...
You're also a jerk for making fun of someone like this -- how would you feel if such comments were made about your parents, brother, sister, etc. Have a little respect.
New Canaan

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JacquesAse wrote:
Maybe he went Cucco for Coco Puffs
So sad... his was a great guy until he went missing a few days before this death. His was not the type of guys to take his own life.. but his was stalk and harassed for 90 mins .what they forgot to say his x wifes family were the cops....sometimes divorce and pressure your change your lives
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Nov 14, 2008
 
prayers for pat's family, mother and children especially. prayers for peace, comfort and consolation in times to come. questions will be answered in God's time... please don't despair.
FRIEND of Cuccos

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So sad... his was a great guy until he went missing a few days before this death. His was not the type of guys to take his own life.. but his was stalk and harassed for 90 mins .what they forgot to say his x wifes family were the cops....sometimes divorce and pressure your change your lives
First off, he is the type of guy to kill himself. The type of guy who hid in his ex wifes dollhouse for ten days, then broke into the basement and attacked her while she was washing clothes.

I was there the day he killed himself. He brutally assaulted the ex wife, in front of their two year old son. A couple days later she went to the doctors and found she has broken ribs, from when he was kicking her stomach while she covered their son. He was not harrassed by the police. They negotiated with him trying to save his life. I was there!!!!! He has so many warrants out for his arrest, including grand theft, and owes so many people money, that this was his only way out. You might be the family and are in morning, but the police and everyone else are mourning to. Just because this horrible thing happened, doesnt mean you can blame the police.

What happened was very sad and he was a good person, as his ex wife who he attacked wiill tell you. But he was sick and mentally unstable. That is a reason someone would kill themselves.

Oh and I was also there the nights he would drive by the house many times stalking her.

Your prayers should be with the ex wife who is horrified by what happened, and the two year old son that witnessed it all and keeps repeating "Daddy hit mommy, mommy screamed, we ran to mikes" the neighbor.
FRIEND of Cuccos

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Nov 17, 2008
 
New Canaan wrote:
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So sad... his was a great guy until he went missing a few days before this death. His was not the type of guys to take his own life.. but his was stalk and harassed for 90 mins .what they forgot to say his x wifes family were the cops....sometimes divorce and pressure your change your lives
oh and by the way, her family is not the cops, so you obviously dont understand the situation. Her father lives in florida. She is not related to anyone on the police force. And what were you implying????? That the new canaan and norwalk police, who were all there that day, are some crime family that planned to stay there until he hung himself? Thats absurd and bad accusations.

The outcome of this is sad. Why make it worse by blaming others. When a person is sick there is no one to blame.

RIP Pat

and God be with the ex wives and children and rest of the family in CT and Italy
Obamas Brain

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Nov 17, 2008
 
FRIEND of Cuccos wrote:
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oh and by the way, her family is not the cops, so you obviously dont understand the situation. Her father lives in florida. She is not related to anyone on the police force. And what were you implying????? That the new canaan and norwalk police, who were all there that day, are some crime family that planned to stay there until he hung himself? Thats absurd and bad accusations.
The outcome of this is sad. Why make it worse by blaming others. When a person is sick there is no one to blame.
RIP Pat
and God be with the ex wives and children and rest of the family in CT and Italy
Well the police are a gang, there is no doubt about that.
FRIEND of Cuccos

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Nov 17, 2008
 
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Well the police are a gang, there is no doubt about that.
I think I will assume your joking.
Obamas Brain

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Nov 17, 2008
 
FRIEND of Cuccos wrote:
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I think I will assume your joking.
No not at all, have you heard of the 100 club?
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FRIEND of Cuccos wrote:
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First off, he is the type of guy to kill himself. The type of guy who hid in his ex wifes dollhouse for ten days, then broke into the basement and attacked her while she was washing clothes.
I was there the day he killed himself. He brutally assaulted the ex wife, in front of their two year old son. A couple days later she went to the doctors and found she has broken ribs, from when he was kicking her stomach while she covered their son. He was not harrassed by the police. They negotiated with him trying to save his life. I was there!!!!! He has so many warrants out for his arrest, including grand theft, and owes so many people money, that this was his only way out. You might be the family and are in morning, but the police and everyone else are mourning to. Just because this horrible thing happened, doesnt mean you can blame the police.
What happened was very sad and he was a good person, as his ex wife who he attacked wiill tell you. But he was sick and mentally unstable. That is a reason someone would kill themselves.
Oh and I was also there the nights he would drive by the house many times stalking her.
Your prayers should be with the ex wife who is horrified by what happened, and the two year old son that witnessed it all and keeps repeating "Daddy hit mommy, mommy screamed, we ran to mikes" the neighbor.
friend of... i am sincerely asking you, what qualified this man "a good person". although no one person should judge another, he has a very extensive history, since he was a young man, of violence, disregard and disrespect toward women, a criminal record, very extensive history of lying, cheating, not taking psychological,emotional or financial resposibities to or for any one thing or anyone, creating serious pain and significant drama for everyone in his life, most particularly his wives, their children and wives family. perhaps it's your friend who was good or people that wanted to find the good in this man. i am not judging him but trying to comprehend what qualified his extensive history and behaviors as good. still, i pray for his children and now your friend as you mentioned she is horrified by the chain of events and left to pick up the peices as well as being blamed by the family for protecting herself and her children's safety. as a parent, someone that has parents and siblings, regardless of what a family member tries to portray or says is happening in their life, you know your family and if something has always been seriously wrong. all of his behaviors indicated that nothing was right.
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Nov 22, 2008
 
You sound like a person who really knew the whole story and as sad as everyone is, my heart goes out to the ex-wife who will have to live with the terror and fear that happenend on that awful day. Police were very upset also after knowing Pat for many years, so my prayers go out to all tha officers involved that day. I am sorry and saddened for all that were there and will never forget all the emotions. God Bless the ex-wife, her children,her family & friends, and all involved, rest in piece Pat...God Bless you
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Nov 22, 2008
 
New Canaan wrote:
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So sad... his was a great guy until he went missing a few days before this death. His was not the type of guys to take his own life.. but his was stalk and harassed for 90 mins .what they forgot to say his x wifes family were the cops....sometimes divorce and pressure your change your lives
A very sad and terrofying day for many, the police were saddened beyond words, what you forgot to mention is that the police knew Pat for many years from being in New Canaan which made this even harder and painful for them. All are sad, please stop blaming, it does no good to hurt people already sad and suffering.
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