Denim & Diamonds Owner Dennis Hess Dead?

Kevin wrote:

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Has he paid everyone back what he owes? How about my 71 year old mother? Has he called her like I asked him to? I KNOW all the facts. CAREFUL! If you need to talk to me...you know my number & you know where I live. Now I ask you to make sure YOU have all the facts before making comments.

Kevin, last time I checked this conversation was about Dennis, not your mother. I never said that I didn't owe people money cause I do. I also told you that I would pay her back and I will. Tracey and I have talked about that. So lets keep this about the problem at hand, you and I have been friends for a while now and I would like that to stay that way.

The reason some people couldn't help Dennis is that Lena broke his phone. This kept him from contacting his old friends, who could and would have taken him into their home. Many did not know until it was too late.

plain angry and dealing wrote:

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Go back and re-read the original post I quoted??
He DID love his family. Immensely. I am not even going to give these two the time of response. Simply Nonsense posting. Anyone around this situation especially when Dennis was left with no clothing, food, shelter, transportation etc.. would not even dream of thinking this monster should get any respect. They would also realize that whatever plans the “Club” does now with Dennis’s name is exploit it. Which was really her point in the first place….
This Gene character, and sidekick could not be even remotely in touch with the reality of the situation; even at a stretch,. I will even go as far as to say this post is bogus. I mean who says they love their wife and hate their kids and then turns on a dime and says; “Respect his memory” so I told them they lost their mind? Does this clarify? ;)

Sorry! I clicked the wrong reply when I left that...I knew what you meant. Jo DandD & Gene are obviously out of the loop & haven't been around in quite a while. 42 years of friendship or not.

Facts !!!!

1. Dennis Hess did not keep in contact with these children, they found him.

2. 2 Moms were pregnant at the same time.

3. His son is in prison and you can research why.

4. He has been with his wife 5 years

5. In sound mind, he gave away his assets to her. Because he did not want his children or others to take this from her.

6. He was a very intelligent business man.

I trust he knew what was best in his personal interest. It was never my place to judge !!! I spoke with him last week. We did not speak daily, however we did manage to always stay in touch through out the years. I am not wishing anyone to judge him, just have some facts. he would tell you himself, he was not perfect !!!

disgusted wrote:

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What does this have to do with Dennis? She was talking about what they owed Dennis not your mother dumbass! If that is so that doesn't belong here. This is for Dennis, not some personal issue you might have with Craig. How about think of other's and not yourself in this time of sorrow and the joy's of knowing Dennis, we all loved him.

Hey dumbass: Why don't you go back & read the original blog that Heather put in here. She is the one that said people shouldn't be blogging about things they don't have the facts on. His post is just clearing up their misconceptions of the truth. Not all that she blogged about is the entire truth either. This was his way of letting them know he does have the facts.

No one is perfect,MORON. You are really just a despicable excuse for a human being. I can't imagine that Dennis would have tolerated anyone like you in his life.

Dennis had one trait that made him the best, but the same trait ended up costing him his life - looking for the good in everyone. He was endearing to many people because he was kind, and always tried to see the good in people. Even in Lena. Little did he know that trying to see good in her would end up costing him his life. There are some people that are pure evil, she is one of those people. It was an unfortunate day their paths ever crossed.

let me tell u about lena she is nothing but white trash from marshall mo that has taken men for money as well as her mother her mother is not around right now she is under investigation right now for one husbsnd lena has taken this to a new level and this blood sucking snake is not going to get away with this

what comes around goes around lena ur goig to burn in hell bitch

If you indeed know Dennis, you know he has a habit of repeating things he might have already told you!!! The most common thing he has repeated in the past three and a half months is that he wished he had never met her...and yes, I would know.

lena ur heartless

Midwest Lady wrote:

Dennis had one trait that made him the best, but the same trait ended up costing him his life - looking for the good in everyone. He was endearing to many people because he was kind, and always tried to see the good in people. Even in Lena. Little did he know that trying to see good in her would end up costing him his life. There are some people that are pure evil, she is one of those people. It was an unfortunate day their paths ever crossed.

I do agree with this. I DO KNOW that Dennis told me each time I spoke with him that he LOVED HER but she just had some people in her life steering her in the wrong direction. He also told me quote/unquote that he wasn't IN LOVE with her anymore. He said that he wasn't in love with her anymore because she was trying to take everything he owned & take away from his kids. That IS what he told me as GOD as my witness.

I also know that Dennis ALWAYS would help the underdog/person in trouble because I know he could relate. The way I look at this though is he has spent his life taking care of whatever troubles have come his way. He didn't have to do horrible things to people to set HIS records straight. The biggest thing his friends are upset with is how she has gone about it. Be an upstanding person & bow out gracefully.

When Dennis asked that we keep going cause he WAS going to get the bar back I told him I couldn't. I LOVED going out but there was no way I could go back as long as she was in charge. I physically witnessed many things she has claimed that Dennis did & all the while she was doing it herself. I can't support the double standards. If she hadn't involved so many people then we wouldn't feel the way we do. Then, how can she ask HIS friends not to speak with him & if they do they would not be allowed in HER bar. Please...we have morales & standards ourselves.

Gene wrote:

Facts !!!!
1. Dennis Hess did not keep in contact with these children, they found him.
2. 2 Moms were pregnant at the same time.
3. His son is in prison and you can research why.
4. He has been with his wife 5 years
5. In sound mind, he gave away his assets to her. Because he did not want his children or others to take this from her.
6. He was a very intelligent business man.
I trust he knew what was best in his personal interest. It was never my place to judge !!! I spoke with him last week. We did not speak daily, however we did manage to always stay in touch through out the years. I am not wishing anyone to judge him, just have some facts. he would tell you himself, he was not perfect !!!

Hello, Gene
Out of the six comments you made, only 3 were correct...#1-Brian & Melissa were adopted by Karen's new husband which was agreed upon between them...#2- I was not pregnant with Michelle when Audra was born, and for your info, the night Audra was born, Denny & I drove over by KU Medical Center at which time I told him I would wait in the car if he wanted to go in and see Audra & Jeanine...Ya think Lena would have done that...Brian & Melissa did not know about Denny &
Jeanine never kept Audra from him and he chose to stay out of Michelle's life until she was ready to see him..that was my agreement with him from the get-go!!I'm curious, Gene, were you jealous of Denny because he did have a way with women & we all fell in love with him back then...Even tho I do not have to justify to you or Lena or anyone what conversations Denny & I had in the past regarding our children, we loved each other in a mature, adult way that no one can take from us...The only time I ever got jealous was when Denny wouldn't dance because he was winning at pool, so I threw his pool cue case out the car window leaving the Hilltop!!! And if you think you are hurting his family by the things you are saying...grow up...Denny did not lie to his kids, so everything you said about them draining his pockets...he probably said that on a weekly basis to all of them...Denny DID NOT BACK-STAB!!!!
Peace Out, Gene...I think there's a hurricane heading straight for you!

Diane, the only woman Denny ever loved, well besides half the women in KC, Atchison, Leavenworth...Get a grip, dick

I just want to make sure about what I have read. Half agree that Lena is a no good person and Dennis is a saint, with the ability to do wrong on occasion and the family is upset. Please let me know if I am up to speed on information. If so, can we find some other stuff to talk about. It only took 272 postings to reach this conclusion.

Memory Lane wrote:

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Hello, Gene
Out of the six comments you made, only 3 were correct...#1-Brian & Melissa were adopted by Karen's new husband which was agreed upon between them...#2- I was not pregnant with Michelle when Audra was born, and for your info, the night Audra was born, Denny & I drove over by KU Medical Center at which time I told him I would wait in the car if he wanted to go in and see Audra & Jeanine...Ya think Lena would have done that...Brian & Melissa did not know about Denny &
Jeanine never kept Audra from him and he chose to stay out of Michelle's life until she was ready to see him..that was my agreement with him from the get-go!!I'm curious, Gene, were you jealous of Denny because he did have a way with women & we all fell in love with him back then...Even tho I do not have to justify to you or Lena or anyone what conversations Denny & I had in the past regarding our children, we loved each other in a mature, adult way that no one can take from us...The only time I ever got jealous was when Denny wouldn't dance because he was winning at pool, so I threw his pool cue case out the car window leaving the Hilltop!!! And if you think you are hurting his family by the things you are saying...grow up...Denny did not lie to his kids, so everything you said about them draining his pockets...he probably said that on a weekly basis to all of them...Denny DID NOT BACK-STAB!!!!
Peace Out, Gene...I think there's a hurricane heading straight for you!
Diane, the only woman Denny ever loved, well besides half the women in KC, Atchison, Leavenworth...Get a grip, dick

You go girl! I've been trying to look up marriage licenses too...can't seem to get into the screen. My computer keeps blocking the pop up. I KNOW he & Lena haven't been together no 5 years.

I do need to make one thing perfectly clear regarding his children draining him dry...How many of you out there have children? Did you quit giving them money when they turned 16? Doubt it!!!My "baby's daddy" never in 18 years paid me a dime of child support, nor did he support Brian, Melissa, or Audra...That does not make him a bad person or deserve to die...he bitched about it like every parent and I know out of guilt (he told me so) that if any of his kids or grandkids needed anything, they better call him. Now can we let that subject go....

Diane MOODY BLUES ROCK!!

curious wrote:

I just want to make sure about what I have read. Half agree that Lena is a no good person and Dennis is a saint, with the ability to do wrong on occasion and the family is upset. Please let me know if I am up to speed on information. If so, can we find some other stuff to talk about. It only took 272 postings to reach this conclusion.

Nobody is stopping you from talking about anything. There are billions and billions of other sites on your internet to talk all you want. Take your happy ass there and start posting if you don't like what your reading here. Trust me when i tell you we aren't holding you hostage here.

And furthermore, just an FYI, its more than half on here that agree that Lena is a no good person. And that's a very polite way of putting it. Obviously you haven't been comprehending what you read. I myself don't see to many posting in the 272 that have much good to say about her. DO YOUR MATH....

country girl wrote:

And furthermore, just an FYI, its more than half on here that agree that Lena is a no good person. And that's a very polite way of putting it. Obviously you haven't been comprehending what you read. I myself don't see to many posting in the 272 that have much good to say about her. DO YOUR MATH....

Thank you, Country Girl!
I wanted to respond to this one last night, but I was a little busy defending Denny's children...Dennis was taken away too suddenly & too soon & his family are in shock..regardless of all the bickering! Which by the way, happens in all families...His friends need a forum to vent, and even if it starts out nice & pretty, all the emotions take over...So, please, write what you are feeling, because ALOT of it is very helpful!

Diane

I think there is a little truth here and I by no means am sticking up for Lena.

I have pictures of Dennis & Lena at my Daughters 13th birthday party, she is now 17 so yes they have been together for 5 years but only married for 3 I was at their wedding.

I have known dennis since I was 22 and he has been in his childrens lives at least that long so the guy in florida is drinking funny shit as far as I am concerened.

I liked Dennis and lena equally, had dinner with them, went places with them, had them in my home. I was fine with her till she deprived him of his food for his feeding tube, and had him arrested twice in one day because he was talking to her or visiting her at her request, and the other countless things that have went on in the last year. That is first hand information the man told me himself, I watched some of it not all but some. The woman lied through her teeth to me about normal everyday things.

I dont know what her motives are but I do know you dont treat someone like this that you love.
This is not the first time Dennis dated a woman that had alterior motives. I distinctly remember another Blond that was just as Evil but never got the chance to take it this far. She filed restraining orders, wanted his bar and on and on and on. So with that said he often attacted women that did not love him for him. I do know that I have on more than one occassion heard him talk about the mothers of his children and that he cared for them. Shit one year sent one of them flowers on her birthday. Dont condem the man because he was not a perfect father. As far as his son is concerned that is in prision that is no ones business we need to leave that one alone. Dennis was sick over that situation. No one needs to go and read about it.

Bashing Dennis or Lena either one will not bring him back I wish it would, oh how I wish it would. I have a family member and a friend who were his absolute best friends. They spoke everyday and I dont know that they will ever get over losing him.
They babysat him, they picked him up off the floor, they were there for him and lena let this mess consume their lives.

What lena has done can not be changed the list of things she has done are endless.

We should all be talking about how we will never support anything she does so that she will fail and have to live with what she has done rather than feeding what she lives on the most DRAMA, CAIOUS, CONFUSION AND SCREWING PEOPLE. Perhaps its time the tables were turned on her. No one should go to Denim & Diamaonds. No one should be her friend. No one should contact her.

Rebecca's dad needs to get custody

She needs to be hit with the things that will effect her instead of the things that will feed her.

His funeral will be something I am sure we will all be in awe of he was a well liked man and he was a hated man. Depends on who you are. Regardless the buck needs to stop here with feeding her.

Let the police do their job, boycot her and celebrate him. 277 posts of I hate lena wont change what she has done. What will is turning your back on her. I have no intention of speaking to her at his funeral and I dont suggest anyone else do either. She wants to act like a gold digger and do gold digger things then you get treated like one.

SILENCE IS GOLDEN. Its more true than you know the more that show true dissappointment in her the more powerful effect it will have. When she tries to talk to you simply reply with nothing just look and turn you have no idea how this will effect her if it happens to her each and every time.

No one should speak to her at his funeral.

I would be so offended if people only offerered their condolences my husbands kids and grandkids if he died. The legacy posts on the obit page do exactly that they dont console Lena at all in fact her name is hardly mentioned. Same needs to apply at his funeral. That will have a very big impact on her.