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Bubbles
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Oh, Kathy, I'm sorry your lost your babies. What a horrible thing to experience!!!! I will definitely say a pray for your and your babies this coming Sunday. This is why children are so precious. You must enjoy every day you have with them. What happened to you only the Lord knows, but to murder one's own child goes beyond words, they are so cute and precious. You're in my prayers. I will think of you when I say the rosary. God Bless. kathy hahn wrote: Bubbles
I think we are all angry and will be for some time. it is ok to be angry but to stay angry causes a lot of long term problems for the person who chooses that.
mass is good,prayer is awesome. I pray all the time, not just in church. Steve's family and his in laws have been an amazing testimony of faith and strength in this ordeal. but it will take a long time for their anger to be healed.
thank you for all your prayer. may was a horrible and sad month in our family, once again. last may I gave birth at nine months to one still born male son and another twin son who lived a week with no cause for why it happened that way. everything was excellent until delivery. so I understand grief and anger. and faith and healing. keep the faith and keep trying to find the answers inside of the faith, right? talk to you soon, maybe. Kathy
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sarah
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that is so pathetic, that a woman has to fear her husband
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Concerned Friend
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MKR wrote: I'm curious as to where Jacquie and her daughter are now. Not that it matters, but she and my sister and I grew up together in the SF Valley and we were at her wedding/baby shower. We drifted apart as I moved around the country and formed one of those annual contact "catch-up" friendships, which is why when I started thinking about why I hadn't heard from her and got no response from contact I started to get worried. I knew there was some trouble but am horrified at how bad things had gotten.
I don't need specifics, just generals so I can head in the right direction. I imagine she's not in the house any longer?
Thanks in advance for anyone's help. She has moved to PA with her Father and Step Mother. You may be able to contact the Daily Breeze, they probably have the info. If you send her mail to the old address, I think her mail has been forwarded. Good Luck, she needs all the support she can get.
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MKR
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Thanks so much. I figured she'd gone back to Pennsylvania. I called her cell but it went directly to voicemail and I didn't have the courage to leave a message. I mean, what do I say? I'm so sorry kinda doesn't cover the magnitude of what happened.
I hope she comes back, I really do. Last night I pulled out pictures of when we were teenagers clubbing in the valley, parties, Palm Springs. I also found the wedding picture she put into her thank you card for the gift and cannot believe all this happened to the same people looking back at me. They were SO happy that day and they bothed looked amazing.
Heck, I even remember the day she got her braces off and how happy her mom was at how pretty they were. Or when she retired after all those years in the kitchen. So unbelievably sad. Her mom was the sweetest lady, I swear.
Anyway, I'll try sending a card and see where that leads me.
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Concerned Friend
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MKR wrote: Thanks so much. I figured she'd gone back to Pennsylvania. I called her cell but it went directly to voicemail and I didn't have the courage to leave a message. I mean, what do I say? I'm so sorry kinda doesn't cover the magnitude of what happened.
I hope she comes back, I really do. Last night I pulled out pictures of when we were teenagers clubbing in the valley, parties, Palm Springs. I also found the wedding picture she put into her thank you card for the gift and cannot believe all this happened to the same people looking back at me. They were SO happy that day and they bothed looked amazing.
Heck, I even remember the day she got her braces off and how happy her mom was at how pretty they were. Or when she retired after all those years in the kitchen. So unbelievably sad. Her mom was the sweetest lady, I swear.
Anyway, I'll try sending a card and see where that leads me. Leave a message, she should get it.
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MKR
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Are you in contact with her at all? Or any of the family? Kim or her cousins or even the Picks? I'm hungry for information thinking it will help me understand... that's what my heart tells me, even though my head knows that no matter what my searching finds we will never understand.
I contacted her (former?) best friend and even she didn't know what was happening now. I guess my question is if she's open to all the people who want to talk to her.
God, I don't even know what to tell myself let alone her.
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Concerned Friend
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Yes, I am in contact with her and Yes, I think she would want to hear from you. Do you know where she used to live? I'll be there at 9am-? tomorrow loading the POD (to ship to her) and getting ready for the estate sale so she can sell the house. Does
this help? You could come by and I could get you some info.
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MKR
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Unfortunately I work weekends from about 8 to 4:30... I may be able to get off tomorrow but I need to see if I can get someone to cover for me. I do remember her house and exactly how to get there (such a quaint, sweet little neighborhood.) If you could email me off this board I'd appreciate it, that way maybe I can give you my number or you can email me with more details?
redransom@hotmail.com
And I don't mean to sound patronizing, but God bless you for helping her.
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Concerned Friend
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MKR I sent you an e-mail with my phone number, call me.
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Bubbles
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Hi Kathy, I thought of you at Mass yesterday. It was a very uplifting service, being it was Father's Day. I prayed for you and your babies and your strength to overcome and move on and have more babies despite this sad setback. Today I'm very angry and shouldn't let it get to me, but in Turlock a man was killed when he was caught beating a baby to death. I pray for strength... kathy hahn wrote: Bubbles
I think we are all angry and will be for some time. it is ok to be angry but to stay angry causes a lot of long term problems for the person who chooses that.
mass is good,prayer is awesome. I pray all the time, not just in church. Steve's family and his in laws have been an amazing testimony of faith and strength in this ordeal. but it will take a long time for their anger to be healed.
thank you for all your prayer. may was a horrible and sad month in our family, once again. last may I gave birth at nine months to one still born male son and another twin son who lived a week with no cause for why it happened that way. everything was excellent until delivery. so I understand grief and anger. and faith and healing. keep the faith and keep trying to find the answers inside of the faith, right? talk to you soon, maybe. Kathy
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Bubbles
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Kathy, what happened to you? Haven't seen you post here in awhile. You know, I said a prayer for you during Mass today. I also thought of Mr. Pick and his son, I said a little prayer for them as well. Let me know that you are OK. Kathy Hahn wrote: Bubbles. I think we can disagree on each other's idea's of compassion. I have been called a bleeding heart more than once. I just happen to know addiction stems from pain and compassion is needed to heal all pain. not just selective pain. I love steve. I wish he would have chosen to only take his own life. but I have no control over that. I cant stop loving my friends because I hate what they do-could you?
anyway I appreciate your prayer at mass, if it is a real one, I appreciate it. sinerely. and when I am at Set free (yes a non denominational church for recovering everythings-addicts, abused children, sexually abused woman, etc) I will say a sincere prayer for you. sorry that I insulted you, I think things are pretty emotional and too personal to me right now, so you were right when you said I acted like a hypocrite. you sure are one tough nemesis.:) thanks to JK for his sort of comment. I dont need to respons to LOST in whatever state he/she is in. we all need help sometimes. such is life. I am literally off now to a candelight vigil for my "normal" non drug using friend who fell victim to a seizure in his sleep. I am sure he has nothing left to debate but lives in complete peace. that is what I wish for all of you who commented on this blog. Peace and love be with you all!
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Bubbles
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Kathy?
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