Can women over 200lbs. be sexy?

i am a fat chick and i find fat men in general to b unattractive. a man should have some muscles. i dnt like a sack of bones either cuz other wise wed look like a olive and a tooth pick together. i have been told we fat girls got good coochie- haha could b b.s. tho

lmao wrote:

i am a fat chick and i find fat men in general to b unattractive. a man should have some muscles. i dnt like a sack of bones either cuz other wise wed look like a olive and a tooth pick together. i have been told we fat girls got good coochie- haha could b b.s. tho

My wife (who is 250, but carries it well) feels the same way. Funny, isn't it. She doesn't like fat men. I happen to be a runner who is well under 200 lbs, so she likes the way I'm build (just as I like hers).

If she owns it

I am 5'7" and I weigh 290.2lbs...I am very pretty and have NEVER had a problem attracting men. I just began a new health plan today bcuz I can hardly bend to tie my own shoes!(...and it embarasses me to have my man do it for me...lol). My point is....YES..overweight women CAN be sexy..but overweight women/men are NOT HEALTHY... I am a nurse....and should have nipped this problem in the bud years ago! I AM a sexy woman but I prefer being a secy slim woman...lol. Wish me luck!(grin)

Lipchick wrote:

I am 5'7" and I weigh 290.2lbs...I am very pretty and have NEVER had a problem attracting men. I just began a new health plan today bcuz I can hardly bend to tie my own shoes!(...and it embarasses me to have my man do it for me...lol). My point is....YES..overweight women CAN be sexy..but overweight women/men are NOT HEALTHY... I am a nurse....and should have nipped this problem in the bud years ago! I AM a sexy woman but I prefer being a secy slim woman...lol. Wish me luck!(grin)

I wish you well, but don't lose too much weight!

I would like to thank sandokan for all his comments he gives larger women a hope and he sounds like he really loves his wife. I'm 5'10 and weigh 200 I've been with my husband for 20 years and he tells me everyday how sexy I am. Just because u may b big doesn't mean u can't b pretty and sexy. Not bragging just want to give hope I get hit on by men all the time so there r guys that think bigger women look good. Plus we fill out a dress like nobodys business we have an hour glass shape with big boobs and nice butt. So larger women everywhere hang in there.

Thank u wrote:

I would like to thank sandokan for all his comments he gives larger women a hope and he sounds like he really loves his wife. I'm 5'10 and weigh 200 I've been with my husband for 20 years and he tells me everyday how sexy I am. Just because u may b big doesn't mean u can't b pretty and sexy. Not bragging just want to give hope I get hit on by men all the time so there r guys that think bigger women look good. Plus we fill out a dress like nobodys business we have an hour glass shape with big boobs and nice butt. So larger women everywhere hang in there.

You're welcome, St. Louis girl! Ha ha. Sounds like you know what pleases us men who like tall and big women. I love your confidence, just as my wife is confident about herself. I'm sure your husband is proud of having his wife hit on a lot. My wife gets second looks took, especially with me being about 5 inches shorter! I like it, though.

Okay wrote:

Well, Im over 200 and I've had sexual experiences with 4 men in the last 4 months - all of whom were married to much thinner women... evidently they find me sexy. I didnt come onto any of them - they all initiated it on their own.

4 married men in 4 months!!! You sound as if you are proud of that. Do you have any morals? Did they pay you? You have self-esteem issues and no respect for yourself.

It's always insecure people that cheats that don't have any morals or they wouldn't be out cheating with someone else's husband and that's the same with the husband that are cheating they are insecure and has not been taught any morals.

sad wrote:

It's always insecure people that cheats that don't have any morals or they wouldn't be out cheating with someone else's husband and that's the same with the husband that are cheating they are insecure and has not been taught any morals.

I'm in total agreement with you, Miss Sad.

People who do such things don't really consider that not only do they hurt the wife, but hurts and disappoint the children even more!

And because you are overweight don't make your insecure or have no morals I know plenty of average size woman that is so insecure and has no morals and messes with married men and that are married them self they just need the attention from someone else's husband.

I think all women are beautiful I think its what in tge inside that counts all of you just dont have a heart

I believe any size woman is beautiful if she has a good heart and has good morals, it don't matter how pretty her outside is it's all about the person she is on the inside if she has no morals and a kind heart then that makes her a ugly woman.

I have been with my woman for years and have no prob, it doesn't matter what is going on on the outside, all that matters is what is in your heart. And if you truely love the woman it does not matter if she is 100 or 300 lbs, I LOVE MINE

I know it doesn't really matter. It comes down to taste. My wife is a 250 pound lady who carries it very well.

If there were 2 ladies who are beautiful on the inside. One is skinny, the other being plus-sized, I'd always take the plus-sized, and I've got mine!

Diamonddave- wrote:

i think the real question here is can a woman under 200 lbs be sexy

absolutely!!! when you are out... just follow mens eyes... you will see what im talking about.

guest wrote:

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4 married men in 4 months!!! You sound as if you are proud of that. Do you have any morals? Did they pay you? You have self-esteem issues and no respect for yourself.

i do believe these men heard she was easy... which has nothing to do with wheather they found her sexy... i do believe she posted on the wrong topic... shot that confidence all to hades!

Sweet40somn wrote:

WOW There`s a lot of hate n going on here.
I thought it was funny when my uncle told me the only thing he wanted from a skinny woman was for her to tell him where the fat ladies at ?

why? was he wanting to smell her sweat or to see where her legs rub together?

Okay wrote:

<quoted text>Nope - Im not a hooker. Just a well-educated, gainfully employed woman who dearly loves sex!

no honey, they heard you were easy and that has nothing to do with sexy.

stuffit wrote:

<quoted text>no honey, they heard you were easy and that has nothing to do with sexy.

Amen! Being easy is so un-sexy. I've never been attracted to tramps!